越南人为什么讨厌中国人？ [美国媒体]

Do the Vietnamese hate the Chinese?

越南人为什么讨厌中国人？



Nathan Do
In my opinion, the average Vietnamese dislikes China, effectively holds negative view towards Mainland Chinese. Generally speaking, i think it should not be this way, and Vietnamese have a lot to learn from the Chinese (of course, just the good part). But i disagree with Ha Anh on what are the reasons for the hatre, so here are my reasons.
Why do Vietnamese dislike Chinese (Mainland) ?
· Instinct to preserve our own identity. Sound weird but it’s true. During the 1000 year of Chinese colonization, if Vietnamese actually like China, the current country Vietnam would have ceased to exist. That is to say our ancestors held this sentiment strongly against the Chinese, consistently for the preservation of our own identity/independence. It imprints the hatre in Vietnamese generations even till this day. The whole point is to emphasize, we are NOT them.
· Like in a few other countries, Vietnamese encounter bad impressionon Chinese tourists on their home land (not that our own travelers are much better but still). This created a bad impression on Chinese people as a whole. Also it seems common for the lower educated Chinese tourists to think of Vietnam as part of China. That doesn’t help at all.
· Worry about fake/toxic food originated from China. This is brought to light by the media. The average Vietnamese cannot understand that these bad Chinese also done this to their own people.
· The border war between Vietnam and China was quite recent (1979). And people in the north still have horror memories of that. China’s stand in that war was to “teach Vietnam a lesson” and destroyed Northern Vietnam’s economy, which they did achieve at a costly price (10–100 thousands of casualties).
· Intangible fear of being annexed to China. China’s economy and military’ve been growing exponentially for the last few decades. Together with aggression in the South China Sea, the general sentiment is definitely bad.
Now here is a big twist, the most important reason why currently, Vietnamese hate Chinese (or China) is because their government wants it to be so. And they have been successful. But why ?
· The government doesn’t want its citizen to start question why under the same socialism structure but China has been more successful in term of economics, welfare, military, etc.
· Making use of patriotism is the easiest way to blindfold a Vietnamese. So there you have it, an aggressive, giant neighbor, full of pollution, poisonous foods and want to take advantage of us any point in time. Now, hate them, not us, your own government!
· Blaming China for every little issue will make the citizens forget that who actually governs and let all these issues happen in the first place.
Then how did they do that ? Simple, MEDIA
· I’ve been following Vietnamese news for more than 20 years and i have rarely seen any article about how miraculously Beijing or Shanghai have grown (or any of China’s cities/provinces for that matter). To compare it with Singapore there are plenty of articles about this city.
· Why Cuba or North Korea were mentioned a lot instead ? Because they does not have the same growth as China. So the citizens look at those and think they are still pretty lucky to stay in Vietnam.
· Amplify all the food scandals from China, fake goods, bad quality, dirty business tactics done by Chinese businessman to Vietnamese farmers, bad pollution in China, aggression by China, etc. Basically anything bad about China, the government is playing victim here. When you think of it, you realize if they are capable no one can do these tricks to us.
· There is no chart to show you that China economy left Vietnam’s for dust since around 1990. Before that we are not much different in term of GDP per capita
I think it’s important for Vietnamese to see the whole picture. The more you know the less you hate. Because there are good and bad people everywhere. Bad Chinese businessmen who produce fake/toxic food harms their own peopleeven before harming us. And it’s Vietnamese who brought those things deep into our land, should we start hating ourselves too ?
My point: stop the hatre, start learning instead.
Edit:
About the intangible fear mentioned above, i think it is not totally baseless. But it’s more about worrying of China’s involvement with the gov.
You see even though, the gov doesn’t want us to like China, they still have benefits in working with China.
Therefore, it creates big scandals like Formosa Ha Tinh Steel - Wikipedia(Taiwanese company with Chinese stakeholder) causing mass fish death, making life miserable for the fisherman. Also this company employed 10,000s Mainland Chinese, which created their own isolated China town within Ha Tinh. You tell me how can the locals not be pissed.
Another bad project would be the Dự án khai thác bô xít ở Tay Nguyên – Wikipedia tiếng Việt, where we paid for using old Chinese technology, import low cost Labour from Mainland and end up destroying our own environment.
These scandals plus the sheer number of Chinese tourists keep increasing created that intangible fear.

在我看来，一般越南人不喜欢中国，实际上对中国大陆持负面看法。
一般而言，我认为这是不对的，越南有很多需要向中国人学习(当然，只是好的部分)。
但我不同意匿名的原因是什么呢？这就是我 理由。
为什么越南人不喜欢中国人(大陆)？

1，本能的保持我们自己的身份。听起来怪怪的，但这是真的。
在中国殖民统治的1000年间，如果越南真的喜欢中国一样，那么现在的国家越南将不复存在。
也就是说，我们的祖先一直有强烈反对中国人的情绪，坚持维护我们自己的身份/独立。
甚至直到今天，仇恨的烙印依然在越南人中代代相传。
关键是要强调，我们不是他们。

2，像其他一些国家一样，越南人在家乡也遭遇到了负面印象的中国游客（不是说我们自己的游客更好，但仍然好些）。
这给整个中国人留下了不好的印象。对于受教育程度较低的中国游客来说，把越南视为中国的一部分似乎也很普遍。这毫无帮助。
3，对中国假冒伪劣食品的担忧，这事受到媒体的关注。一般的越南人不明白这些坏的中国人也这样对待他们自己的人民。
越南和中国之间的边境战争是最近(1979)。
北方的人们仍然对此有着恐怖的记忆。
中国在这场战争中的立场是“教训越南”，摧毁越南北部的经济，他们为此付出了高昂的代价(1万至10万人的伤亡)。

4，对被中国吞并的无形恐惧。
过去几十年来，中国的经济和军事一直高速增长。
再加上对南中国海的侵略，总体上关系肯定是不好的。
现在在这里出现了一个大的转折：目前越南之所以憎恨中国人(或中国)，最重要的原因是他们的政府希望如此。
但为什么？他们取得了成功呢。

5，政府不想让公民开始质疑为什么在相同的社会主义结构下，,中国却在经济、福利、军事等方面都取得了更大的成功。
6，利用爱国主义是蒙蔽越南人的最简单的方法：
所以你得有一个咄咄逼人的，巨大的邻居，充满污染以及有毒的食物。在任何的时候都想利用我们。
现在，恨他们；而不是你们自己的政府。

7，把一切问题都归咎于中国，让所有的这些问题成为焦点，这会让公民忘记谁是真正的统治者。
那他们是怎么做到的呢？
简单，媒体。
8，我关注越南新闻已经20多年了，我很少看到任何关于北京或上海奇迹般地增长的文章(或者说中国的任何一个城市/省份都是如此)。
与新加坡相比，有很多关于这个城市的文章。

