你对父母隐瞒了什么秘密？ [美国媒体]

What secrets are you hiding from your parents?

你对父母隐瞒了什么秘密？



Anonymous
Mom and dad I saw you having sex when I was 5–6 years old..I found a condom on the Almira and got very scared Because I thought you guys are suffering from AIDS. ( I saw the advertisements on TV and misinterpreted them).When I was 6 years old, I went to play at my friend's House Along with her siblings,When her sister went out for some Work me and her brother decided to hide to surprise my friend (who went to bring water for us). Her brother asked me to hide in the room on the terrace (there were no lights in the room) and then, he locked the door of the terrace and came inside the room and started touching me everywhere And gave me his dick saying its his hand because I was really scared.(I really thought that it was his hand) and when my friend came she shouted on the door I quickly left room, opened the door and ran straight to my home.After some days of the above incident, It was dark outside, we were playing hide and seek with some 9–10 friends and her brother joined us and as he was the elder one, he was telling everyone where to hide. He didn't tell me where should I hide when I asked he said we both will hide together I got suspicious but I thought there are so many people around so nothing will happen. We were hidden in the plants where he asked me to hold his hand and again he gave me his dick in my hand and asked me to press. By God's grace! my mother called me home for doing homework and I immediately left that place and after that incident I never talked to him even if he played with us.When I was 12, I had crush on a guy and he too liked me. I decided to tell him what I feel about him but when we met he told me that he liked my bestfriend and I never told my feelings to him.When I was 17, I started a relationship with a guy. He was my bestfriend for 2 years and we regularly talked on phone. When I turned 19 he said he wanted to have sexual relations with me but I denied so he started another relationship with some other girl and this is how my first love totally ruined me.When I was 20, I got to know from some mutual friends that my ex spread the rumours that we had sex and I am a slut. Because of which I got depressed and Couldn't clear my backlogs In graduation.When I was 21, I was in depression and I needed your help. I told you mom that I am not able to study I can't give entrance exams, I need to see a doctor but you told me that I am absolutely fine And finding excuses for not giving exams and only mad people visit psychiatrist And I failed in all the entrance exams.After failing in entrance exams, failing in love life, I thought I failed as a daughter. So I decided to commit suicide but my bestfriend stopped me from doing that and when I met him after his office. Papa saw us and thought that I am having an affair and started finding a groom for me.When I was 23, he married me a guy whom I met only once that too on our engagement. He was an introvert and I was in depression. So, he never initiated any conversation nor did I.On the first night of our wedding, he was really hard to me and I couldn't tell him. It's been 3 years of our wedding And I am expecting our 2nd baby with a stranger. Stranger because he never talks, even if I initiate. He only needs his wife in the night when he feels horny.I can't tell this to anyone because I only had one friend who didn't Dare to talk to me after you and bhaiya beated him and also he blocked me from everywhere.This is the reason why I don't visit your home for months even after staying in the same city. Mom This is why I don't talk to you on call And only talk infront of my husband and in-laws. Mom remember when I came to your home after marriage for the first time and I locked mySelf In my room after my husband left that's because I hate you and I don't want to talk to you or papa. I wowed that whatever happens I will ask and trust my children first and help them with everything I could. Just wanted to tell you that you lost me when I was 23, Please assume that I don't exist now. I wish I Should have committed suicide and not listened to my bestfriend.Now, I have a reason to survive.I will survive for my kids. I love my kids so much and Sorry for the long answer.

回答一：
1. 爸爸妈妈，我5-6岁的时候看到你们做爱.
2. 我在Almira上发现了一个避孕套，我很害怕，因为我以为你们都得了艾滋病。
(我看了电视上的广告，对它们有误解)。

3. 我6岁的时候，我跟朋友的兄弟姐妹在她家里玩，她姐姐出去干活了，
我就和她的兄弟想躲起来给她一个惊喜（她出去给我们打水了）.
她哥哥让我躲在露台上的房间里(房间里没有灯)，
然后，他锁上阳台的门，走进房间，开始摸我的每一个地方，
把他的XX递给我，说那是他的手.
我真的很害怕，(我真的以为那是他的手).
我的朋友打水回来之后，她在门上大叫，我迅速逃离那个房间，打开大门直接跑回家.



10. 我23岁的时候，和一个我在订婚时才认识的男人结婚了.
他是个内向的人，从来没有主动聊任何对话，我也不主动，我很沮丧.

