那些离开印度的人，能说说你们为什么要离开吗？ [美国媒体]

Why do you want to leave India, if you do?

那些离开印度的人，能说说你们为什么要离开吗？



Ritesh Ranjan
I can never even think of this type. India is the safest country for everyone. India always cordially welcome to everyone. If anyone is not safe in India, trust me she /he won't be safe in any country. India is well known for its ‘Unity in diversity.
But here asked ‘why do you want to leave India, if you do?
Although I don't want to leave India but these reasons may be reasons for me to leave India if I have to leave it ever.
Hinduism is considering as Patriotism : If you support Ram mandir, then yes you are a true Patriot. If you worship cows, yes you are a true patriot. If you hate Muslims,definitely you are true patriot. If you support Sadhvi Niranjan Jyoti and hate any Ahmed or Khan (who accused for stealing), yes you are patriot. If you boycott Shah Rukh Khan's movies, don't say anything you are a certified patriot. If you oppose caste based reservation but feel proud to be a Kshatriya or Brahman, oh yes you are a true patriot, only you think about India, everyone except Hindu is traitor. Recently I heard Uma Bharati's statement regarding Babri masque demolition. She says ‘Humne Babri Masjid kisi saajish ke tahat nahin giraya, jo bhi kiya khullam khulla kiya aur hame is par garv hai. (we didn't demolish Babri Masque with pre planned conspiracy, we demolished it openly, and we are proud on it). Suppose if there were Temple inspite of Masque and a Muslim leader inspite of Uma Bharati, what would be scene? I don't even want to guess. I know Ram mandir is a very sensitive matter or it has been made a very sensitive matter by the politicians for the sake of vote bank. I live in Gorakhpur U P, I have lots of Muslim friends, very few of them oppose Ram mandir take it as 2%.Maximum support Ram mandir and maximum don't want to talk on this issue because they think this will only spread hatred between Hindu and Muslim, and we should wait for decision made by court. I am a proud Hindu but I always oppose extremism. I always consider Hindu and Muslim as brothers, I believe in our great culture “ Ganga Jamuni Tahzeeb.” I am inspired by a dialogue narrated by Paresh Rawal in the movie OMG: OH MY GOD, when TV anchor asks his views on religion, he says ‘Mere hisab se to dharm do hi kaam karta hai, ya to insaan ko bebas banata hai ya fir aatankawadi.’ (Accordingly to me, Religions do two works, either it makes a person helpless or terrorist.)
Healthy debate is a myth now a days in India : I have a very bad habit, when I debate with a BJP supporter, I pretend that I support Congress or AAP. When I debate with an AAP supporter or Congress supporter, I pretend that I am a BJP supporter. But what I get in return, although I have some good debates too but 95% times I felt disappointed and abused by other one. There is very less chances of good and healthy debates, no one wants to listen a single bad word against one's supported party. I firmly believe that appreciation and criticism are very essential parts of democracy, excess of criticism leads to dictatorship and excess of appreciation also leads to dictatorship. If we want to make our country great we should support our politicians in good decisions whether we support that party or not and criticise for bad decisions, especially when we support that party. No one can be perfect it is our duty to correct them. Don't be a blind follower or blind hater. We all love our country, our India. Just don't support any one on the basis of caste, region, religion, or having a hatred issue.
Corruption : corruption is the biggest problem of India. Recently in a survey, 67% people accepted that they had to give bribe for their works, this is even worse than Pakistan. I was reading a local news yesterday, a man had paid rs 5 lakhs as a bribe for his work, he was a middle class man and hardly managed that amount. When he went to office the day before yesterday and asked about his work, a babu (clerk) asked rs one lakh more, this was really as a tsunami for that person, he poured kerosene oil on him and tried to attempt suicide. Although he is safe now but this incident really left a worse mark in my heart. When will India be free of corruption, when will people enjoy their life and not suffer. India is the only country where people feel unsafe to see a policeman, too much irony. But I personally think no any government can make corruption free India, it is our duty, we should do something on our level, we should be aware, when every individual Indian will stand against corruption, then India may be corruption free (I used ‘may be’ cause there are maximum people who don't hesitate to give bribe, some give for illegal works and some give for necessity without those facilities they can't servive and bribe is only option.)
Pollution and health facilities : India is a underdeveloped country, the level of pollution increases day by day, I lived in New Delhi for six months and when I went back to my home town Gorakhpur, I was suffering from Asthma. Even Gorakhpur is also not much pure. The population of Gorakhpur is increasing drastically and pollution is increasing thrice proportional to population. If this situation persists longer then 2/3 of population will be suffered from Asthma in 2030. And there is no more hope for reducing the level of pollution. Now health facilities, we are worse than some African countries in health based facilities, we are lacking in doctors, we don't fulfill the ratio between doctor and patient. There are 1800 doctors on 10 lakhs of population. And it is reducing day by day. Medicine department is also corrupted, if you are poor, don't have enough money to be treated well. You won't be treated good and even some workers and doctors can misbehave with you. I have seen these types of cases many times. Whenever I visit medical college of my city. I see how poor people are sitting on ground and how they are humiliated by junior doctors and pharmacists. They are not provided enough medicine as ordered by government and doctors. Those who are rich prefer private hospitals or foreign hospitals but an ordinary person can't afford expenses of private hospital, I have seen a person dying from malaria, which could be treated easily. The huminity of doctors are on the edge of dearth.
Media : Indian media are really negative, whether it is print media, social media or audio visual media. Every medium of news is only spreading negativity, fear, hatred. What we read, hear or watch leaves on us a great effect on our mentality, of we are only engulfed by negativity, how can we expect we will do some better for India. Just read a newspaper, turn whole pages and you will find 90% negative news. There is also happening good things too, every day someone makes us proud, someone helps to raise people's living standards but you will never find these positive news in newspapers or news channels, they are busy to gain viewers and TRP. Positive news won't increase their TRP. If someone wants to create something great, she /he must be optimistic and positive during the phase of creation, but can we be positive more than two hours? I don't think so. And this is the reason, after having second largest population on earth we are miles away from being developed and we are one of poorest country. How can anyone achieve great things if that person has negative mindset and even don't trust oneself. Now I don't watch news channels, I have deactivated all social media accounts except Quora, I feel really good and optimistic, I want to contribute in development of India so I have to leave these news channels and social media for one more year.
These are the reasons, excess of any two reasons can make me think whether I should live in India or not. But I will always be Indian and proud on myself to be an Indian.
Correct me if I am wrong in any point and if you have been hurt by any statement please tell me instead of having any grudge against me.

