你觉得中日韩三国的哪些事情最令你恼火？ [美国媒体]

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What do you find most annoying about South Korean Japanese or Chinese people?

你觉得中日韩三国的哪些事情最令你恼火？


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Anonymous
Answered Jan 12 2016
I'm writing this anonymously on purpose.

特意匿名写的评论

Korea: They think they're superior than other Asians. Their insane materialism and use of makeup and plastic surgery.

韩国：他们觉得自己比其他亚洲人都要优秀。他们有疯狂的物质主义，化妆技术和整容手术

Japan: Well they still deny war crimes don't they?

日本：他们仍旧否认自己的战争罪，不是吗？

China: South China Sea

中国：南中国海

Mike Leary Psychotherapist in private practice Individual-Marital-Parenting-A&D
Answered Mar 18 2014
The same as any culture: when they are insecure and cover it up with arrogance and disgust at others. When anyone one has to be right it will override compassion and humbleness.

和所有的文化一样：当他们缺乏安全感时，会用傲慢和对他人的厌恶来掩饰自己。当他们有理的时候又将会无视怜悯和谦逊

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Miso Nanumi Lived in South Korea for more than 10 years.
Answered 9h ago
Koreans: insular-mindset; hyper-nationalistic on the outside but deeply divided amongst themselves due to historical regional divisions (difficult to see this unless you’re a Korean yourself); debilitating emphasis on education looks prestige and status; truly a country of contradictions. There is no other country that is as united and as divided as Korea is at the same time. Outsiders might think they have a superiority complex but the truth of the matter is many Koreans do not like the fact that they are Korean.

韩国人：心态狭隘；对外过于民族主义，由于历史原因造成的区域分裂，使得自己人彼此间有着深刻的分歧（如果你自己不是韩国人是很理解这一点的）；教育强调声望和地位使其意义弱化；真是个矛盾的国家。没有任何一个国家像韩国一样如此团结，同时又是如此分裂。局外人可能会认为他们有一种优越感，但实际上许多韩国人不喜欢他们是韩国人这一事实。

Japanese: too strict with themselves can be too apologetic at times hard to read their true intentions some have a superiority complex towards other Asians and like to overtly associate themselves with the Western world politically they have issues with their neighboring countries not the best country for gender equality.

日本人：对自己太严格，太过抱歉，有时很难了解他们的真实意图，一些对其他亚洲人存有优越感，喜欢公然显露其亲近西方世界，政治上又与其邻国颇多问题，性别平等方面这个国家做得并非最好。

Chinese: imperialist mindset me-first attitude/me-only attitude not the most well-mannered people in the world have a weird approach towards morality and ethics (maybe a consequence of post-cultural revolution) probably some of the most materialistic and money-driven people in Asia.

中国人：帝国心态，态度老子天下第一/唯我独尊，不是世界上最有礼貌的人，对待伦理道德有种奇怪的倾向（也许是文化大革命的后果），可能是亚洲最物质化和金钱至上的人。

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To balance out the negatives here are the positives (all my impressions):

说完了负面的，再说点正面的（我的全部印象）：

Koreans: incredibly hard-working people resilient do not like to lose out to their neighbors strong focus on family surprisingly quite generous and sympathetic once you get to know them (Korean Jeong) good at marketing and presentation a great eye for aesthetics and an ear for good music

韩国人：相当勤劳的人，有韧劲，不喜欢输给邻居，强烈关注家庭，一旦你认识了他们（韩国人郑）就非常慷慨大方且很有同情心，擅长市场营销，表现出对美学敏锐的眼光和对音乐良好的见地。

Japanese: no other group is as meticulous and detail-oriented as the Japanese their products are often top-notch quality people are generally polite and well-cultured their language sounds melodious

日本人：没有其他民族像日本人那样一丝不苟，注重细节，他们的产品通常质量都是一流的，人们普遍彬彬有礼，文化修养好，他们的语言也很动听。

Chinese: no denying their rich cultural heritage very smart and resilient people quite accepting of strangers and other cultures (despite being communist) probably the best country out of the three when it comes to gender equality has lots of potential for becoming one of the most dominant culture in the world if not already

中国人：不可否认，他们文化遗产丰富，非常聪明和坚韧的人，陌生人和其他文化都相当接受（尽管是共产主义），性别平等方面也许是三个国家中最好的，即使现在不是，也有很大潜力成为世界上最具统治力的文化之一。

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Richard Warfield Many years in China Hong Kong
upxed Apr 4 2014
Well those are three very different countries and cultures but if there is one common annoying trait that
all three seem to share it is an excessive love of photo-taking.

这是三个非常不同的国家和文化，但都有一个非常恼人的共同特征：狂热拍照。

Seriously there is no need to memorialize every single moment of your holiday or birthday party!