9，为什么古巴或朝鲜被提到很多？
因为他们没有和中国一样的增长。
因此，市民们看到这些，会认为他们住在越南仍然非常幸福的。
10，放大了所有来自中国的食品丑闻，假货，劣质商品，中国商人对越南农民所做的肮脏的商业措施，中国的严重污染，中国的侵略等等。
基本上，任何关于中国的坏事，政府都在这里扮演受害者。（注释：指的越南政府）
当你想到这些，你就会意识到，如果越南政府有能力，就没有人干挑衅我们。

11，没有图表显示中国经济体左边的越南在1990年已经原地踏步。之后，我们的人均国内生产总值并没有太大的不同。
我认为越南人看到整个情况是很重要的。
你知道的越多，你就恨的就越少。
因为到处都有好人和坏人。
制造假冒伪劣食品的不良中国商人甚至在伤害我们之前就伤害了他们自己的人民。
是越南人把这些东西带到了我们的国家，难道我们也应该开始憎恨我们自己吗？
我的观点是：停止仇恨，开始学习。

编辑：
关于上面提到的无形的恐惧，我认为它并不是毫无根据的。
但更多的是担心中国与我们政府的关系。
你看，虽然政府不想让我们喜欢中国，但他们与中国的合作仍然获益匪浅。
所以，它制造了一些大丑闻，如台湾河内钢铁(台湾公司与中国大陆利益相关者)造成大量鱼类死亡，使渔民的生活变的悲惨。
这家公司雇佣了1万中国大陆人，在河内建立了自己的中国城。你告诉我当地人怎么会不生气。
另一个糟糕的项目是：中部高地的铝土矿开采项目 - 维基百科，我们购买中国过时的技术来使用，从大陆进口低成本劳动力，最终破坏了我们自己的环境。
这些丑闻加上中国游客数量的不断增加，造成了这种无形的恐惧。

I’m going to be honest, this will break many hearts. But when Vietnamese make fun of everything related to China, its almost like hating themselves. I’ll explain why this is.
I’m a Vietnamese from Ho Chi Minh City, I grew up watching Chinese dramas but hating China. I hated every bit of China, calling Chinese people “Chinese dogs”. Basically I used to be one of those angry nationalists on YouTube or Facebook calling for the extermination of China. I REALLY HATED CHINESE, EVERYTHING CHINESE: products, food, anything halfway related to china I would hate.
I was 19 when I first went to China, I was sort of excited but also sort of afraid. I told myself I was afraid because I was going to be in a new place or something like that, but I was really fooling myself, I probably knew at the back of my head that this was going to happen.
I stepped foot in China and wandered around the city, it really felt EXACTLY LIKE HO CHI MINH CITY. The people look similar, the food looks similar, the people act similar, the way people walk and talk looks similar. Everything was similar.
When I went abroad to Australia, I can usually tell the difference between lets say a korean and a viet or a japanese and a viet or a indonesian and a viet. But no matter how hard I tried i couldn’t find a way to distinguish a viet and a Chinese. Our way of living is really that similar!
I faced a crisis, i realized by hating on China so much I was really hating on Vietnam as well.
This will probably make people mad, and make others want to kill me, but really. The culture difference between VN and CN is basically the difference between two Chinese provinces like Bejing or Guangzhou, Im dead serious.
I really wanted to hate China, I really wanted to continue holding my grudge for the thousand year occupation of my country: The Bac Thuoc. But I simply couldn’t, everything was so similar, down to food, culture, clothing, way of life.
I am now of the opinion that most of Vietnamese culture is originally Chinese in origin, and thus I really can’t hate China. I’m not kidding if Vietnam spoke cantonese we’d basically be a part of China, South China and Vietnam are really really similar.
So I say, most Vietnamese HATE HATE China, but, I can no longer do so, because hating Chinese culture is like hating Vietnam. It sort of halfway broke my heart when I realized this.

匿名回答：
我老实说，这会伤了很多人的心。
但是当越南人取笑与中国有关的一切时，几乎就像恨他们自己一样。
我会解释这是为什么。
我是一个来自胡志明市的越南人，我从小看中国戏剧，但讨厌中国。
我讨厌中国的每一点，叫中国人“中国狗”。

基本上，我曾经是youtube或facebook上愤怒的民族主义者之一，呼吁消灭中国。
我真的讨厌中国人和与中国有关的一切：产品、食物、任何与中国有关的东西，我都会讨厌。
我第一次去中国的时候19岁，我有点兴奋，但也有点害怕。
我告诉自己，我害怕，因为我要在一个新的地方或非常相似的地方去，但我在自欺欺人，我或许知道，这即将在我的脑海中发生。

我徒步走到中国，漫步在城市里，感觉就像胡志明市一样。
人们看起来相似，食物看起来相似，人们的行为相似，人们走路和说话的方式看起来相似。
一切都相似。
当我出国到澳大利亚时，我通常能分辨出韩国人和越南人、日本人和越南人、印度尼西亚人和越南人的区别。
但是，不管我怎么努力，我都找不到区分越南和中国人的方法。

我们的生活方式真的很相似！
我面临着危机，我意识到我对中国恨之入骨，对越南也恨之入骨。
这可能会让人发疯，并让想让其他人杀了我，但真的，越南和中国之间的文化差异就像北京和广州两个省份之间的差异一样大。
我真的很想憎恨中国，我真的很想继续为我的国家千百年的被占领而怀恨在心。
但我做不到，一切都如此相似，包括食物，文化，衣服，生活方式。

我现在的看法是，越南文化大部分起源于中国，所以我真的不能恨中国。
我不是在开玩笑，如果越南讲广东话，我们基本上是中国的一部分，华南和越南非常相似。
所以我想说，大多数越南人仇恨中国，但我再也不会这样做了，因为憎恨中国文化就像憎恨越南一样。
当我意识到这一点时，可以说我就打破了我心中的仇恨。

No I don't hate the Chinese. In fact I think Chinese culture is good for Vietnam. And the Chinese occupation did more good to Vietnam than bad.
If the Chinese did not influence Vietnam, we would be similar to many Southeast Asian tribes. No offence but just look at the Philippines, Vietnam had 30 years of war and now we are on par with them. No offence but even Vietnamese can see that the Laotians and Cambodians are much more lazier than us. Even the French could see the same thing and that's why they said “The Vietnamese plant the rice, the Cambodians watch it grow and the Laos listen to it grow.”
Northern civilizations are always more advanced than Southern ones. It's not a coincident that Chinese communities control every single economy in Southeast Asia. I used to think it was because the colonizers allowed them to control trade but I was really wrong. The Chinese have cultural values that are superior to the native tribes. Otherwise they won't make up a majority of Thailand’s rich people when it was never a colonized country.
Not to mention all the positive things the Chinese brought: system of central government, writing, architecture, money, literature and art, army structure, war tactics, a lots of skills like making silk, pottery, martial arts. A lot of these things were standardized in China and introduced to Vietnam before many countries in the world. Vietnam moved away from the barter system because the Chinese introduced coins and bank notes. Thus Vietnam was one of the first countries in the world to have a money system. The Chinese also introduced their trade culture and concept of nation state. And thank god for that, because Vietnamese now have a strong trade culture. You can see everyone tries to own a business and sell something in Vietnam no matter how small it is. You can also see that Vietnam has a strong unified identity, contrary to all our neighbours who are divided by ethnic divisions. You also see the strong education value that Vietnamese have. And this is why the whole world is surprised with our PISA result (not me).
I might be hated for saying this but I'm so glad Vietnam got influenced by the Chinese and the Chinese came and settled in Vietnam. You see those Vietnamese men sitting drinking coffee the entire day doing nothing. Yea, if Vietnam was never under Chinese influence, just multiply that by 10 times. I am actually sad that a lot of the Chinese left Vietnam after the war. If we kept more of those people Vietnam might actually develop much faster now. They are now so successful overseas.
It's one thing to hate China’s aggression towards Vietnam but we cannot deny their superior culture and that we have benefitted from adopting it.
In conclusion: I am angry and hate China when it bullies Vietnam. But I do not hate the Chinese. I admire them and the Chinese civilization.