我从来没有想过这个问题。印度是最安全的国家。印度总是热情欢迎每一个人。如果有人在印度觉得不安全，相信我，他在任何国家都不会安全。印度以“多元统一”而闻名世界。但这里问的是：“为什么你想离开印度，你为什么要离开？”虽然我不想离开印度，但如果我不得不离开印度，这些理由可能是我离开印度的理由。

印度教被认为是爱国主义的：如果你支持曼迪尔，那你就是真正的爱国者。如果你崇拜牛，是的，你是一个真正的爱国者。如果你憎恨穆斯林，你绝对是真正的爱国者。如果你支持Sadhvi Niranjan Jyoti，并且憎恨任何被指控偷窃的艾哈迈德或可汗，你就是爱国者。如果你抵制沙鲁克汗的电影，不需解释你是百分百的爱国者。如果你反对基于种姓的保留，但感到自豪的是成为一个刹帝利或婆罗门，哦，是的，你是一个真正的爱国者，只有你想到印度，除了印度，想别的都是叛徒。

最近我听到了Uma Bharati关于巴布里·马斯克拆除的声明。她一直在重复说：“我的名字叫~~~我的名字叫~~~我的名字叫~~~（我们没有用预先策划的阴谋摧毁巴布里清真寺，我们公开地摧毁了它，我们对此感到自豪）。假设有神庙，有清真寺，有穆斯林领袖，有Uma Bharati，会发生什么场面？我都不想猜。

