为什么男人不喜欢随便的女孩？ [美国媒体]

Why don't guys like easy girls?

为什么男人不喜欢随便的女孩？





Adam Taha, 高端xing爱爱好者
If a guy sees a girl as slut, whore, too easy, they are not worth the time. If a girl does same to a guy, she is not worth the time.
If a woman doesn’t make it easy for me, I will move on.
Dating, sex, relationship isn’t suppose to be hard, a chase, a complicated process but it is toxic people, people who are not sex positive, who got some fucked up idea in their head there is some game to be played, that make it difficult.

如果男人把一个女人看做荡妇，娼妓，随便的人，他们就不会在那个女人身上花心思。如果女人也这样看待一个男人，她也不会在意这个男人。
如果一个女人对我不假辞色，我才有追求的动力。
约会，性爱，保持长久的亲密关系并不难，只需要经历复杂的追求过程。但脑子里有一些不好想法或想随便玩玩念头的人肯定有毛病，性方面并不正常。

Many as well are not really looking to date but drama, for attention, and nothing else but that.
So forget such men and women who make it difficult, all suspicous and make it difficult because they will be very toxic in relationship anyway. They probabably haven’t been in a healthy relationship anyway.
They do everything for validation and not really for a serious relationship and come with some fanatasy in their head.

很多人也许真的不想好好约会只想逢场作戏，吸引其他人的注意力。
别选择那些自以为是的男女，那种可疑的举动是两性关系的毒药。他们也许从未经历过正常的两性关系。
他们为了关系取得进展不惜一切，而不在意发展坚实的关系或展望美好未来。

Domingos Furtado, 发动机维修师 (2016-
I'll let you into a secret.
Some guys do.
But there's the rub… before, these guys want girls to be easy only for them, to boost their ego and their sense of manhood.
If a guy gets the girl easily, insecurity and self-doubt kick in as he realises that, if she was that easy to him, she can be like that to someone else.
These irrational thoughts come from a ”dark” corner of the brain, the limbic system — where emotions come from. They can't be stopped.

我告诉你一个秘密。
一些人确实如此。
如果男孩历经难关使女孩对他们放下戒心，就能通过攻略女孩增强自信心与提升男子气概。
如果男孩轻松追求到那个女孩，他就会有种不安全感并扪心自问，如果她这么随便那么也有可能出轨。
这种不合理的阴暗念头来自于大脑的一个角落，边缘系统——掌管情绪的大脑皮层。他们随时都在工作。

Only a self-aware, confident yet humble, authentic man can choose to recognize these positive/negative emotions for what they are — temporary — and still be able to do 3 very important things:
be able to think critically
take the woman's feelings/character into account
then do what he thinks is right.
When a guy can do that, he becomes a man.

只有自知，自信，谦卑，真诚的男人才会认知到这些积极/消极情绪只是暂时的，还应做一下三件事：
严谨地思考
考虑女孩的想法/性格
做自己认为对的事情
但男孩能做到这些事时，他就成熟了。

Shaik Asif, 1996- 一直是个学生
Because boys don't want to get anything for easy…so as to the girls!!!!!!!
By default Every boy have adapted to the judge very quickly exclusively only of easy going girl..for instance,he thinks easy going girl may have no of bf's, mayhaps have the habbit of watching porn sites frequently etc,etc…this is bad if strictly spokked…..one has no right to judge quickly over other,… i don't know what other sacred books have revealed about this.. BUT QUR'AN REVEALED THAT JUDGEMENT OF ONE PERSON WITHOUT PROPER EVIDENCES OVER OTHERS IS VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY PUNISHABLE SIN…I REPEAT PUNISHABLE AND UNFORGIVABLE SIN……….
So, what I'm going to say is….this the general typical idea of boys over free and easy going girls…
By the way we don't want a girl, BUT,WE NEED A WOMAN WHO LOVES US UNCONDITIONALLY…..

