中国已婚女人会带婚戒吗? [美国媒体]

reddit网友:这得看人。我妈在35岁之前会戴一个金戒指,手镯和两个耳环。在那之后她觉得戴首饰太麻烦了(就把它们取下来了)。但对于年轻女士来说,我想她们如果结婚了是会戴戒指的。


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Do married Chinese woman wear wedding rings?

中国已婚女人会带婚戒吗?


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JillyPollaTaiwan
The wedding gift for your spouse is not supposed to be a ring. It's supposed to be gold bars or necklaces.
The traditional way to propose in Chinese culture is not with a ring on your knee. It's to get an account of your finances and a full health checkup. You then hand your financial statements and the clean bill of health to your girlfriend and her parents.

给你伴侣的结婚礼物不应该是戒指。而应该是金条或金项链。
在中国文化中传统的求婚方式不是单膝(跪地手拿)戒指求婚的。而是给你的未婚妻开通一个新账户并做好全面的健康检查(婚检)。然后把你的财务(资产)报表连同健康证明书一起上交给女友和她的父母(查阅)。

purplemilkywayy 
It's not really a thing. The younger generation is more influenced by Western culture so some are starting to.

并不是这样的。年轻一代更容易受西方文化影响,所以其中有些人起了这个头。

DaLaohuUnited States 
My wife and I don't. Honestly we just can't afford one that would make her look proud and save face with her friends. One day when I can I will get one for her.
But to your point what she told me was that most do not because there is thing where a thief will chop off a woman's finger to get the ring. That's what she told me though. Maybe it is a real fear of theirs because I do not see Chinese wearing wedding rings. You have to think too that it is a Western tradition. Not Chinese. So they will feel less pressure to do so in their own country.

我和我妻子就没有(戴婚戒)。老实说这是因为我们买不起一枚可以让她在朋友面前挽回面子大方炫耀的戒指。总有一天我会给她买一枚的。然而针对你的(问题),我的妻子告诉我说大部分人是不戴婚戒的,因为好像有发生过一个小偷为了得到戒指将女人的手指切下的事情。这就是她告诉我的。可能他们真的恐惧会发生这种事,因为我没见中国人戴婚戒的。你也可以把原因归结为(戴婚戒)这是西方的传统,不是中国的。所以他们在自己的国家内做这种事(买婚戒)时就会少点压力。

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fojiaotu  
Almost never. The 90后 are starting to though.

几乎从来不戴。但90后似乎开始戴了。

Aan2007  
no and it's same for both genders

不戴。男女都一样。

falcumgong  
Only when they're not cheating.

只有没出轨的时候才戴。

JillyPollaTaiwan 
Why are answers like this always up voted heavily on this sub? It doesn't actually answer the question and for people unfamiliar could actually give them the wrong ideas.

为什么像这样的答案总有很多人点赞?实际上它并没有回答这个问题,它会给那些不了解(情况)的人灌输一些错误的想法。

LeYanYanFrance  
I know right?! Why do people make cynical jokes meanwhile bitches openly flirt with the first remotely wealthy dude in front of their boyfriends at the club? It gives them wrong ideas!
Chillax man.

我知道好不?人们为什么要冷嘲热讽呢,与此同时婊子们却在俱乐部里当着自己男朋友的面与稍微有点钱的家伙公然调情?这给了他们错误的想法!
淡定点,大哥。

jamesadib1 
Nowadays so many Chinese young couples buy wedding rings. However foreigners like you will always wear the ring to show that you're married. But many Chinese only wear the rings during the wedding ceremony.

现在很多年轻的中国夫妇都会买结婚戒指。然而,像你这样的外国人总是戴着戒指是为了表明你已婚。但许多中国人只在结婚典礼期间会戴戒指。

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sunlessRealms 
It depends. My mother wore a gold ring and bracelet and two earrings before 35 years old. After that she thought it was too inconvenient to wear jewelry. But for young ladies I think they will wear the rings if they are married.

这得看人。我妈在35岁之前会戴一个金戒指,手镯和两个耳环。在那之后她觉得戴首饰太麻烦了(就把它们取下来了)。但对于年轻女士来说,我想她们如果结婚了是会戴戒指的。

Stumpy_Lump  
I heard that Jade bracelets are common instead of Wedding rings... but I know nothing

我听说戴玉镯子比结婚戒指更普遍……但我一无所知。

HaiNiu  
Trying to figure out if you should hit on someone or not?

这是不是为了要搞清楚你要搭讪的对象(是否已婚)啊?

komnenosChina
I see it occasionally here in Beijing. From what I've seen it's usually younger people who are a tad more western.

在北京偶尔会看到(戴婚戒的人)。但我看到的通常都是有点西化的年轻人。

wzyguy  
That’s easy.. if u buy her a big enough diamond .. she will wear it ..

这很简单啊……如果你给她买个大克拉钻戒……她就会戴了……

LeYanYanFrance 
Waiting for your post where you get a black eye from her husband.

坐等你被她丈夫揍得鼻青脸肿的新帖子。

dandmcdUnited States
Young couples always wear rings. Older generations wedding rings weren't really a tradition but now having engagement and wedding rings like western countries has become the norm.

年轻夫妇经常会戴戒指。对于老一辈来说,结婚戒指并不是传统,但现在像西方国家一样拥有订婚和结婚戒指已成为常态。

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