​我知道曼迪尔是一个非常敏感的话题，或者它已经成为一个非常敏感的问题政治家因为银行投票。我住在哥拉克布尔，我有很多穆斯林朋友，他们中很少有人反对曼迪尔。最大程度的支持Ram mandir和Maximum，他们不想讨论这个问题，因为他们认为这只会传播仇恨在印度教和穆斯林之间，我们应该等待法院作出决定。我是一个骄傲的印度教徒，但我总是反对极端主义。我总是把印度教和穆斯林看作兄弟，我相信我们伟大的文化“Ganga Jamuni Tahzeeb”。我的灵感来自于Paresh Rawal在电影《omg》中讲述的一段对话：哦，我的上帝，当电视主播问他对宗教的看法时，他说：“仅仅是他自己对宗教的看法。你可以说：“你是我的朋友。”（因此，对我来说，宗教有两种作用，要么使人无助，要么使人成为恐怖分子。）

健康的辩论现在在印度已经成了一个神话：我有一个非常糟糕的习惯，当我和人民党的支持者辩论时，我假装我支持国会或aap。当我和aap的支持者或国会的支持者辩论时，我假装我是人民党的支持者。但我得到的回报，虽然我也有一些很好的辩论技巧，但95%的时候我感到失望和被别人虐待。好的和健康的辩论机会非常少，没有人愿意听任何一个对自己支持的政党的恶言恶语。我坚信，欣赏和批评是民主的重要组成部分，过度的批评会导致独裁，过度的欣赏也会导致独裁。如果我们想要使我们的国家伟大，我们就应该支持我们的政治家作出好的决定，不管我们是否支持那个政党，并且批评坏的决定，特别是当我们支持那个政党的时候。没有人是完美的，我们有责任改正他们。别盲目的跟从或憎恨别人。我们都爱我们的国家，我们的印度。只是不支持任何人基于种姓，地区，宗教，或有仇恨的问题。

腐败：腐败是印度最大的问题。最近在一项调查中，67%的人承认他们的工作必须行贿，这比巴基斯坦还要糟糕。昨天我在看当地新闻，一个男人为了工作付了5000万卢比作为贿赂，他是个中产阶级，几乎没有那么多钱。前天，当他去办公室询问他的工作时，一个店员又问他要钱，这真的是引发海啸了，他把煤油倒在他身上，试图自杀。虽然他现在很安全，但这件事在我心里留下了严重的影响。印度什么时候才能摆脱腐败，人民什么时候才能享受生活而不受苦。印度是唯一让人们感到不安全的国家，看到警察太讽刺了。但我个人认为，没有任何政府能够使印度摆脱腐败，这是我们的责任，我们应该在我们的水平上做一些事情，我们应该意识到，当每个印度人都将站出来反对腐败，那么印度可能是没有腐败的（我曾经说过“可能”，因为有很多人会毫不犹豫地行贿，有些人会为非法工程捐钱，有些人会在没有那些他们无法提供的设施的情况下提供必需品，而贿赂只是一种选择。）

污染和卫生设施：印度是一个不发达的国家，污染程度日益严重，我在新德里住了六个月，当我回到我的家乡哥拉克普尔，我患上哮喘了。即使是戈拉克普尔也不太干净。戈拉克布尔的人口急剧增加，污染也是人口的三倍。如果这种情况持续更长时间，那么到2030年，2/3的人口将患有哮喘。减少污染的希望已经渺茫。现在的卫生设施，我们在卫生设施方面比一些非洲国家差，我们缺乏医生，我们没有达到医患比例。，每一千万人口只有1800名医生。它在一天天地减少。医药部门也是腐败的，如果你很穷，就没有足够的钱去好好治疗。你不会得到良好的待遇，甚至一些工人和医生也会对你行为不端。我见过很多这样的情况。每当我访问我所在城市的医学院。我看到穷人坐在地上，他们是如何被初级医生和药剂师羞辱的。政府和医生没有给他们提供足够的药品。那些有钱的人喜欢私人医院或外国医院，但是一个普通人负担不起私人医院的费用，我见过一个人死于疟疾，这是很容易治疗的。医生缺乏谦逊和道德。