11. 我们结婚的第一天晚上，他很粗暴，我又无法说出口.
我们结婚已经3年了，我期待着和一个陌生人生第二个孩子。
陌生人，因为他从不说话，即使我主动找他聊天，他也不说话.
他只在晚上感到性欲旺盛时才需要他的妻子。

12. 这些苦闷，我无法告诉任何人，因为我只有一个朋友。
你和bhaiya打了他之后，他都不敢和我说话了，而且他总是阻止我.

13. 这就是为什么我在同一个城市里呆了几个月也不去你家的原因。
妈妈，这就是为什么我不给你打电话，只在我丈夫和公婆面前跟你说话。
妈妈，还记得我结婚后第一次去你家，我丈夫离开后我把自己锁在房间里，
那是因为我恨你，我不想和你或爸爸说话。

我发誓，无论发生什么事，我都将首先请求并信任我的孩子，尽我所能帮助他们。
我只是想告诉你，你在我23岁的时候失去了我，现在，请当我这个人不存在于这个世界上.
我真希望没有听从我最好的朋友的话而自杀掉.

14. 现在，我有了生存的理由。
为了我的孩子，我会活下去。
我很爱我的孩子们，抱歉这么长时间的回答.



Ariana Elsbernd
I was raped.It was my sophomore year, 3 years ago in October. My 15th birthday was approaching at the end of the month. I was so excited to meet as many new people as I could. I joined anime club, involved myself in dance club and took theater classes. I was so enthusiastic about everything.One Saturday, anime club has an outing to search for Halloween costumes in a thrift store. I was having a ton of fun, we had a four day weekend and I wanted to do as much as possible before school was back. I was hanging out with a guy from another school for most of the time, Tristan. We continued to hang out as everyone dispersed, and went back to his house. We talked and watched some anime, and made out some before I went home. I was really scared, because I was a virgin and he escalated things almost all the way before he finished in his pants.The following Wednesday, after PSATs, I cancelled a visit with my grandma. I met up with Tristan downtown, and we walked back to his place. We didn’t talk much, we didn’t seem to click much at all. He made me uncomfortable, but I ignored it. I just wanted to be less lonely and have someone to kiss.When we got to his place, we passed his 7 year old brother in the living room.We went into his room and cuddled up to some anime. We kiss and he asked if we could have sex. (This is my second time hanging out with him and he was 18). I kept saying, “I don’t know,” and tried to go back to watching My Neighbor Totoro. He kept pushing and we kept making out when he got up, pushed the dresser in front of the door, and told me to take off my clothes.Tristan was three times my size and had anger issues. He towered over me and people in anime club had warned me about his temper. What could I do?I cooperated. He put on a condom and it was the grossest thing I had ever seen. I started crying and he kept going. I didn’t know what to do with his brother in the room next to his bedroom.Finally, he stopped and asked how I was doing. It hurt so bad. He complained I was too tight and asked me to finish him off in another way. I refused but he took and moved my hand.When that was done, he told me to get dressed and leave because his mom would probably get home soon. I shakily got dressed and walked past his brother. On my way out, I met his other brother, Chris. He asked if I was okay and then went inside.I walked to my dad’s apartment, feeling embarrassed, ashamed, and at fault. He made me feel a lot better, even though I didn’t tell him what was wrong.It didn’t last. A month later, I got into a relationship (with my now roommate) and attempted suicide because I had never felt so alone with the secret I kept inside. I blamed myself and wanted nothing more than to be done. I slit my wrist (vertically) and chopped a vein horizontally. I fell asleep writing everything I blamed myself for.The next day, I got up for school and burst into tears as I walked into my favorite class. The teacher took one look and gave me money for a bus pass to go home. My buddy Tyler walked me out.Two days later, I was dumped. My boyfriend at the time had no idea what was going on and broke up with me for another girl. He said I was unattractive and he just liked her more.I tried again after a few shots but fell asleep again.I have to say I am so happy to be alive despite constant thoughts of what happened and suicidal urges. My parents have no idea; they just thought I was a little depressed because of school or something.



当我们到达他家时，他7岁的弟弟在客厅里.
我们走进他的卧室，拥抱着，看着动漫，我们接吻，他问我们能不能做爱。
(这是我第二次和他在一起，他才18岁).