不，我不恨中国人。
事实上，我认为中国文化对越南是有帮助的。
中国的占领对越南的好处比坏的多。
如果中国人不影响越南，我们就会像许多东南亚部落一样。
没有冒犯之处，只要看看菲律宾，越南就有30年的战争，那么我们与他们不相上下。
没有冒犯之处，但即使是越南人也可以看到，老挝人和柬埔寨人比我们懒惰得多。
甚至法国人也能看到同样的事情，这就是为什么他们说“越南人种植水稻，柬埔寨人看着它生长，老挝人听它生长。”

北方文明比南方文明要先进得多。
华人团体控制东南亚每一个经济体并不是一种巧合。
我以前认为这是因为殖民者允许他们控制贸易，但我确实错了。
中国人具有比本土部落优越的文化价值观。
否则，在泰国从来不是殖民地国家的时候，他们就不会占到泰国富人的大多数。
更不用说中国带来的一切积极的东西：中央政府的制度、写作、建筑、货币、文学艺术、军队结构、战争技术、许多技巧，如制作丝绸、陶器、武术等。

许多这些东西都在中国标准化，并且在进入世界上许多国家之前就已引入越南。
因为从中国引进了硬币和纸币，越南摆脱了以货易货的体系。
因此越南是世界上最早拥有金融系统的国家之一。
中国还介绍了他们的贸易文化和单一民族国家的概念。
感谢上帝，因为越南现在有着强烈的商业修养。
你可以看到每个人都想拥有一家企业，无论它多么小，都会在越南销售一些东西。

你也可以看到越南有着强大的统一身份，与所有被种族划分分裂的邻国相反。
你也看到越南非常重视教育。
这就是为什么全世界都对我们的国际学生评估结果感到惊讶(不是我)。
我表示可能讨厌这样说，但我很高兴越南受到中国人的影响。中国人来到越南定居，你肯定看到那些越南人整天喝咖啡无所事事。
如果越南从来没有受到中国影响，那么就把它乘以10倍。（注释：它指越南的无所事事。）
战争过后，很多中国人离开越南，我感到很难过。

如果我们资助留住更多这些人，越南现在可能会发展得更快。
他们现在在海外很成功。（注释：这里的他们指中国人）
憎恨中国对越南的侵略是一回事，但我们不能否认他们优越的文化，我们从中受益。
最后：当中国欺负越南时，我感到愤怒和憎恨。
但我不恨中国人。
我钦佩他们和中华文明。

We know it's hard for small nations to maintain independence, dignity and sense of security in this harsh world. We are sympathetic.
Have you ever noticed that the Chinese who are hostile towards Vietnam are usually the outspoken ones online, the friendly ones simply keep silence because they don’t like to argue with hot heads?
If you draw a conclusion based on the discussions in Internet communities, Chinese hates Japanese most, but when a Japanese (及川健一) shows up on Zhihu (a Chinese copycat of Quora), all Japanese-haters suddenly disappear, all silent friendly Chinese rush out with open arms. This Japanese doesn’t do any ass-kissing to cater to our bulging ego. He talks about geopolitics, Yasukuni Shrine and Japanese patriotism and maintains his stance as a Japanese citizen, but he wins our admiration and understanding with his bravery, sincerity and insight.
Every nation or person has a civil, polite public face and an ugly, calculating private face. We Chinese show our private face too much, which is childishly naive and damagingly foolish.

我们知道小国在这个严酷的世界里很难保持独立、尊严和安全感。
我们是同情的。
你有没有注意到，那些对越南怀有敌意的中国人通常是那些在网上直言不讳的人，而友好的人保持沉默，只是因为他们不喜欢与头脑发热的人争吵。
如果你根据互联网社区的讨论得出结论，中国人最讨厌日本人，但当一个日本人(及川健一)出现在知乎(中国版Quora)上时，所有仇视日本的人都突然消失了，所有沉默友好的中国人都张开双臂冲上去。

这个日本人不会为了迎合我们的膨胀而拍马屁。
他谈到地缘政治、靖国神社和日本爱国主义，坚持日本公民的立场，但他以勇敢、真诚和洞察力赢得了我们的钦佩和理解。
每个国家或个人都有一些礼貌的公众面孔和一些丑陋、自私的小人面孔。
我们中国人太高调了，这是幼稚而愚蠢的。

Vietnam isn't the only country in Asia who has this love-hatred complex about China. I’ve seen Japanese, Indians and other Southeast Asians express the same perplexities:
Why is China so aggressive?
Why is China so arrogant?
Why is China so uncooperative, unfriendly, unconsiderate?
We do want to be friends with China. If only China changes its aggressive policies, we could run Asia with Asian hands and send the Americans home.
As is known to every one, China has a very unhappy recent crisis. The crisis has ended, but left serious scars on our nation’s psychology. You only see our recovered economy and military prowess, you don’t know our worries and nightmares. We are not ready to open our heart or relax our vigilance.
Regardless of size or population, every nation has an ego, an independent spirit. The Indians are proud of their non-alignment policy. However, I think it’s nothing wrong to form an alliance with neighbors. We have this ASEAN, which aspires to be an Asian EU. That’s not a bad idea. It seems the Germans or French have never worried about their national identity or pride when deeply involving in EU activities. It doesn’t hurt to rally up with fellow small nations.
As every one can see, China is modeling America in its economic, technological and cultural development. For the moment, we want to be alone. Luckily, we can afford to stand by ourselves. We mean no offence. Don’t feel hurt.