媒体：印度媒体全是负面的，无论是印刷媒体、社交媒体还是视听媒体。每一种新闻媒介都在传播消极、恐惧和仇恨。我们所读到的、听到的或看到的东西对我们的心态有很大的影响，我们只是被消极所吞没，我们怎么能指望我们能为印度做得更好。只要读一份报纸，翻翻整页，你就会发现90%的负面新闻。也有好事发生，每天都有人让我们感到骄傲，有人帮助我们提高人们的生活水平，但是你永远不会在报纸或新闻频道上看到这些积极的消息，他们忙于获得观众和阅读量。积极的消息不会增加他们的阅读量。如果有人想创造伟大的东西，她/他在创造阶段必须是乐观和积极的，但我们能在两个多小时的时间里积极吗？我不这么认为。这就是原因，在拥有地球上第二大人口之后，我们离发展还有好几英里，我们是最贫穷的国家之一。如果一个人有消极的心态，甚至不相信自己，他怎么能取得伟大的成就呢？现在我不看新闻频道了，除了quora，我已经关闭了所有的社交媒体账户，我感觉非常好而且变得乐观了，我想为印度的发展做出贡献，所以我不得不离开这些新闻频道和社交媒体一年。

这些都是原因，任何两个原因过度发展都可以让我思考，我是否应该在印度生活。但我将永远是印度人，并为自己是一个印度人而自豪。如果我那句话说错了，伤害了你，请告诉我，而不要对我有任何怨恨。

Anonymous
1. Most of the work done in firms in India is just the donkey work which is passed on to Indian counterparts by the US based companies. Given that, majority of the population are involved in technology or the management sector, it is inevitable that they would be working for a US based company. The quality of work is far far better in developed nations as compared to India, for the same company.
2. Noise. India is just more nosier, and polluted compared to the developed nations. People have little regard for noise pollution and incessantly honk their cars and trucks on the road. I can't even imagine opening my window on some evenings. This might not be a big deal for others, but having seen developed nations, I can say I would much more prefer a clean and quite surrounding.
3. Struggle. Your average package after passing out from a fair MBA college in India is around half of what is costed you to study there. Your average package after passing out from a fair MBA college in USA is around double of what is costed you to study there. So basically there is lesser return on investment, lesser standard of living. more years of living in debt and, struggle.
4. Places are getting smaller. Let's face it. Having one of the highest population densities in the world is doing us no good. Places are getting smaller, crowded and expensive. This means a variety of things. You don't get a place to sit while travelling in the bus. Places like train stations are just bursting with people. it becomes more difficult to maintain places like public toilets etc. Which means lack of sanitation. and it goes on.
5. Our Education System is broken. Reservation. Rote learning. Coaching classes to coach you to get into coaching classes to coach you to get into IIT. Pressure on students to study for IIT from 7th Standard. No emphasis on creativity. Need I say more?
6. Women Security. I don't want to live in a country where I am in constant fear of being raped if I find myself in an empty parking space or a nearly empty metro train after 10pm. I don't want to live in a country where I have to be accompanied by a male friend if I have to leave office late someday. I don't want to live in a country where I can't sleep in peace at night in a train because there is a bachelor in my compartment. I don't want to live in a country where I don't have the freedom to wear what I want because I might attract attention. I just don't want to live in this constant fear.
There are many reasons but these are the ones that completely turn me off. And most importantly, the best reason to go out of India is that it reduces the population pressure in the country which is the need of the hour. Countries with less population generally perform better than densely populated ones.

1.印度企业所做的大部分工作都是由总部设在美国的公司传给印度同行的。鉴于大多数人都从事技术或管理行业，他们将不可避免地为一家总部设在美国的公司工作。与印度相比，发达国家的工作质量要比同一家分公司好得多。

2.噪音。与发达国家相比，印度只是更引人注目，污染更严重。人们很少注意噪音污染，在路上不停地按喇叭鸣汽车和卡车。我甚至不能想象晚上打开我的窗户。这对其他人来说可能不是什么大问题，但是我看到了发达国家，我可以说我更喜欢一个干净的环境。

3.奋斗。在印度，你从一所公平的mba院校毕业后，你的平均薪水大约是你在那里学习的费用的一半。你从美国一所公平的mba院校毕业后的平均费用是你在那里学习的费用的两倍。因此，基本上投资回报率较低，生活水平较低。多年的债务和挣扎。

