如今（2014）的南京人依然因为南京大屠杀而仇恨日本人吗？（下） [美国媒体]

Do people of Nanjing still hate the Japanese for the Nanjing massacre today (2014)?

如今（2014）的南京人依然因为南京大屠杀而仇恨日本人吗？（下）



Yang Peijing, lived in Nanjing
Updated Aug 27, 2017
To be honest, the original citizen in Nanjing almost died out during the Nanjing Massacre. Most of us living in Nanjing now are the second or third generation of the migrants from adjacent cities. We hold a fairly complicated attitude to it.

坦白说，南京市的原始居民在南京大屠杀期间差不多死光了。现在居住在南京市的大部分人都是附近城市移民的第二代或者第三代。我们对大屠杀的态度相当复杂。



We do not hate Japanese and we do not forgive them. It is those dead in the massacre that Japanese need to apologize to, not us.

我们不用仇恨日本人，也不用原谅他们。日本应该道歉的对象是大屠杀的死亡者而不是我们。

Someone reminds me of the right-wing Japanese so I would like to add some words on them.

有人提醒我说存在着右翼日本人，那我多说几句。

Certainly we Chinese gets angry with those people who deny about the massacre, not because we hate them. We just look down on them as they do not have a heart or a brain and dare not to admit what their fathers and grandfathers did to China.

当然我们中国人会对那些否认大屠杀的人感到愤怒，不是因为我们仇恨他们。我们只不过是看不起他们，因为他们没有良心或者头脑，不敢承认他们的祖辈对中国犯下的罪行。



Alex Zhu, Born in PRC, made in Canada, love nature.
Answered Aug 26, 2017
I grew up in Nanjing till I was 16 and became a Canadian after my parents moved me to Canada. Nanjingese still hate the Japanese for what they did during the war, but they do not hate the present day Japanese people. They are not forgiving on this matter but they are mature people who understand the present day Japanese people have little to do with the past.
I visited the massacre memorial twice in the past year to guide my expat friends, only found that most visitors to the memorial were not locals. When a mother pointed at a horrifying war photo and said to her kid “The Japanese are evil. (present tense)” I felt extremely uncomfortble because she was generalizing and mixing history with present day world. Hatred does no one good, but some of the kids who are still too young to understand the complexity of world history only leave the memorial with a lesson that Japanese are devils.
This is what I am afraid of. People in the world, especially Chinese, Japanese, and Korean are systematically creating hatred and division against each other.
I hope the reality is not what I just wrote because it is time to unite and move on.

我在南京长大，直到16岁和父母搬去加拿大，成为了加拿大公民。南京人依然因为暴行而仇恨日本人，但是他们并不仇恨如今的日本人。在这个问题上他们没有原谅，但是他们是成熟的人，知道如今的日本人和过去没有干系。
我去年去了大屠杀纪念馆两次，当我外国朋友的导游，发现纪念馆里的游客大多不是本地人。当一个妈妈指着可怕的战争照片并对孩子说“日本人是恶魔”（现在式时态）），我觉得很不舒服，因为她在一概而论，将历史与现今世界混合在一起。仇恨无法给一个人带来好处，但是这些孩子这么小还无法理解世界历史的复杂性，可是却给他留下了日本人是恶魔的印象。
这正是我所害怕的。全世界的人们，尤其是中日韩的人们在系统性的创造互相之间的仇恨和分裂。
我希望现实不是我刚刚所写的那样，因为现在是时候团结并进了。