越南不是亚洲唯一一个对关于中国有这种爱恨情节的国家。
我见过日本人、印度人和其他东南亚人表达了同样的困惑：
为什么中国如此咄咄逼人？
为什么中国这么傲慢？
为什么中国如此不愿意合作、不友好、不替别人着想呢？

我们确实想成为中国的朋友。
假如只有中国改变其侵略政策，我们就可以用亚洲的双手经营亚洲，并把美国人送回家。
众所周知，中国最近发生了一场非常不幸的危机。
这场危机已经结束，但给我们国家的心理上留下了严重的创伤。
你们只看到了我们经济复苏和军事实力，你们不知道我们的担心和恐惧。

我们还没有准备好敞开心扉，或者放松警惕。
无论体量还是人口大小，每个国家都有自尊，独立的精神。
印度人对他们的不结盟政策感到自豪。
然而，我认为与邻国结盟并没有错的。
我们拥有这个渴望成为亚洲欧盟的东盟。

这主意不错。
似乎德国人或法国人在深入参与欧盟活动时从来没有担心他们的国民独立性或自豪感。
和其他小国联合起来并没有什么坏处。
正如每个人所看到的那样，中国是经济，技术和文化发展上的美国。
目前，我们想要独立自主。
幸运的是，我们可以独立自主。
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Yes. Besides the obvious reasons presented by other quorans, there are other factors as well.
Basically Vietnamese are complicated people with complicated thoughts. Chinese never understand or attempt to understand Vietnamese psychology!
1. Chinese keep asking why do Vietnamese hate China and keep saying that they do not understand why. Really? We have explained to you 1 million times already! Even the Americans know!
2. Chinese don't understand that we are afraid of China. So instead of calming us down, you threaten us and won't stop boasting how powerful China is.
3. Chinese keep saying they don't care about Vietnam. Ok fine you don't care, but it doesn't hurt to say or show you do or at least don't say anything at all. Ok try to understand this. Vietnam is in a weird location. It is located in Southeast Asia surrounded by completely alien countries. Vietnamese have identity crisis because no one accepts us. Vietnamese feel close to Chinese. We really do. And we feel insulted when Chinese say they don't care which makes us hate you even more.
4. Chinese don't understand that they are a big country and it doesn't hurt to show some concession to the little guy once in a while. More importantly Chinese never put yourself in our situation and ask yourself how we feel. How do you feel if there is a giant country more than 50 times your size constantly harassing you? Even better, how do you feel if people from that county keep saying that they don't understand why you hate them and that their country has never done anything wrong EVER?
5. Chinese blame Vietnam. Vietnam is always the ungrateful country that owes China everything and deserves every beating handed to it by China and it is NEVER China’s fault ever. I remember when I was 9 years old, I was running around being active, my mother was having a bad day and so smacked me out of frustration. She told me to apologize even when I haven't done anything wrong. Well at that time I really bloody hated her. People don't like having to apologize for someone else's action.
In short, Vietnamese hate Chinese because Chinese are ignorant and insensitive to Vietnamese feeling. Chinese leaders don't understand Vietnamese thoughts. Chinese citizens are insulting and ignore Vietnam. Chinese overseas diaspora group Vietnamese with other countries and don't realize our culture similarities even when we feel close to you.

是的。除了其他Quora用户提出的明显原因之外，还有其他因素。
基本上越南人是复杂的人，思想复杂。
中国人从不理解或从不试图理解越南人的心理状态！
中国人一直在问为什么越南人讨厌中国，并不停地说他们不明白为什么。
真的？
我们已经向你解释了无数次了！

连美国人都知道！
中国人不明白我们害怕中国。
所以，不要让我们冷静下来，不要停止威胁我们，不要停止地吹嘘中国有多么强大。
中国人一直说他们不在乎越南。
好吧，你们不在乎，但这说法并不伤人，而是看你做了什么，或者至少什么也不说。

好吧，试着理解这一点。
越南处在一个奇怪的位置。
它位于东南亚，周围是完全陌生的国家。
越南人有身份危机，因为没有人接受我们。
我们真的明白，越南人觉得和中国人很亲近。
当中国人说他们不在乎的时候，我们感到被侮辱了，这让我们更恨你们。

中国人不明白他们是个大国，偶尔给小男孩一点让步也无妨。
更重要的是，中国人从来没有对我们换位思考，问问自己我们的感受。
如果有一个巨大的国家，规模超过50倍的国家不断骚扰你，你会怎么想呢？
更甚的是，如果这个国家的一直说他们不明白为什么你们恨他们，他们的国家从来没有做错什么事呢？你是什么感受？
中国人指责越南。

越南永远是一个忘恩负义的国家，欠中国的一切，值得中国给予的每一次打击，从来都不是中国的错。
我记得当我9岁时，我正四处奔走，我妈妈今天心情不好，所以我从沮丧中打了个电话。
她告诉我即使我没做错什么事也要道歉。
那时候我真的很讨厌她。
人们不喜欢为别人的行为道歉。

简而言之，越南人讨厌中国人，因为中国人对越南的感情无知，麻木不仁。
中国领导人不懂越南思想。
中国公民侮辱和忽视越南。
海外华人和海外越南人在一起的时候，即使当我们感到和你们亲切，你们也不知道我们文化有多相似。

When it comes to anything related to China, Vietnamese have complicated and contradictory feeling. Let's see:
· China invaded Vietnam, forced Vietnamese to adopt Chinese culture => HATE
BUT at the same time: Chinese culture is similar to Vietnam, so Vietnamese feel close to Chinese, => LIKE
· Chinese are scheming and multifaceted => HATE
BUT at the same time: Vietnamese admire this cunningness and want to be more like that => LIKE
· Chinese moved to Vietnam, never wanted to assimilate, instead expected Vietnamese to accomodate them => HATE
BUT at the same time: Vietnamese admire Chinese resilience to cultural assimilation and always say we need to be more like that, especially Vietnamese overseas => LIKE
· Chinese are insular and only help their own people in business => HATE
BUT at the same time: Vietnamese say we need to learn more from Chinese solidarity with each other => LIKE
· Chinese fake everything => HATE
BUT at the same time: “OMG the Chinese are clever, anything they can do” => LIKE
· Chinese are calculative => HATE
BUT at the same time: Vietnamese admire Chinese long vision and culture of strategy and think Vietnamese need to learn from that => LIKE
Vietnamese can have bad sterotypes of Chinese but Vietnamese do recognise Chinese good points as well. Personally I think the Chinese are a very clever group of people. I came to this conclusion after observing and researching their community in Vietnam and in other Southeast Asian countries. They are without a doubt one of the most enterprising and business minded cultures in the world. And I think not just me but this view is quite common amongst Vietnamese. If there is one single common thought that Vietnamese have of Chinese, even the extremely anti-China ones, it would be: the Chinese are clever.