4.这些地方越来越小。让我们面对现实吧，拥有世界上人口密度最高的国家之一对我们没有好处。这些地方越来越小，越来越拥挤，东西越来越贵。这意味着各种各样的事情。乘公共汽车时你没有地方坐。像火车站这样的地方到处都是人。维护公共厕所等场所变得更加困难。这意味着缺乏卫生设施，它继续在恶化。

5.我们的教育系统崩溃了。预留。死记硬背。教你如何进入教练班，教你如何进入~~~。从第7个标准开始，对学生施加压力，要求他们为iit学习，不强调创造性。我还需要多说吗？

6.妇女安全。我不想生活在这样一个国家，如果晚上10点以后我发现自己在一个空的停车位或是一个几乎空的地铁列车上，我就会一直害怕被强奸。我不想生活在这样一个国家，如果有一天我不得不很晚才离开办公室，我必须有一位男性朋友陪伴。我不想生活在一个晚上不能在火车上安睡的国家，因为我的车厢里有个单身汉。我不想生活在一个我没有穿我想要的衣服的自由的国家，因为我可能会引起注意。我只是不想生活在这种持续的恐惧中。

有很多原因，但这些都是让我完全不喜欢的原因。最重要的是，离开印度最好的原因是它减少了这个国家的人口压力，这是当前的需要。人口较少的国家通常比人口稠密的国家表现更好。

Anonymous
For me its a very simple thing… All people over here have talked about the various pros and cons of the system being screwed up to air pollution and so on.. What I wanted, was to prove to myself that I could get a job abroad…..
This is my story…
It started in 2008 when I moved to the US to pursue MS in Finance. I had done 4 years of Engineering over here in Electronics and Telecommunications, was completely disillusioned by it and then decided that doing another degree that was not related to engineering would help me figure out what I wanted…
So I spoke to a friend,  what his plan was after engineering and he said he would be doing Masters in Quantitative Finance….. I was hooked, decided then and there that this is what I want to do too and started the whole process…..
I was supposed to fly in August, 2007 but had to delay my joining by 6 months due to a medical emergency. So I land in February, 2008 to start my MS in Finance course, within a month Bear Stearns collapsed and the whole world was plunged into Depression, similar to the last big one that happened in 1929…. I was still in my happy little bubble that this will eventually be over and the jobs will be back… In fact I was a bit overconfident in my ability to get a job…
I graduated in end of 2009 without any offer and was seriously contemplating what to do as nothing seemed to be working out, after 6 months I joined a small firm which allowed me to stay stateside however it was an unpaid internship. In the meanwhile a few of my friends had already started working in full time roles…
Thus passed 2010 too with no significant progress made on the job front. Finally in 2011 I left the US as my Visa got over and came back to India…I was mortified about the fact that I had let my parents and myself down…. I was beating myself up internally as to how could I screw up in such a big way….
This led me into a vicious circle where everytime I went for a job interview in India and didnt clear it, I was knocked down a peg…. Finally in 2012, I managed to land a job in an international bank in Mumbai…..Things were going pretty good however there was always this feeling in my head, that if my other friends managed to get a job and I didnt, was I never good enough? That kind of self doubt is very harmful…
So after working there for a couple of years, I started looking at opportunities abroad….Now I had some experience in an MNC and was working with people in London so I thought to leverage those things and work on improving my knowledge, communication and networking skills.
I started seeking out headhunters, talking to people and applying for roles which were an extension of what I was doing but located abroad… I had one interview for London in 2014, however I screwed that up a bit so was back to square one..
Then in 2015 I got the opportunity to go to London to visit my sister and there I met one of the headhunters. They said that they liked my profile and would see if something can be worked out…
This was in September, 2015…..I had my first interview in December and the next one in January, 2016 and finally was accepted and will be flying to London soon to start my new job…
Long story short… I wanted to prove to myself more than anyone else that I was good enough…. Thank you for reading…

对我来说，这是一件很简单的事情……这里的所有人都在谈论这个社会由于空气污染而陷入困境的各种利弊等等。..我想要的是向自己证明我能在国外找到一份工作。..
这是我的故事...它始于2008年，那时我搬到了美国，攻读金融学硕士。我在这里做了四年的电子和电信工程，对它完全失望，然后决定做另一个与工程无关的学位，它将帮助我弄清楚我想要什么。于是我和一个朋友谈了谈，他在工程之后的计划是什么，他说他将在数量金融学上取得硕士学位。我被迷上了，于是决定这也是我想做的，并开始了整个过程……..