因为男女都不想随随便便就能追到对方！！！！
每个人都具有判断女孩是否随便的天然机制。例如，他会认为随便的女人可能没有男友，会常看A片等等。严格意义上讲这是不对的，没人有权利轻率地判断他人。我不知道那本圣经提到过这点。但古兰经提到过，没有确切证据就随意评判他人是严重的罪过。是罪无可恕的罪过。
所以我想说的是，这就是普通男孩对随便女孩的想法。
顺便说一下，我们不想要这种女孩，我们想要的是一个无条件爱我们的女人。

Ian Murray,密歇根州立大学
Everybody wants what others cannot have. The uniqueness of the individual is special. The secrets and intimate knowlege you share is priceless.
The more people that share the same knowledge ( or resource for comparison), the less scarce, the less valued.

每个人都想要独一无二的东西。每个人都是独一无二的。与亲密者分享你的秘密非常珍贵。
越被大众所有的知识（或者资源）就越廉价。

Tracy Adkins, 书虫，影迷，历史迷
Myth.
Men love easy women. The easier the better. If this were not the case how then do you explain how easy women never spend a saturday night alone, while those of us who require effort often spend years alone?
This myth is perpetuated by loving parents who want their daughters to have some dignity and self respect… Which they see as lacking in easy women.

说谎。
男人喜欢随便的女人。越随便越好。如果不是这样的话，你怎么解释随便的女人从不独自过周六，而我们却几年来一直单身？
这个谎言是爱子女的父母流传下来的，他们都希望他们的女儿能有尊严和自尊的活着。而这两点就是随便的女人所缺少的。

Somya Bhatnagar
Whichever guy labels a girl as ‘easy’ is probably a douche and not worth having any kind of a relationship with.
So, take my advice and don't bother yourself over this mystery.

那种给女人贴上随便标签的男人也许把那种女人看做了rbq，认为不值得与对方保持关系。
所以接受我的忠告，被在意这种事情。

Michael Munson
It should be obvious. If you want a mate who will be faithful to you, choosing someone who is, when you meet them, having sex with anyone who happens by, isn’t likely to fill the bill.

很明显啊。
如果你想找一个忠诚于你的伴侣，一个第一次见面就和你发生关系的人也许并不符合要求。

Bert Reynolds
Because there’s nothing to it, and if she’s easy for you then she’s easy for everyone else.

因为没有感情，如果她对你随随便遍，她也可能对其他人这么做。

Amer Khwaja, 发起最终攻略前已经害羞了好几年
They do like them. They wouldn’t be called easy if lots of guys didn’t go out with them.

他们喜欢随便的女人。如果女人没有与很多男人约会，就不会被贴上随便的标签了。

Paul Myers,飞行员在学，前动画师，在学日语，动漫粉丝
We don’t hate easy girls. I just think there is a lack of trust with a woman who is easy, as if it is expected that she’ll sleep around and be unfaithful.

我们不讨厌随便女孩。我只觉得对随便的女孩缺乏信任，觉得她会和周围所有人睡觉。

Shalva Qutelia
Because they feel cheap

因为他们感觉随便女孩很廉价。

Jade (Yok Ching) Fung, 前管理层
No thrill of the chase perhaps?! No wanting more from that person?!
You may need to ask a male I'm afrai, there's plenty of them out there?!

也许是因为缺乏刺激的追求？没有从对方获得更多东西？
你可以找个男人问一问，还有其他什么要求吗？

William Hill, 教师/教练 (1988-)
THey do , when they are drunk , it's getting late at the club an the options are few , when they want to brag to their friends that they hit that . They do like you for a moment. Respect yourself

他们的确如此，在酒吧深夜喝醉时就会向朋友吹嘘自己的泡妞战绩。他们都喜欢这么做。有点自尊把。

Frank Clay, 管理员 (2010-)
Some do, and some do under certain circumstances.
However they also think of several other things:
1 - if you are easy with me, how easy have you been with others - how many lovers have you had?
2 - Do you actually like me if you dont know me, or do you just want a guy.
3- where is the challenge, the courting, the wooing.
4 - If I have to go to a lot of effort to win your effection, then someone else will have to go to a lot to win you away.

一些人的确如此，一些人在特定情况下也是这样的。
但他们也会考虑其他方面的事：
1，如果你对我很随便，你对其他人会多么随便呢？你喜欢过几个人?
2.在你不了解我的情况下，你会喜欢我？或者只想找个炮友。
3.应该充满挑战，求爱。
4.如果我费尽心思才能赢得你的注意，其他人也只能怎么做。