说真的，没有必要去纪念你的假日或生日聚会的每一个时刻！

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Joon Kang I know some stuff
Answered Nov 9 2016
South Koreans - I'm South Korean and I grew up most of my life in the States so I come in contact with other South Koreans often. A lot of South Koreans are super nationalistic. Patriotism is fine but there's definitely some heavy handed nationalism. Everything from xenophobia to sometimes blatant racism. Hopefully as Korean culture becomes more diverse this xenophobia and racism will disappear.

韩国人 - 我是韩国人，我在美国长大，大部分时候都待在美国，所以我经常接触到其他韩国人。很多韩国人是超级民族主义的。爱国是很好，但是明显有些民族主义过头了。从排外到公然的种族主义。 真希望随着韩国文化能更多样化，这些排外情绪和种族主义会消失。

Japanese - Unfortunately I haven't met that many Japanese people anywhere really. But of the few I've met in person they're pretty cool but I know not all Japanese are like the ones I call my friends. But definitely the lack of education on war crimes definitely pisses me off a lot.

日本人 - 可惜的我还真没有碰到多少日本人。但是我遇到的为数不多的那几个日本人还是挺酷的，我也知道并不是所有日本人都像我几个日本小伙伴一样。然而日本人 缺乏战争罪行教育还确实让我相当恼火。

Chinese - I've met lots of Chinese people especially in the US and South Korea. The ones I met in America are a bit of a mixed bag. The high school students don't really do anything bad so much that they stick in large groups of exchange students and keep to themselves. Generally they're nice but sometimes the richer ones come off as really arrogant.

中国人 - 我碰到过很多中国人，尤其是在美国和韩国。我在美国遇到的那些中国人有点混杂。其中的高中生真的也不做什么坏事，他们就只和本国的交换生玩在一起，而不与他人交往。但有时候那些有钱人给人的感觉非常傲慢。

Note: I try not to form opinions on an entire people because of a few good or bad examples. These are just based on the people I've met so far.

注：对中日韩各国全部的人，我并不想因为几个好的或坏的例子而试着作出结论。以上这些都是基于目前我所见过的人而得出的看法。

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C. Michel de Wilde Know general history of China. I am an overseas Chinese after all.
Answered Jan 2 2016
Chinese (mainland): If you met the wrong people you will think they are the most annoying people in the world. However I have some very good friends from China. They are annoying when they start talking in mandarin and think you are invisible. I usually shout to my friends: stop. speaking. chinese. language. (heeey I am here!).

中国人(大陆)：如果你遇到错误的人你会认为他们是世界上最讨人厌的人，尽管如此我有一些来自中国的非常好的朋友，当他们用普通话交流当你不存在时，他们很讨厌，我常常嚷着让我的朋友们停止说中文

Japanese: Most of them don't know about the atrocity of imperial japan. Blame the japanese government though I don't really hate the japanese for historical amnesia. Their general disrespect to women in society is also astounding how come it still happens in 21st century?

日本人：他们中的大部分不了解日本帝国的战争暴行，虽然我不是真的因为忘却历史恨日本人，但要责备日本政府，他们对妇女的整体不尊重也让人惊讶，这怎么会发生在21世纪?

South Koreans: so far I only met three south koreans. They are nice people so far but I read that they think their ethnic group is superior from the rest of the world but I haven't encountered any case of racism with them. But from what I heard you can be discriminated if you are 'ugly' and 'brown'.

韩国人：我只遇见过3个韩国人，他们都是好人，但是我听说他们觉得自己是最优越的，但是我个人还没有见过他们表现出种族主义。但是我又听说如果你长得“丑”或“黑”的话，就会被他们歧视。

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Jonathan Edward Lee
I have tons of Korean friends and i have lived there quite a while from my experience they tend to prefer to date only inside their racial boundaries. Even the younger generations think that the only proper way is to marry a korean as well. I've ask them about this about possibilities to date other race perhaps someone from China or Japan with similar undistinguished look and atleast similar East asian culture with Korean but they keep saying that they won't be able to understand the culture saying that if a Korean date someone outside the Korean race it's basically just a summer fling either that or they think that the Korean guy/girl can't find any decent korean to date because of his/her incapabilities they refer to blue collar workers who have arranged marriage with girls from other countries.

我有很多韩国朋友，我在那儿住过一段时间，从我的经验来看，他们更喜欢和他们民族内部的人约会，即使新生代也认为应该和一个韩国人结婚，我问过他们是否有可能和其他民族约会，比如和韩国很接近的同属东亚文化的中国或日本，但是他们坚持说他们不能认同一个韩国人和一个非韩国人约会的文化，他们认为要么只会是短暂的关系，要么这个韩国小伙/姑娘没能力找到一个适合自己的韩国对象，他们指的是被安排和其他国家女孩结婚的蓝领工人.

an interesting phenomenon for me because i noticed that Korean that lived outside the country (in my case in Indonesia) have a totally different approach with their mainlands.