当谈到与中国有关的任何事情时，越南人都有复杂又矛盾的感觉。
让我们看看：
中国入侵越南，迫使越南人采取中国文化=>憎恨。
但与此同时：中国文化也与越南相似，所以越南人觉得中国人很亲切=>喜欢。
中国人在各个方面都诡计多端=>厌恶。
但是同时，越南人钦佩这种狡猾，并想成为这样的人=>喜欢。

移居越南的华人，从来不想融入当地，反而期望越南人适应他们=>厌恶。
但与此同时：越南人钦佩中国人对文化同化的快速恢复力，并且总是说我们需要更像这样，尤其是海外越南人=>喜欢。
中国人是孤立的，只帮助他们自己人经商=>厌恶。
但是与此同时，越南说我们需要从中国人的团结中学到更多的东西。
中国人山寨一切=>厌恶。

但与此同时：“天哪，中国人是聪明的，他们几乎无所不能”=>喜欢。
中国人精于计算=>讨厌。
但同时，越南人钦佩中国的远见卓识和战略文化，认为越南需要向他们学习=>喜欢。
越南人对中国可能有不好的印象，但越南也承认到中国的优点。
我个人认为中国人是一群非常聪明的人。

我在观察和研究越南以及东南亚国家的社会之后，我得出了这个结论。
毫无疑问，它们是世界上最具进取心和商业头脑的的文化群体之一。
我想不仅仅是我，但这种观点在越南人中是相当常见的。
如果越南人对中国人有一个共同的观点的话，甚至是极端反华的越南人，那就是：中国人太聪明了。

As a Vietnamese myself I am sometimes confused
I mean Vietnamese love eating Chinese food. There's a reason why Vietnamese say “eat in district 5, live in district 3, play in district 1” (?n qu?n 5, n?m qu?n 3, xa hoa qu?n 1) District 5 of Saigon is where the Chinese live and do business. It's also the foreign cuisine that's the easiest to eat for us (because yep we categorize foreign food on how “easy” it is to eat).
They love watching ancient Chinese dramas. Seriously the three KingdomS is still on TV after God knows how many years. Vietnamese discuss a lot about ancient Chinese history, if you want to bond with a group of old men playing Chinese chess, perhaps brush up on your Three Kingdoms knowledge, coupled with some myths and facts about Qin Shi Huang and you'll have a conversation starter. And young girls love those cheesy Chinese Internet novels with time traveling theme (rolls eyes)
Vietnamese have no problem dressing in Chinese costumes despite territorial disputes with China. In Mid-autumn festival, it is not uncommon to see young women dressing up in cheongsam to take photos. And no, Vietnamese still consider this festival to be 100% purely Vietnamese and would still argue tooth and nail that it has nothing to do with the Chinese!!! At all. Of course the Chinese took it from us when they invaded.
We are fighting with China but it doesn't stop us from dressing up now do we?*
And yes Vietnamese hate Chinese. It's just something we do. We are supposed to hate them so we will say that we hate them for the sake of it. Now as I think about it, I also hate my brother. He is annoying as hell. Sometimes I just want to punch him in the face. Sometimes I dream about punching him in the face. But I guess in the end I still feel close to him. I guess that's the easiest way to describe how Vietnamese feel for the Chinese. It's not really a “hate” but a transitioning feeling that's hard to describe.
And I think this comes down to the fact that no other country in the world has spent so long being dominated by a single country. Korea is another one but I think the Koreans managed to escape China’s control whereas Vietnam is still stuck. So I think hating the Chinese is a survival skill that Vietnamese acquired. After all if we love the Chinese, Vietnam would not survive until now.

作为越南人，有时我会困惑。
我是说越南人喜欢吃中国菜。
越南人说“在第五区吃饭，住在第三区，在第一区玩耍”(ănận5，nằm quuận 3，xa hoa Quận 1)是有原因的，西贡第5区是中国人居住和做生意的地方。
（这也是我们最容易吃到的外国菜(因为是的，我们把这归类为最容易吃到的外国菜”)。
他们喜欢看中国古装剧。
讲真，三国演义不知道在电视台播了多少年了，还在播。
越南人会谈论很多中国古代历史，如果想和一群老爷爷下棋，那么你应该了解一下三国的知识，再加上一些关于秦始皇的神话和历史，你就会有一个对话的开始。

年轻女孩喜欢那些俗气的中国架空网文(白眼)
尽管与中国领土争端有关，但越南人不会反感穿中国服装。（注释，上的图片是旗袍。）
在中秋节期间，看到年轻女子穿着旗袍拍照是常见的。
而且，越南人仍然认为春节这个节日是100%，完全是越南文化，而且仍然会咬牙切齿，手舞足蹈的争辩，它与中国人无关！完全没有。当然是，中国人入侵我们的时候拿走的。

我们正在与中国作战，但这并不妨碍我们现在打扮起来，对吗？（注释，上的图是越南女孩儿们）
越南恨中国人。
这仅仅是我们能做的事了。
我们应该恨他们，所以我们会说我们恨他们是为了恨而恨。
现在当我想到它时，我也恨我兄弟。

他讨厌得要命。
有时候我只想揍他一拳。
有时候我做梦都想揍他一脸。
但我想最终我还是觉得他很亲近。
我想这是描述越南人对中国人的感受的最简单的形容。
这不是真正的“仇恨”，但这种感情转变的感觉是难以描述的。

我认为这可以归结为这样一个事实：世界上没有哪个国家在这么长时间被一个国家统治过。
韩国是另一个，但我认为韩国设法逃脱了中国的控制，而越南仍然被困。
因此，我认为憎恨中国人是越南人获得的生存技能。
毕竟，如果我们爱中国，越南将无法存在到现在。

Vietnamese people do not hate *Chinese people* in daily life. Chinese influence is part of Vietnamese culture. Our people know and love Chinese literature, music, superstars, and movies (especially historical and wu-xia ones). Such TV series as the 1983 "Journey to the West" were among best childhood memories for the children in the 1990s. Now young girls read online Chinese love fictions. Young boys use Oppo besides iPhone and Samsung. We admire China's achievements in economic development and want to learn from those. As individuals, we are pretty close in terms of culture and mindset, and thus can make friends easily.
However, Vietnamese people often hold a strongly negative attitude toward the following issues:
· Chinese expansionism (or hegemony, imperialism).
· Cheap low-quality and sometimes poisonous goods from China.
In the talks on these issues, it is understandable that the term “the Chinese” can be used liberally, no matter who did the bad things: the government or cunning traders.
The first issue is deeply rooted in history. For a thousand years Vietnam has always been a clear target for Chinese dynasties every time they wanted to flex their muscles or attempted to gain more land. So the Viets were very alert to the threats from the Northern empire. This watchful attitude lessened as both countries were invaded by foreign forces and went through the independence & communist movements, but has intensified during the recent ups and downs in the two countries' relationship (the 1979 war, etc.) It is believed by some people that Chinese government is trying to control and sabotage Vietnamese economy, gradually converting Vietnam into a subordinate vassal state.
Speaking of the second issue, I don’t think that only Vietnam has a problem with cheap Chinese goods. But in Vietnam it is much worse because we share a land border with China where smuggling is rampant, technical barriers to trade are non-existent and quality standards are ignored. However, in my opinion, we Vietnamese are as much to blame, because if not for our own greed, corruption and short-sightedness, how could bad poisonous products be imported from the border to our markets?
So in short, the feelings of Vietnamese people toward China (as a country) are admiration and love and hate intertwined. I cannot say for individuals, for each of us will have our own experiences.