我本打算在2007年8月起飞，但由于医疗紧急情况，不得不推迟了6个月。因此，我在2008年2月开始攻读金融学硕士学位，不到一个月，贝尔斯登就倒闭了，整个世界陷入了萧条，就像1929年发生的上一次大衰退一样……我还沉浸在我的快乐的小泡泡里...事实上，我有点过于自信我的能力，能找到一份工作...

我在2009年底没有任何工作机会就毕业了，我在认真考虑该做些什么，因为似乎没有任何工作，在我加入一家小公司6个月后，我可以留在国内，但这是一个无薪实习。与此同时，我的几个朋友已经开始全职工作……

因此，2010年过去了，在工作方面也没有取得重大进展。2011年，我终于离开了美国，签证过期了，回到了印度……我为自己和父母的失望感到羞愧……我内心在自责，我怎么能把事情搞得这么糟……这使我陷入了一个恶性循环，每次我去印度参加工作面试，还没有弄清楚状况时，我就被打倒在地。终于在2012年，我在孟买的一家国际银行找到了一份工作。事情进展得很顺利，但我脑子里总有一种感觉，如果我的其他朋友设法找到了一份工作，而我却没有，那我就永远不够好吗？那种自我怀疑是非常有害的...

在那里工作了几年后，我开始寻找国外的机会。现在我有了一些MNC的经验，并且和伦敦的人一起工作，所以我想利用这些东西，努力提高我的知识，交流和交际能力。我开始寻找猎头，与人交谈，并申请职位，这是我正在做的事情的延伸，但位于国外……我在2014年有一次到伦敦工作的机会，但我搞砸了，所以又回到原点。

然后在2015年，我有机会去伦敦看望我的妹妹，在那里我遇到了一个猎头。他们说他们喜欢我的个人资料，想看看能不能找到解决的办法。
我在2015年12月和2016年1月分别进行了第一次和第二次的面试，最终被接受了，并很快飞往伦敦开始我的新工作。长话短说……我比任何人都想证明自己足够好……谢谢你的阅读。

There are plenty of other reasons as well but nothing trumps the above. Every other reason, I feel like I have some control over, but not this. I saw the other typical patriotic answers "stop complaining, it is up to us to change things". No, it is not up to me to solve all of the world's problems. I would like to live my life without having to worry to death about the safety of my family, especially my wife and daughter. It is not my calling in life to solve India's issues and don't judge me for it.
Other things I'd like to have in life (very basic, IMO) that I'm pretty certain I will not get in India:
1) If I happen to be in an accident, I would like to know that someone (preferably an ambulance with proper medical personnel) will take me to the hospital and that vehicles on the road will make way for the ambulance.
2) I would like to be healthy. When I was in India, I used to be down with fever twice a month on average, including asthma related issues. I've been here in the US for 5 years now and I haven't had either issue... not once!
3) I would like to do research in the cognitive sciences, which is what I'm trained to do. I spent a good decade of my life preparing for this career. I do not want to live in a country that values nothing but engineering and medicine.
4) See Human Development Reports. India is at 135. Even Palestine and Iraq seem to be doing better and that is just appalling!
5) People like the first "commenter" on this post who feel the need to go around poking their nose into everybody else's business (including how they think other people ought to raise their kids and where they ought to raise them and who provide unsolicited opinions on a million other personal matters) constitutes another major pain in the ass when living in India.  
You get the idea, so I'll stop here with the list. I'm not saying other countries are perfect. However India has too many problems that will not get solved in the near future no matter how hard one tries. One only needs to look at the journey Kejriwal has taken. People laugh at him for even trying. The people of India will continue voting for the two most crooked parties and will continue being their victims in cycles of 5-10 years. So I'm sorry for not staying but do not judge me for it. If you are comfortable with spending half your professional life fighting red tape, corruption and bureaucracy, then do so by all means. I would like to put that time to better use and if another country offers me that opportunity, I'll take it.