我发现一个有趣的现象是我注意到居住在国外的韩国人(我这里指印尼)，想法和他们本土有很大不同

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Iman Boud Interpreter at Samsung Engineering (2016-present)
Answered Feb 18
Actually I do believe that as human being we are all alike .However the culture impacts us and divide us into a different nations.
Asia has a very unique culture which makes Asian people looks awkward to the other nations .
I had the chance to work with Chinese and Korean I can really set out the differences between them although many people still think they are the same in terms of appearance and why of thinking .

实际上我认为作为人类 我们都是相似的 . 然而受文化的影响着我们 并将我们划分成不同的民族.
亚洲有着非常独特的文化，以至于亚洲人看上去比其他民族难搞。
我曾经有机会与中国人和韩国人一起工作，虽然有很多人认为他们在外表和思维方式上是一样的，但是我却真的可以分辨出他们之间的不同之处。

1-Chinese people :
It is really hard to deal with them due to their attitude and their language .They are introvert and refuse to make connection with others .as well as they are not faithful and corruptive .

1- 中国人 :
考虑到他们的性格和语言 真的很难跟他们打交道 . 他们性格内向 而且拒绝跟外人产生联系 . 在此之外 他们还不诚信 而且腐败.

2-Korean:
Many people think that Koreans are the same as those in the k drama. However they are totally different .They are so arrogant and they feel so superior to others.

2-韩国人:
很多人以为韩国人就像是韩剧里的那样 . 然而他们却是与之完全不同的 . 他们非常自大 而且自我感觉高人一等 .

3-Japanese
I have never met Japanese.
Finally I think Asian people especially Korean Chinese and Japanese are very polite and they know their limit with others.

3-日本人
我从未接触过日本人.
最后 我想亚洲人 尤其是韩国人中国人和日本人都很讲礼貌  而且他们很清楚与别人之间的界限在哪里.

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Can Zhang B.A. in Chinese Culture
Answered Jan 8 2016
This is a problem I've mostly observed within Chinese and Japanese although given the shared history I wouldn't be surprised if it applied to Koreans as well.

这是我在中国人和日本人中观察到的一个问题，考虑到共同的历史，如果它也适用于韩国人，我也不会感到惊讶。

There is an annoying (and sometimes completely asinine) way of thinking that people (mostly of other countries/races) must cater to your interests at the expense of their self-interest and the closely related but not exactly equal expectation that the situation most advantageous to them is also the situation that should happen (because apparently the universe should also cater to your interests as well).

有一种令人厌烦的思考方式（有时候完全是愚蠢的），人们（大部分其他国家/种族）必须以牺牲自身利益为代价来迎合你的利益，与此紧密相关但并不完全相同的期望是最有利的情况也是应该发生的情况（因为很明显，宇宙也应该满足你的兴趣）。

I theorize this may also be the reason for the compulsive gambling habits of East Asia as well.

我认为这也可能是东亚赌博成瘾的原因。

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Anonymous
Answered Apr 2 2014
Due to the popularity of Korean dramas and music Korean guys and girls feel and act like they are better than any other form of asian (Some not all they just appear less humble then Chinese and Japanese).This is rather annoying.

由于韩国电视剧和音乐的流行，韩国男孩和女孩思想和行为上好像他们比亚洲其他地区更优秀(某些人（不是所有）表现得比中国人和日本人更不谦虚)，这相当令人讨厌

Anonymous
Answered May 11 2016
Chinese - Lack of unity. Backstabbing is common. Chinese share similar values as Jews but without the unity.

中国人，缺乏团结，背后伤人很普遍，中国人价值观和犹太人很像，但不够团结.

Japanese - For denying their Chinese ancestry. Historical records show that a flotilla of 500 boys and girls were sent on a mission into the East China Sea in search of everlasting life for Qin Shi Huang. They never returned. Furthermore no evidence of Japanese indigenous people existed before that period. The first Japanese Emperor appeared out of no where according to the legends. Hmmm...

日本人，否认他们的中国祖先，历史记录显示，一次任务中秦始皇派遣500童男童女前往东海寻找不死仙丹，他们没有返回，没有证据显示在那之前有日本本地土着存在，而传说第一位日本天皇是凭空出现的，嗯...

Korean - For claiming everything good about Chinese being originated from Korea. Talk about a circular reference.

韩国人，声明中国人所有好的东西起源自韩国，来谈谈循环引用

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Anonymous
Answered Jan 2 2016
I gotta say this is a pretty racist question but I will answer it.

