什么秘密是你在现实中不会说出来，但是在quora上会用匿名说出来？ [美国媒体]

What is a secret which you would not tell anybody in real life, but would on Quora using anonymity?

什么秘密是你在现实中不会说出来，但是在quora上会用匿名说出来？



Anonymous
I was in two minds whether to share or not even as anonymous, but finally decided for it.The story goes back to about 4 years. I am upper middle class family Indian woman now 29 years, with very good figure and physic working in a reputed company. I have gathered many friends in my office. Female as well as males too, may be due to my behaviour and looks. We have frequent get-togethers at someones place and have a very friendly atmosphere.Mine was an arranged marriage when I was 22. My husband also is working at one prestigious company, though not at very high level.My in-laws are very caring for me. They stay in other city where they got retired. As all parents wished, they also were after us to gift them their grandchild. But almost 3 years after marriage, nothing happened though we were not using any safety during our intimacy. When we consulted our doctor, we came to know that my hubby had no 'power' required as the count was well below the requirement. We were very upset, but kept it as secret. We were not in favour of artificial insemination as we can't trust quality of sperms donor. Other option was to find the "Natural doner" but keeping secrecy also was an issue. He wanted that his friends should not come to know about his inability. In my male friend circle in my office, there was one whom I was really 'liking'. Let us call him MK. I decided to take a chance. One fine morning in office, I invited him to take lunch together. During lunch, when we sat together, I was quite nervous about how to start the topic. I told him that one of my close friends needs a help. She desperately wants to have a baby, but her hubby is .... and just few times of intimacy with her will be of great help if everything is kept as total secret. Her hubby is prepared to accept it. And the doner should not claim on the child. Can you help? He was totally unprepared for all this. He inquired about who is that woman in need. I said, "I will tell you later if you agree"He showed his willingness and agreed to keep it total secret. After reaching home, I discussed the things with my hubby. He gave his consent. He said, "we can offer our place for this." But I said that it will be too much awkward for me in your presence. But still, let us call him.Next day, when MK was alone on his table, I just casually approached his table and said,"wanted to share the details we discussed yesterday. Hope you will keep it to yourself." He assured it. Then in low voice, I told him that I am that woman who needs your help. He was stunned. I told him to take his own time. But by the end of the day, during coffee break, he told me that he is ready. But we have to plan the things well. Then I told him that it will be too awkward for me at my home. In 2 days time, he arranged one service apartment near my locality for 15 days. Then in the evening, I took my daily need clothes in a small suitcase and my hubby left me near the service apartment. I said sorry to him. He whispered in my eyes "Don't be afraid. Everything will be alright" and left.After some time, MK also reached and we both entered the apartment together and registered there as husband and wife. Room was spacious and arrangement for food, tea coffee etc for the occupants was there. We sat on sofa and both were feeling a bit uncomfortable but excited. My heartbeat was too high. Then he slowly started conversation. He consoled me for the situation. "Be assured, I will keep everything top secret forever. I am really happy that you chose me to give you a child. Love you so much" And slowly took me in his arms . My body was trembling. He just held me for some time. When I looked up, he took my face near his and gave me a deep kiss. I did not resist. For undressing also, he took the initiative and started removing my clothes. This was my first experience to be alone in a company of male for intimacy purpose. Though feeling awkward, I liked his patience and initiative. It was such a different feeling when he covered my space between legs with his palm and his fingers searched the inner space also. He took my hand and made my fingers wrap his male part. It was quite hard. After playing with my breasts and pussy, he made me lie down on my back and we had intense intercourse. After that, for sometime, we laid with each other looking into eyes of each other. I had a mixed feeling of guilt and satisfaction. For the first time in my life, I could experience real pleasure of sex. He said, "You are really very sexy lady. Are you ok now? How are you feeling now?" I said I too enjoyed a lot and thanked him for his support. That night, we had our dinner and came back to room. By this time, my shyness was reduced a bit. He started to share some non-veg jokes and that reduced my shyness further. Before going to bed, we had again one round of intercourse. We laid in arms of each other without clothes. It was pleasure to share one common cover and inspecting each others body parts.In the morning, we both got ready and left for home. My hubby was waiting for me. He did not ask a single word. It was awkward moment for me. He just hugged me and said, "Don't think so much. Everything will be alright". He saw tears in my eyes. Then we left for our duty.For the next 2 weeks, every evening, me and MK spent nights together at apartment. Both were having great time. My shyness was totally gone. I even started taking initiative myself. After a gap of 2 more weeks, we again hired the same apartment for one month and started having our intimate nights there. And nature too helped us. Before the month ended, I was having pregnancy symptoms. Me and my hubby were soo happy. I took permission to go to apartment for one more evening. When me and MK met, I told him the news. He took me in his arms and kissed me passionately.In due course of time, baby boy was born. MK also was there with my hubby to welcome the newborn. In hospital, when no one else was there, he whispered in my ears "Darling, count on me for your next baby too". Now our son is 2 and half years. Cute and handsome. Thanks to both, my hubby as well as MK.Except my husband and MK, this has remained just a top secret till date.