生活中我还想做的其他在我看来是非常基本的事情，我很确定我不想呆在印度:
1、如果我出了车祸，我希望有人，最好是有适当医疗人员的救护车，带我去医院，路上的车辆会给救护车让路。
2、我想保持健康。我在印度的时候，平均每个月有两次发烧，其间有哮喘等问题。我在美国已经呆了5年了，但我没有出现任何问题……这不是偶然!
3、我想做认知科学方面的研究，这是我所学的专业。我花了十年的时间来为这个职业做准备，我不想生活在一个只重视工程和医学研究的国家。
4、参考人类发展报告。印度在135位。甚至连巴勒斯坦和伊拉克似乎都比它做得好，这简直令人震惊!
5、像这个帖子上的第一个“评论者”这样的人，他们觉得有必要到处打听别人的事（包括他们如何认为别人应该抚养他们的孩子，他们应该在哪里抚养他们，以及他们对别人的意见在印度生活时，还有另外一个麻烦。

现在你明白了吧，我就列举至此。我不是说其他国家是完美的。但是，印度有太多的问题，无论如何努力，在不久的将来都无法解决。只要看看凯杰里瓦尔的旅程就知道了，人们甚至嘲笑他的尝试。印度人民将继续为两个最不公正的政党投票，并将在5-10年的时间里继续成为他们的受害者。所以我很抱歉不愿意留下来，但不要因此而对我评头论足。如果你愿意用你职业生涯的一半时间与繁文缛节、腐败和官僚主义作斗争，那么就这样做吧。我不想浪费自己的生命，如果有别的国家给我这个机会，我就会接受。

Vibha Kagzi
College is one of your greatest adventures, and as many of you know and have experienced, it is a journey that changes you forever. You will never be the same and will never see things the same way again. Here are 8 things you will only understand if you studied abroad:
1. I can do anything! For many of you, the journey to a foreign country to study is the first time you are living independently and away from the comfort of family and friends. The experience provides an opportunity for you to discover yourself while gaining an understanding of a different culture. Being in a new place can be overwhelming at times, and it tests one’s ability to adapt to diverse situations while being able to problem solve. These experiences can serve as a catalyst for increased maturity. It provides the appropriate frxwork for you to believe you can tackle any issues and conquer any obstacles thrown at you throughout life.
2. My Professor – My Friend. Chances are that prior to your study abroad experience, your relationship and interactions with your professors were brief and impersonal. However colleges abroad encourage student-faculty interaction and these relationships can play a pivotal role not only during your college years but even beyond. Your professors can become your mentors, investors, future recommenders and much more!
3. There is no such thing as a silly question. Class participation is an important element of the learning process. Colleges abroad encourage students to speak up in class, express their ideas and even challenge statements or findings. Some classes / programs even allocate a grade to class participation. Teachers create a climate in which you are comfortable to ask questions and they take your comments seriously. This experience continues with you even after you leave college and allows you to challenge, question and ask for help whenever required.
4. The world is flat. Global schools become hubs for global talent – be it students or professors. Professors, regardless of area of study, expose you to innovation, models, case studies and problem statements from across the planet. As the world becomes increasingly flat, you are taught to be aware of the progress and issues facing industry and strategize on the most effective course of action. After you leave college, the exposure received allows you to seamlessly work cross-border with minimal disruptions.
5. Exams aren’t everything. Extracurricular activities form a vital part of your college experience. During your time on campus you engage in debate, clubs, competitions, talks and activities which equal in learning, if not more, to what you gain inside the classroom. After graduation, these habits continue where you involve yourself in your community, find time and pursue activities in addition to your home and work commitments.
6. I love my family. Distance truly does make the heart grow fonder. Living thousands of miles away and seeing so much makes you appreciate where you come from and what your family has done. Not only during your time at college, but even beyond, there is a newfound gratefulness for all the love and support your parents, siblings and extended family have provided.
7. I know someone everywhere. At college you meet people from across the globe and have friends all over the world. Who needs search engines – be it a business trip or a holiday – it’s great to be able to tap into your extensive network and ask about the local do’s and don’ts!
8. There will be some reverse culture shock. As surprising as it may sound to those around you, coming back home after studying abroad can take some time and adjustment. You have been transformed intellectually and personally after your time away and have new habits, ideas and beliefs, sometimes without even realizing it! Friends and family may find this difficult to comprehend, and initially you may also find it hard to adjust. However, like you immersed yourself in a foreign country, you will make your experience part of who you are and find your optimal balance to bring the best of both worlds together.
College is about self-discovery, exploring and accepting as many different ideas as possible, and pushing yourself outside your comfort zone. These experiences are hard to define and perhaps only a fellow student may understand the true depth of your endeavors.