我得说这是个种族歧视的问题，但我会回答它。

I am Japanese by ethnicity but culturally I am not pure Japanese.  For Japanese I would say their smoking habits (for Japanese guys).  It is pretty disgusting to smell my hair after going to sushi restaurant that allowed smoking.  When I get into an elevator I can smell cigarets like they smoked there but it is actually that there are so many guys in Japan who smoke so their breath smells.  The fact that girls speak in high pitch voice (I am a girl though but I found it completely annoying) like they are from anime or something...it gets old pretty quick (come on don't be so fake!).

从血统上来说我是日本人，但文化上我不算纯正的日本人。对于日本人，我得说说他们吸烟的习惯（对于日本男人来说）。当我去完允许吸烟的寿司店之后，闻到自己头发里都有烟味真的让人恶心。而当我走进电梯，我又闻到了烟味就像是有人在电梯吸烟一样，但这其实是因为太多日本男人吸烟以至于他们的呼吸都带着这样的味道。此外女孩们大声说话（我是一个女孩，但我对此十分讨厌）就像动画里的人物或什么的……那真的早就过时了（来吧，不要这么假！）。

For Korean their use of too much garlic.  Their breath wreaks of garlic to unimaginable extent at times.  Don't get me wrong I love Korean food at times and they can be very tasty but too much garlic in general.  I went to high school where there was a girl from South Korea (immigrant fresh off the boat) in a class she wreaked of raw garlic miles away.  She probably eats Kimchi in the morning?  Ah also the fact that they copy all J-pop and call it K-pop it is absolutely annoying make your own stuff Korean people (I love Korean drama though very romantic).  Their music sucks in general.  Oh and also K-pop movie and drama stars do not represent majority of guys and girls there but people seem to think Korean guys are good looking...well in reality no.  Girls the same way they have extremely small eyes and they are not very beautiful in general but over-hyped.  

对于韩国人来说，他们真的吃太多大蒜了。有时候，他们的呼吸都充斥着大蒜的气味。别误会，我偶尔也吃韩国菜，味道很好，但通常大蒜放太多了。我上高中的时候，同班有一个来自韩国的女孩（新移民），远远地就能闻到她呼吸中生蒜的气味。她也许在早上吃了泡菜？啊，另外就是他们复制了所有的J-pop然后称之为K-pop这件事，你自己的东西变成了韩国的真的令人讨厌（我爱韩剧，它们很浪漫）。韩国的音乐一般来说很糟糕。哦，韩国电影和电视剧明星也不能代表大多数的韩国男生和女生，但人们依然认为韩国人很漂亮…实际上，韩国女孩的眼睛非常小，她们并没有那么漂亮，只是被过度炒作了。

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For Chinese people I gotta say their extremely aggressive loud and self-centred nature who do not give sh*t to other people but their own.  I was once in Hawaii for a vacation and there were a bunch of Chinese tourists.  Man I could hear them miles away so loud.  Do they know where they are?  This same thing happened when I was in Japan.  Their luck of manners and their entitled type of attitude (that I experienced when I was in Hong Kong) as well as their luck of public hygiene (their washroom is horrible).  And #1 for Chinsese it has to be their government.  They always accusing other countries for wrong doing that happened 7o years ago while they fail to see what they are actually doing right now to its neighbourhood Asian countries.  From outbreak of diseases polluting environment to inability to control quality of merchandises are pretty annoying as well as destroying marine creatures to extinction.

对于中国人，我要说他们极端好斗，大声喧哗，以自我为中心的性格，他们眼中没有他人只有他们自己，我曾经在夏威夷度假，一群中国游客，很远的地方就能听到他们的声音，他们意识到他们在哪里吗? 我在日本遇到同样的事，他们缺乏礼貌，整体态度差(以我在香港的经历)，缺乏公共卫生(可怕的洗手间)，而排在首位的必须是他们的政府，他们总是因为70年前的事指责其他国家，而忽视他们自己正在对周边亚洲其他国家做的事，从灾难性的环境污染到劣质的商品，包括海洋生物的灭绝，都相当令人厌恶

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Ryan Cole lived in Japan for five years.
Answered Jan 2 2016
Their inability to fit neatly into categorical boxes so I can give reasonable answers to questions like this. So annoying!

他们没有能力来很合适的归类物品，所以我可以给出合理的答案来回答这样的问题，很讨厌！

Aji Pramudya Madiun-Hangzhou-Ningbo
Answered May 12
my answer did not represent chinese people in general but in my first time visit to china long time ago. annoying things for me is when they’re eating something they put - for example is bones or shell or another things that they dont eat beside their food/plate.

总之我的回答并不代表中国人民，但是我在很久以前第一次到访中国的时候，让我厌烦的是，当他们在吃东西时，他们把不吃的东西---比如骨头、壳，或者其他东西放到他们的食物/盘子旁边。