回答一：
即使是匿名，我也在犹豫是否应该把秘密说出来. 哎，最终还是说出来吧.
故事还得回到4年前.

我是印度中上层家庭的一名女性，今年29岁，身材很好，在一家着名的公司工作。
可能是由于我的行为和外表，经常有很多朋友聚集在我办公室里.
有男有女.



到家后，我和丈夫讨论了这些事情。他同意了。
他说，“可以在我们的卧室里做”，我说，老公在场的话，我就太尴尬了.
不过，我们还是打电话叫MK过来.

第二天，MK独自一人坐在那里时，
我漫不经心地走到他的桌子前说，“想分享一下我们昨天讨论的事情，希望你能保密“.
他同意保密. 然后我低声告诉他，我就是那个需要帮助的女人.

他惊呆了，我告诉他慢慢考虑一下，
晚上的时候，在休息喝咖啡时，他跟我说，他已经准备好了.
不过我们还得详细讨论一些行事的细节.

我跟他说，在家里做，我会很尴尬，于是，他就在我家附近定了间客房，租期15天.
晚上的时候，我就带一些日常穿的衣服，一个小提箱.
老公带我到客房那里，我向老公道歉，
老公则看着我的眼睛低声说:“不要担心，一切都会好起来的“.
过了几天，MK住了进来，我们在前台登记是登记为夫妻的.



在接下来的两个星期里，每天晚上，我和MK都在公寓里过夜.
两人都玩得很开心。
我的羞怯完全消失了，我甚至开始主动了.
又过了两周，我们又租了一间同样的公寓，住了一个月，开始在那里度过我们亲密的夜晚.
老天也帮助了我们。那个月结束前，我就有了怀孕的症状。
我和我丈夫都非常高兴。

我获准再去公寓住一个晚上。当我和MK见面时，我告诉了他这个消息。
他把我抱在怀里，热情地吻了我。
过了一段时间，男孩出生了。
MK和我丈夫也在那里迎接新生儿。
在医院里没人的时候，他在我耳边轻声说:“亲爱的，你的下一个孩子也可以指望我。”
现在我们的儿子已经2岁半了。可爱和英俊。多亏了我老公和MK。
除了我丈夫和MK，没人知道这件事情.



Mohammed Yousuf
In our Indian society I can not imagine a husband allows his wife to sleep with a man to conceive.

在我们印度社会，我无法想象一个丈夫会允许他的妻子和一个别的男人一起睡觉去受孕.