大学是你最伟大的冒险之一，正如你们许多人所知道和经历过的，它是一个永远改变你的旅程。你将不再是原来的你，你将永远不会再看到同样的事情。这里有8件事你只有在国外学习才能明白：

1.我可以做任何事！对你们中的许多人来说，去外国学习是你们第一次独立生活，远离家人和朋友的安慰。这种经历为你提供了一个机会，让你在了解不同文化的同时发现自己。身处一个新的地方，有时是无法承受的，它会考验一个人在解决问题的同时适应不同环境的能力。这些经验可以作为提高成熟度的催化剂。它为你提供了一个合适的框架，让你相信你可以解决任何问题，克服生活中的任何障碍。

2.我的教授我的朋友在你出国学习之前，你与教授的关系和交流很可能是短暂的，不带个人色彩的。然而，国外的大学鼓励学生和教师之间的互动，这些关系不仅在你的大学时代，甚至在以后都能起到关键作用。你的教授可以成为你的导师、投资者、未来的推荐人等等！

3.世上没有愚蠢的问题。课堂参与是学习过程中的一个重要因素。国外的大学鼓励学生在课堂上大声说话，表达自己的想法，甚至挑战言论或研究结果。有些类/程序甚至将等级分配给类参与。老师们创造了一种氛围，在这种氛围中，你可以轻松地提问，他们也会认真对待你的评论。即使你离开大学，这种经历也会伴随着你，并且允许你在需要的时候挑战、询问和寻求帮助。

4.世界是平的。全球学校成为全球人才的中心，不管是学生还是教授。教授们，无论研究领域如何，都会让你接触到来自世界各地的创新、模型、案例研究和问题陈述。随着世界变得越来越平坦，你被教导要意识到产业的进步和面临的问题，并制定最有效的行动方案。在你离开大学后，接受的曝光可以让你无缝地跨越国界工作，并尽量减少干扰。

5.考试不是一切。课外活动是你大学生活的重要组成部分。在你在校园的时间里，你参与辩论、俱乐部、竞赛、谈话和活动，这些活动在学习（如果不是更多的话）你在课堂上获得了什么。毕业后，这些习惯会一直延续到你融入你的社区，在你的家庭和工作承诺之外，寻找时间和进行活动。

6.我爱我的家人。距离确实让心变得更可爱。生活在千里之外，看到如此多的东西，这让你对自己的出身和家庭所做的一切充满感激。不仅在你上大学的时候，甚至在以后，对于你的父母、兄弟姐妹和大家庭给予你的爱和支持，你都有了新的感激之情。

7.我到处都认识一个人。在大学里，你会遇到来自世界各地的人，并且在世界各地都有朋友。谁需要搜索引擎——不管是商务旅行还是度假——能利用你广泛的网络，了解当地的做法和不做法，真是太好了！

8.会有一些反向文化冲击。对你周围的人来说，这听起来很令人惊讶，但出国学习后回家可能需要一些时间和适应。在你离开之后，你已经在智力和个人方面发生了变化，并且有了新的习惯、想法和信仰，有时甚至没有意识到这一点！朋友和家人可能会发现这很难理解，而且一开始你也会发现很难适应。然而，就像你沉浸于异国他乡一样，你将使你的经历成为你的一部分，并找到最佳的平衡，将两个世界的最佳状态结合在一起。
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大学是关于自我发现，探索和接受尽可能多的不同的想法，并把你自己推出你的舒适区。这些经历很难定义，也许只有同学才能理解你努力的真正深度。