我不停地说，“我不知道”，并试图回去看我的动漫.
他不停地推，我们也不停地亲热。他起床后，把梳妆台推到门前，让我脱掉衣服。

他的块头是我的三倍，而且有易怒的毛病。
他比我高大，动漫俱乐部的人都警告过我说他脾气暴躁。我还能怎么办 ? 只好服从他.
他戴上避孕套，这是我见过的最恶心的事情。
我开始哭，他不停地干. 我不知道该拿他卧室隔壁的弟弟怎么办.



我得说我很高兴现在还能活着，尽管我一直在想发生了什么，有自杀的冲动。
我的父母不知道; 他们只是觉得我因为学校之类的原因有点沮丧。

Reeti Banerjee
I usually wet my pillow at night and the next morning, act happy in front of them.I tell them that I'm going out for movies with my friends, when in reality, I go alone.My introvert nature is partly because of them as they didn't allow me to have many friends since childhood. I can understand that now.I hate it how they never understand that I'm in my twenties, the only child, and that I need a few companions to talk, to go out and to eat and explore random restaurants and local places.I hate going out with them in public gatherings. Had to make it in bold letters, just to make sure people read it fully without commenting stuff like: I don't like your viewpoint and bla bla. ‘They're your parents and you can't discard them' lectures. Told you I'm an introvert, so hate public gatherings. I enjoy the trips to the fullest instead of gatherings.I get thoughts of living at a place far away from home, to get rid of the humiliation that I face when either one of my parents ring me up at every two hours when I'm in college, and the groups of people in my class literally laugh and taunt me saying how my parents have raised me to be a bumpkin. They've stopped asking me to go out with them because of my time limits. Ps: I'm adding this part for those who're still trying to understand how on earth can a person be so mean to find calls from his/her parents embarrassing? Well, the answer to this is, I've been overly protected since I was a baby (no issue till a certain age), and my parents, even though my college is a 30 mins journey from my place, they'll still ring me up frequently to check what am I doing and who I'm with or when I'm coming home. I'd have to excuse myself in the middle of an ongoing class, just to talk to them. When asked that why did you call me even though I'd told you I'll be 5 mins late today due to this class? They're like: We knew it. But still…chinta hoy (We get tensed.)I've been secretly learning to ride a two wheeler as my over protective parents never allowed me to do so, and now I face troubles travelling. Relying only on public transportation is difficult and tiring. I've learned to ride a four wheeler which fortunately, my dad took an interest in as soon as I turned 18. But he always wants to be sitting right next to me whenever I want to take the car out, just to add another layer of protection. :PHave been writing books on Wattpad, and have never told them.Have been seeing my only best friend (who's a male) for lunch once in every two months at new restaurants to write reviews.I've spent that 1200/- which my mum had given me to buy a new top, in buying books.I keep a novel in between my textbooks and read them all day when I'm too bored, pretending to study! :PEdit: I'm not being ungrateful to my parents, in any way. I love them dearly for everything that I am today. It's just that, sometimes, I feel like having a few friends or someone to talk to as I'm the only child. There are stuff that you just can't tell your parents. Sometimes, I just don't wanna be left alone, while everyone else is partying around and having sleepovers. Sometimes, I just wanna go out in evenings with my best friend and have a snack or something.

回答三：
1. 我通常在晚上弄湿枕头，第二天早上在他们面前表现得很开心.
2. 我告诉他们我要和我的朋友出去看电影，而实际上，我一个人去。
3. 我性格内向的部分原因是他们从小不允许我有很多朋友。现在我理解了.

4. 我讨厌他们永远不知道我20多岁了，是家里唯一的孩子，我需要几个同伴来聊天、出去吃饭、四处逛逛餐馆和当地的地方。
5. 我讨厌和他们一起出席公共集会.
此处必须用粗体字，只是为了确保人们完整地阅读它，而不是评论: 我不喜欢你的观点和废话。他们是你的父母，你不能抛弃他们！

我告诉过你我是个内向的人，所以讨厌公共集会。
我喜欢旅行而不是聚会



不管怎样，我都没有忘恩负义。
我深深地爱着他们，因为他们给了我今天所有的一切。

只是有时候，我觉得我是家里唯一的孩子，我想有几个朋友或者有人可以聊聊天。
有些事情你就是不能告诉你的父母。
有时候，我只是不想一个人呆着，而其他人都在外面聚会，在外面过夜。
有时候，我只想晚上和我最好的朋友出去吃点零食什么的。