越南人民在日常生活中不讨厌中国人。
受中国文化影响的部分也是越南文化。
我们的人民了解和热爱中国文学、音乐、超级巨星和电影(尤其是历史和武侠)。
像1983年的《西游记》这样的电视剧是20世纪90年代孩子们最美好的童年回忆。
现在年轻的女孩们读中国网络言情小说。

年轻的男孩们除了iphone和三星之外，还使用了Oppo。
我们钦佩中国在经济发展方面取得的成就，并且应该向他们学习。
作为个人，我们在文化和思考方式方面都非常接近，因此可以容易结交朋友。
然而，越南人民对以下问题往往保持强烈的反抗态度：
中国扩张主义(或霸权、帝国主义)。

廉价的，低质的和有时是有毒的物品来自中国。
在关于这些问题的讨论中，值得同情的是“中国的”一词可以被广泛使用，而不管是谁做了坏事：是政府还是狡猾的商人。
第一个问题深深根植于历史。
几千年来，越南一直是中国王朝的一个明确的目标，每次他们想要扩张自己的肌肉或试图获得更多的土地。
所以，越南人在对北方帝国的威胁非常警惕。

这一谨慎态度随着两国受到外国势力的侵略而经历了独立和共产主义运动，但在最近两国关系起起落落(1979战争等）中，一些人相信，中国政府正试图控制和破坏越南经济，逐渐将越南变成附庸国。
说到第二个问题，我不认为只有越南人对廉价的中国商品存在抱怨。
但在越南，情况更糟，因为我们与中国接壤，走私猖獗，贸易技术壁垒不存在，质量标准被忽视。
然而，在我看来，我们越南人应该受到同样的谴责，因为如果不是为了我们自己贪婪、腐败和短视，那么有毒有害的产品怎么会从边境进口到我们市场呢？
所以，简而言之，越南人民对中国的感情(作为一个国家)是钦佩、喜欢和讨厌交织在一起。
我不能代表其他人的看法，因为我们每个人都会有各自的经历。

Of course we do. It’s impossible not to, given our history.
The Vietnamese hate Chinese people in the same way that the Nepalis hate The Indians, or all the Eastern Europeans-Russians. It's a fact. We, the weak and the marginalised hate the bully. It's how it is.
this sort of love-hate relationship is a very common phenomenon all around the globe. The submissive one absorbed too much cultural value and philosophical ideals from the provocateur that they feel threatened of losing their identity. The Vietnamese try incessantly to prove that they are unique and so much different from the Chinese, and by unique and different, what they are truly telling is the claim of their indepence, historically and culturally. But of course they can't. Vietnam resembles a great deal of China. The fact is too cruel to comprehend, let alone recognize it as an essential part of national identity design. and the more we strive to shrug it off, the more of that hatred is haboured in the society.
Yet we are heavily influenced, it is impossible to disconnect ourselves and refute all of what helped make us who we are. We aspire the enormous collection of Chinese civilization and study them wholeheartedly, as if we are rediscovering ourselves. a Vietnamese may find Chinese philosophy much more agreeable than Western ideals precisely because it relates more to the values and traditions that she holds and beholds. The same thing happened in other social activities, such as religion practice or the taste in art and fashioN (though given by the exponential popularity of American culture, this is changing)
well then, so of course we hate the Chinese, at the same time we get intrigued and secretly admire them。

当然，这是我们必须做的事情。
鉴于我们的历史，不这样做是不可能的。
越南人憎恨中国人，就像尼泊尔人憎恨印度人，或者所有东欧人与俄国人那样。
这是事实。
我们，弱者和被边缘化的憎恨持强凌弱者。
就是这么回事。

这种爱恨恨关系是全世界普遍存在的现象。
那些顺从者从破坏分子那里吸收了太多的文化价值观和哲学思想，他们出现了身份认同危机。
于是越南人不断尝试证明他们是独一无二的，是与中国人不同的，而且独特而特别的，他们真正讲的是他们的独立性、历史和文化的诉求。
但他们当然摆脱不了。
越南与中国相当相似。
事实太残酷了，以至于很难理解，更别说承认这是组成我们民族的重要组成部分，我们越是努力去消除它，那么这种仇恨就越多，社会就会变得越不公平。

然而，我们受到了巨大的困扰，我们无法把我们自己拆开（注释：可能就是说无法将他们的中国部分拆开吧），驳斥所有帮助于我们成为我们的一切。
我们渴望着吸收大量的中华文明，全心全意地学习它们，好像我们正在重新认识到，中国哲学比西方哲学更适合自己，因为它更多地适合越南的传统价值观。
同样的事情发生在其他社会活动中，比如宗教活动或对艺术和时尚的品味(尽管美国文化流行，这也在改变)。
那么，我们当然恨中国人，同时我们也会痴迷于他们，并且偷偷地崇拜他们。

Hoang Nguyen, a Vietnamese guy
：
This is misconception.
Vietnamese people doesn't hate Chinese people, we instead respect their culture, working attitude, kindly supports...
But, we do afraid of Chinese governments, who, in history, started many wars against Vietnam.

这是误解。
越南人民不恨中国人，我们尊重他们的文化、工作态度、真诚的祝福。
但是，我们确实害怕ZG政府，他们在历史上发动了许多针对越南的战争。

ennifer Lan Phuong Ho, Student @ UOttawa
Generally speaking - yes. But on a personal level, I feel no resentment towards Chinese at all and many of my friends are Chinese.
There is however, a certain tension between Vietnamese and Chinese. Which is definitely saying something, because I don't think it is as strong for other countries like the US or Japanese or the French, who have also occupied our country in the past and done their fair share of horrible things.
It's mostly a matter of history. China has invaded us many many times and still are questioning Vietnamese sovereignty even today. So yes, generally speaking there is resentment but I wouldn't say that every Vietnamese person hates every Chinese person.

一般来说：是的。
但就我个人而言，我不讨厌中国人，我的许多朋友都是中国人。
然而，越南人和中国人之间存在着一定的紧张关系。

确切的说，因为我并不认为她对美国、日本或法国等国家来说同样强大，他们过去也占领了我们的国家，做过一些可怕的事情。
这基本上是历史问题。
中国侵略了我们很多次，甚至今天仍在质疑越南主权。
所以是的，一般来说，有怨恨，但我不会说每个越南人都恨每个中国人。

Hồng Thiên, works at THPT Chuyên Lê Hồng Phong
Answered Sep 25, 2014
Originally Answered: Why do the Vietnamese hate the Chinese?
We don't really hate Chinese people, just Chinese government because political, historical and sovereignty conflicts for thousands years. In fact, many Chinese people are really nice and friendly.
However, like in China, there are many other people who just listen to one-direction information or they can't discern and understand that the conflicts are between the governments, the leaders, not the people. They start to hate anything which is related to the other country, which is not worth.
Please, when you hate a country, hate its government, don't hate the people.