Anonymous
Secret 1: I have sex with my husband's friend whenever we find time.
Secret 2: My father-in-law used me for sex many times.
Now don't judge me before reading my story.My husband, I and my father-in-law live in Chennai in an apartment. I and my husband are married since 2 years. It was an arranged marriage and my parents live in Kanyakumari. We were happy for the first few days until I found that he was an addict to alcohol. He had just given up drinking for few weeks before and after marriage after his dad constantly persisted him not to drink saying that the girl and their family would reject the proposal if he drinks. But he was not able to give up for more than few weeks after marriage. He started drinking again because of course, the marriage is over.He came back home unstable most of the nights. Sometimes he even feel on roads and in the bars and I used to take autorickshaws to bring him home. Initially I believed that I can change him. I tried understanding why he wants to drink. He sat near him in the morning and asked politely. But he said it's none of my business. I tried all that I could do. I tried taking, I cried, I even said that I will go back to my parents. But he never changed. On the other hand, my parents never knew any of this. They were thinking that I was happy with my husband.While all this happened, my father-in-law kept quite the entire time watching them politely. He never cared. I once talked to him as well saying that he is coming back home drinking every night and we should take him to rehabilitation center. But he just said “why should I care about him? He will never change. I tried all I could. He killed my wife because of his attitude and now he wants to kill both of us with the same attitude. He will never change”I asked him back “Then why did you marry me with him?”He started crying pleeding me too forgive him and even feel in my legs. I felt very bad for him. But I was totally frustrated with my life. On the other hand, I was a working lady and the work pressure was also killing me. So I decided to resign my job and try to change to husband by caring him full-time. But that didn't work as well.I took him to rehabilitation centers. He didn't stay there for more than 2 days. I even followed him whenever he went to bars and pubs for few days. I used to sit in a different table right in front of him in the pubs. He never cared but drank. I took my friend with me everytime since I was too scared to go alone. I and my friend were even molested by the other men in the bar. One rich guy even approached us asking us to have a threesome with him for 15000 rupees each. He called us “bitches” when we refused. He kept abusing us that night with all possible ill words that you could imagine. My friend who is actually a very brave girl gave up and refused to come with me after that incident. I had to give up too.Then one day it was 11pm at night and I got a call from an unknown number. I picked to hear my husband's friend Shyam’s voice who said that my friend had drunk too much and fallen in his home. He asked me to bring my car since he don't have one to take him to our home. I know Shyam very well as my friend's husband and he is a very nice guy. He don't drink. My husband had drunk too much and gone to his home and fallen there. I went to his home and found my husband lying flat on the bed. I tried walking him to the car and he was not conscious. So Shyam suggested to stay at his home that night. I agreed and left my husband on the bed and went to the living room to sit on the couch. I and Shyam were talking about life and began crying at the peek of my voice. He tried consoling me but failed. Shyam is the first person to whom I have shared all my problems. I cried and cried and cried for more than 30 minutes and all the time he was trying to console me. He was too nice to me. He cooked food for me and we had dinner together. At the end of the dinner (I still crying slowly), he got up to cross me to go to the wash basin. I grabbed his hand and hugged him tight. He was shell shocked. But he believed that I wanted a hug. So he hugged me back. And I then asked him for sex. Yes I was deeply wanting it and yes I was not ashamed. I wanted sex. After a huge silence for about 20 minutes, he proceeded and 'that’ thing happened between us. We continue it until now and no one else knows.On the other side my father-in-law used me for sex too whenever my husband was not at home. He pleeded me for sex saying that he is also a human. I refused at the beginning. But he forced me at some time for which I had to agree. I don't like to go in details about it since I know that it is awkward and wrong!

回答二：
秘密1 : 只要有机会，我就和我老公的朋友上床.
秘密2：我老公的爸爸上过我很多次.



我带他去康复中心，但是他在那里呆的时间没有都没有超过两天.
我甚至一连几天跟着他去酒吧，在酒吧里，我常常坐在他面前.
他不在乎，只顾喝酒.

我每次都带着我的朋友，因为我害怕一个人去。
我和我的朋友甚至被酒吧里的其他人骚扰过。
有个有钱人甚至来找我们，要我们跟他来一场3p，每人15000卢比。
当我们拒绝时，他骂我们“婊子”.

那天晚上他不停地用你能想到的各种恶毒的话辱骂我们。
我的朋友，实际上是一个非常勇敢的女孩，这事之后她都不敢再去了，我也不得不放弃.



同时，我老公不在家的时候，公公就和我上床.
他和上床时说，他也是个正常的男人，一开始我是拒绝的，奈何他用强，我不得不屈服.
我不想细说太多，因为我知道这是尴尬和错误的!