最初回答：为什么越南人讨厌中国人？
我们并不真的恨中国人，仅仅对ZG政府，因为政治、历史和主权冲突数千年。事实上，很多中国人真的很友好。
然而，就像中国一样，还有很多人只是听到片面的信息，或者他们无法辨别和理解冲突是政府、领导人之间、而不是人民之间的冲突。
他们开始憎恨任何与另一个国家有关的东西，这是不值得的。
拜托，当你对一个国家感到仇恨，请憎恨其政府，不要讨厌其人民。

Rinat Abdekadir, I'm a Kazakh-Chinese who was born in Xinjiang.（哈萨克族中国人，出生于中国新疆）
A lot of ass-kissing and flattery for this answer. The truth is:
YES THEY DO.
How do I know this?
Well practically all Chinese people I know hate Japan, same with Koreans as well. I see on Quora Chinese and Koreans saying things like: “Oh no we don’t hate them we just hate their government!”. That’s BS, pure BS lol. If I saw the amount of vitriol Koreans have against Japanese like I have seen in personal experiences on Quora I’d see answers like: “Yes, we fucking despise you Japs, we wish you were nuked with 100 nukes instead of 2”.
Vietnamese? Same thing, they’ll flatter you and pretend they don’t hate you. But they do, I don’t know many Vietnamese in real life but the ones that do if I don’t tell them I’m Chinese, they’ll gladly vilify China and cheer on things like the Sichuan earthquake because they don’t know I’m Chinese.
But for Vietnamese it must be a weird feeling, because I see Vietnamese culture for all intensive purposes is very very close to Chinese culture. So, when Vietnamese hate its again like Chinese hating Japanese or Koreans hating Japanese.
They like Chinese culture, in fact I always see Vietnamese and Chinese mingling with each other outside China or Vietnam completely fine. From what I see on Quora, it seems to be confirmed by anecdotal evidence.
As much as Koreans and Chinese hate Japan, Japanese culture is very popular in China and Korea. Not to mention that Japanese culture before the westernization of Japan was also quite close to Chinese and Korean culture (Sinospheric culture), so Chinese and Koreans hate Japan.. But gladly wack off to Japanese porn, love Manga and Anime and are general weebs.
Do they hate? Yes, do they hate indiscriminately? Yes. But deep down inside, they hate and love at the same time.

上面对这个问题的回答有很多拍马屁和奉承。
事实是：是的。
那我怎么知道这个？
事实上，我知道所有的中国人都讨厌日本，也讨厌韩国人。

我看到Quora上，中国人和韩国人说：“哦，不，我们不恨他们，我们只是恨他们的政府！”
那是胡说，纯粹的胡说八道。
比如我看到的韩国人对日本人的厌恶，根据我在Quroa上的个人经历中看到过这样的回答：“是的，我们他妈的鄙视你们日本人，我们希望你们用100枚核弹而不是2枚”。
越南人？
同样的事情，他们会奉承你，假装他们不恨你。

但是他们觉得，我不知道在现实生活中有很多越南人如果我不告诉他们我是中国人，他们会很乐意诋毁中国，为四川地震这样的事情欢呼，因为他们不知道我是中国人。
但对于越南人来说，这一定是一种奇怪的感觉，因为我看到越南文化所有相关的都非常接近中国文化。
所以，当越南人憎恨它时，就像中国人讨厌日本人或韩国人讨厌日本人一样。
他们喜欢中国文化，事实上，我总是看到越南人和中国人在中国或越南以外的地方相处融洽，我从Quora上看到的这些，证据看起来是通过传闻来证实的。
正如韩国人和中国人讨厌日本一样，日本文化在中国和韩国都很受欢迎。

更不用说日本文化，西化前的日本文化也与中国和韩国文化(中国大陆层文化)相当接近，所以中国人和韩国人都恨日本，但是普通的二次元宅男都很高兴地去看日本色情电影、漫画和动画。
他们讨厌吗？
是的，他们讨厌不分青红皂白吗？
是的。
但是内心深处，他们同时又爱又恨。

Trần Hoàng Trường Hải,。
I Write Code and Poem.
Do we hate China? Yes, we do. I can say the animosity is from majority, not minority. Another fact is the Vietnamese people in the southern hate China more than the folks in the northern. An interesting point is even Chinese ethnics in Vietnam do not like the China mainland.
We hate China not because she has become stronger and stronger, or because China is far superior to Vietnam. Even during the Mongolian invasion or pre-modern Chinese history when China dropped down to the bottom of power scale, we were still hating them. We hate China because China has always concerned with Vietnam for all of the time. Every single major event in Vietnamese history had the fingerprint of Chinese, and most of their manipulations were negatively influencing to Vietnam. To be honest, I think this hateful mentality will continue forever.
I myself hate China. Ironically, I have a bunch of Chinese friends. It’s simply because I hate the country in general, but I do not hate any particular Chinese folk.

我是码农和诗人。
我们恨中国吗？
是的，我们知道。
我可以说，仇恨来自多数人，而不是少数人。
另一个事实是，越南南方人讨厌中国比北方的人更甚。

有趣的一点是，即使越南的华人也不喜欢中国大陆。
我们讨厌中国，不是因为她变得越来越强大，或者因为中国比越南强大。
即使在蒙古入侵或中国近代史上中国跌到了权力规模的最低时，我们仍然讨厌他们。
我们讨厌中国，因为大多数时间里，中国一直都与越南牵扯不清。
越南历史上的每一次重大事件都有中国人的影子，而他们的大部分的挑起都对越南产生了负面影响。

老实说，我认为这种厌恶的心态会永远延续下去。
我自己讨厌中国。
但讽刺的是，我却有一群中国朋友。
这仅仅是因为我讨厌这个国家，但我不讨厌任何特定的中国人。

Bu Ban Tan
Answered Feb 11
I love Chinese Beautiful Women. But Chinese Goverment, No! They occupy Vietnam Sea and talk something like "We discoveried them, those Islands, from thousands year ago". What? How your goverment can talk something like that. You, chinese, have just gained your independence from Manchu people or Mongol people in 1949. Now, Mongol people say Hey Chinese! Tibet, Xinjiang, Neimong, Beijing, Yunan, Sichuan… is our land for thousands year ago. What will you think? We hate Chinese by this reason. By the way, Chinese is very amazing. Now they can land something on the Moon. In future, when we live on the Mar, we can be best friend.

我爱中国美丽的女人。
但是中国的政府，不！
他们占领越南海域，说“是他们从几千年前就发现了这些群岛。
什么鬼？
你们的政府怎么能这么说呢？
你们，中国人，1949年刚刚从满族人或蒙古人民那里获得了独立。

现在蒙古人民说，嗨中国人！
西藏新疆、南京、北京、云南、四川…是我们几千年前的土地。
你会怎么想？
我们之所以恨中国人就是因为这个原因。
顺便说一下，中国人真的很棒。
现在他们可以登录月球。
将来，要是我们生活在月球上面，那么我们可以成为最好的朋友。

Anonymous
Answered Oct 16, 2017
Theoretically, people should not hate each other. But from a practical perspective, China has done a lot of bad things with Vietnam. No one in Vietnam can ignore the feelings of insults, bullying and oppression by the Chinese.
I believe that hatred is perfectly understandable and beneficial in that context. We must fight to preserve Vietnam's territorial integrity, culture and spirit.
Chinese traders are sent in to sabotage and occupy the economy of our country.
By sea, they invade and rob our territory.
In terms of culture, China is trying to poison Vietnamese youth with cheap, inexpensive cultural products and pathogens in their country.
The government of Vietnam is also heavily influenced by the Chinese government. And sometimes, wise people in our country have to realize that our politicians are following China's orders.
China is really trying to control Vietnam as its backyard.
No Vietnamese patriot can ignore such abuse and humiliation.

从理论上讲，人们不应该互相讨厌。
但从实践的角度来看，中国在越南问题上做了很多坏事。
在越南，没有人能忽视中国人的侮辱、欺凌和压迫的感觉。
我认为，在这方面，仇恨是完全可以理解和有益的。
我们必须努力维护越南的领土完整、文化和精神。
中国商人进来破坏和占领了我国经济。

通过大海，他们入侵和掠夺我们的领土。
从文化方面讲，中国正试图用廉价和有毒的文化产品毒害越南青少年。
越南政府也受到中国政府的严重影响。
有时，我们国家的智者必须认识到，我们的政治家们正在遵循中国的命令。
中国确实试图控制越南作为其后花院。
没有任何越南爱国者可以无视这种虐待和侮辱。

Anonymous
No , but I’m sorry for my answer Chinese friends . You can downvote my answer but i think this is about our 2000 years “ hatred ” that shape the way we think…..
Our ancestor has taught us allways becareful that we have been battling China for more than a millennia, most of the old folk heroes in Vietnam are those that have fought China
If you look back to Vietnam history , our ultimate enemy is China.
** 南国山河南帝居，The mountains and rivers of the southern country belong to the Southern Emperor.
截然分定在天书。Its sovereignty is of nature's will and is allotted in script of the Heaven book
如何逆虏来侵犯，If these Northern invades dare trespass
汝等行看取败虚。You going to get a huge beating
**赵氏有天存社稷 , As long as the Trieu 赵朝 exist the country exist
汉人无地出楼船 Swear that our enmity is a death-feud with Han dynasty
** 一指已无秦万里开先闽貉絶
两立何难汉亿年倡始帝王基
：：：：：：

没有，抱歉，我的中国朋友们。
你可以对我的回答投反对票，但我认为这是关于我们2000多年的“仇恨”塑造了我们的思维方式。
我们的祖先教导我们，我们已经和中国斗争了几千年了，越南的大部分老英雄都是那些曾经打过中国的英雄。
如果你回顾越南历史，我们最终的敌人就是中国。

南国山河南帝居，
截然定分在天书，
如何逆虏来侵犯，
汝辈行看取败虚
（注释：这是古代越南国王的一首诗歌。大概的意思就是：南国之土是南方越帝居住的地方，国土分界是天书上写的（作者假借神仙托梦），如果有人来侵犯的话，你们走着瞧，看看谁会失败？）
赵氏有天存社稷
汉人无地出楼船。
（注：后面这两句大概就是只要有赵朝在，汉人就不敢来犯。）

Ken Khoa Ho-Le, former Company Director
Answered Nov 16
I can’t speak for other Vietnamese but I can speak for myself. I’ve been to China and I love it. I admire it. The young people in China are incredibly well educated, polite and smart. On the train, they have given up their seat for me, a senior person. I have lots of good Chinese friends. No, I don’t hate the Chinese in general. I will be happy for my children to marry Chinese people.
I like many of the Chinese policies, for example the One Belt One Road initiative. I don’t like some other Chinese policies, for example demanding bilateral talks to resolve the issue of the South China Sea islands (I’d rather have the issue handled by an international court).。

我不能代表其他越南人说话，但我能为自己说话。
我去过中国，我喜欢中国。
我钦佩它。
中国年轻人受过良好教育、彬彬有礼、聪明。
火车上，他们主动为我这个老人让座。

我有很多中国好朋友。
所以我一般不恨中国人。
我会为我的孩子们和中国人结婚感到高兴。
我喜欢中国的许多政策，比如一带一路的倡议。
有些中国政策我也不喜欢，例如要求双边会谈来解决南海诸岛问题(我宁愿让国际法庭来处理这个问题)。

Jackson Lee, real estate developer
Answered Oct 17, 2017
I assume so.
Some people may argue it is probably because of the war in 1979 and the prolonged border skirmishes in the following decade. It is probably one of the reason. However US launched a far more cruel war that lasted over 10 years, killing nearly 2 million Vietnamese, and Vietnamese do not hate Americans.
Some people may think it is because of the Chinese “occupation” hundreds of years ago, but remember Vietnam was only a vassal state and was requested to pay occasional tributes in exchange for protection upon request. However France did colonize Vietnam for over a hundred years and some seemed to feel proud about it. I assume people do know the sharp difference between vassal state and colony.
The only reason I could think of to explain the unreasonable hatred by Vietnamese is Vietnam has been so heavily influenced by Chinese culture, and it MUST try very hard to alienate China in order to boost its own national pride and sentiment. So China MUST be coined as a villain and a bully, and the history of Vietnam was then revised to a history of heroric Vietnamese fought against the invaders, thus legitimizing its independence and nationalist movement.
The same also happens to Korea.
It is really about pride and self consciousness, and the hatred is manipulated and orchestred.
But frankly as a normal Chinese whose work and life has very little to do with Vietnam, who cares?

杰克森·李，房地产开发商。
我猜是这样。
有些人可能会争辩说，这可能是因为1979战争以及之后十年中旷日持久的边境冲突。
这可能是其中原因之一。

然而，美国发动了一场长达10年的残酷战争，杀害了近二百万越南人，越南人不憎恨美国人。
有些人可能认为这是因为数百年前中国的“占领”，但请记住，越南只是一个附庸国，并被要求偶尔献祭，以换取保护请求。
然而，法国已经在越南殖民了一百多年，有些人似乎对此感到自豪。
我认为人们知道附庸国和殖民地之间的巨大差别。
我之所以能想到解释越南人不合理的仇恨是因为越南受到中国文化很大的影响，必须努力疏远中国，以增强自己的民族自豪感和民族主义情绪。

因此，中国必须被创造为反派和恶霸，然后将越南的历史修改为一个越南人与侵略者作战的历史，从而使其独立和民族主义运动合法化。
韩国也发生了同样的事情。
它真正地是关于骄傲和自我意识，这种憎恨是被操纵和精心策划的。
但坦率地说，作为一个正常的中国人，他们的工作和生活与越南没有什么关系，谁在乎呢？

Peter Nguyen, works at Poway Unified School District
Answered Aug 21, 2017
Simple: my older brother has an anti Chinese attitude (Chinese cheat, are untrustworthy…).
After he visited China, I asked “Did you see the women? What did you think?”
His answer: “One out of three, or even more, are incredibly beautiful!”
So, it’s not hate, it seems more like fear and a bit of extreme nationalism. Personally I do think (I can think of some right now) that Chinese women are incredibly pretty, and I don’t hate Chinese at all

简单点：我哥哥有一个反华态度(中国人作弊，不可信…)。
在他访问中国之后，我问他：“你见过那些女孩了吗？你怎么看？”
他的回答是：“三分之一，甚至更多，是难以置信的美丽！”
所以，这不是仇恨，更像是恐惧和极端民族主义。
就我个人而言，我确实认为(我现在能想到一些)中国女人非常漂亮，我一点也不讨厌中国人。