【红迪网】外国网友：为什么会有女人随机加我的微信 [美国媒体]

Random women adding me to WeChat

【红迪网】外国网友：为什么会有女人随机加我的微信



eoinnll
This is exactly what it says in the title. I have a random woman who added me to WeChat, because she kind of looks like someone I know, I accepted her friendship. Turns out she is not that woman. How did she get my contact details? and is it a bit strange/unusual for this to happen?

就像标题说的，总是有女人随机的加我的微信（WeChat），因为她看起来像一个我认识的人，我·接受了她，然后发现她不是那个我认识的女人。她是怎么得到的联系方式的？这是不是有点奇怪/不寻常呢?

I had a look around the app and I can find no way of adding strangers other than the people in your area (which I wasn't using), shaking (which I wasn't doing), or randomly typing in a name (which seems weird).

我回头查看了一下这个应用程序，发现除了你所在区域的人之外，我找不到其他陌生人(我没用过)。、摇一摇(我没这么做过)、或者随机输入名字(这看起来很奇怪)

And as a post script, what do you think she is doing randomly contacting foreigners?

补充说明一下，你觉得她为什么要和外国人随机接触？



chanhyuk
Probably a hooker or scammer who found you in a group chat. They add me too sometimes and I have no idea how. I just delete them. I have a friend who would dupe stupid people into sending red packets, he was a dude pretending to be a hot girl. He did it during his university days because he was poor.

很可能是黑客或者骗子，在群聊中找到了你。他们有时也会加我，我也不知道怎么他们做到的，我直接删除他们， 我有一个朋友，他会欺骗愚蠢的人给他发红包，他是一个假装成软妹子的糙汉，在大学的时候他这么干过----因为他很穷。

eoinnll
Is there a way of finding out what group it was? I am in a football group and a school group that's it.

有没有办法找出是哪个群？ 我在一个足球群和学校群里。

xiefeilaga
When people try to add you, it usually says how. It'll say if they added you from a particular group, if someone else shared your contact card with them, or if they found you through your phone number.

当人们尝试添加你的的时候，一般都会说明为什么，可能他们通过一个特殊的群添加的你，也可能有人把你的联系卡分享给他们了，或者也有可能他们是通过你的电话号码添加的。

eoinnll
Yeah, like I say, she really looked like my dance teacher. I wasn't paying too much attention and added her. I also got a new phone so that record is most likely on the other phone. I wonder to people just add from random phone numbers?...

是的，就像我说的，她真的长得像我的舞蹈老师。我没有太注意她，把她给加了。我还买了一部新手机，所以在其他手机上很有可能有通话记录。我想知道人们只是从随机的电话号码中添加吗?

ThatForeignDude
It's simply amazing how desperate some Chinese men are for female attention, sending hongbao to girls they've never seen (and will never see) so that she (or he) may give them 2 seconds of attention through text messages before she moves onto her next target. Just when you thought that male desperation couldn't get any worse than in Japan.

令人惊讶的是，一些中国男人多么渴望女性的关注，把红包送给她们从未见过(也永远不会看到)的女孩，这样她(或他)在进入下一个目标之前可能会通过短信给予他们2秒的关注。

chanhyuk
Desperate stupid men are not something China nor Japan has a monopoly on. Just two days ago I saw an angry African spreading a "girl's" Wechat in a foreign group because he was gypped out of 40rmb then was blocked. Guy never met the person.

饥渴的愚蠢男人不是中国，也不是日本的专利。就在两天前，我看到一个愤怒的非洲人在一个外国人群里公布了一个“女孩”的微信，因为在他掏了40软妹币后就被对方屏蔽了，这哥们从没见过这人。

ThatForeignDude
Yup, desperation isn't anyone's monopoly, although it is particularly present in some societies.

是啊，饥渴不是任何人的专属，尽管它在某些社会中特别存在。

Ash-Yuan
You should ask her.As a Chinese,I don't have any randon woman adding my Wechat,so either you are very famious or handsome、rich,or only because you are foreigners,and lots Chinese girl want to move abroad.

你应该问问她。作为一个中国人，我的微信上没有任何一个女人添加我的微信，所以要么你很有名，要么很英俊，要么很有钱，要么只是因为你是外国人，很多中国女孩都想搬到国外去。

eoinnll
I asked her and she said I was handsome. I told her I had a wife and we chatted a little bit. She seems alright. Doesn't seem like a scam but I don't know how she added me, and I think it would be a bit rude to ask now.

我问过她，她说我很帅。我告诉她我有妻子，我们聊了聊，她似乎就那样子，看起来不像是一个骗局，但我不知道她是怎么把我给加起来的，我想现在问一下就有点不礼貌了。

BillyBattsShinebox
Just ask her for crying out loud. There's nothing wrong with asking "by the way, how did you find my wechat?"...

问她到底搞什么名堂，“对了，你是怎么找到我的微信的? “。。这么问没什么错。

Ash-Yuan 
Is your Wechat connect your mobile number?Now days easy to get everyone's mobile number through express etc.Or there is a little function （I don't know the exact english name,I think is people nearby）,you can have a look which people is using Wechat and have this function nearby 1000meter and have a little chat with anyone.Oh，yes,they can see your picture in your circle of friends frist.

你的微信关联到你的手机号码了吗？现在，通过快递等方式可以很容易地获得每个人的手机号码。或者是一个小功能(我不知道确切的英文名字，我想是"附近的人")，你可以看看谁在使用微信，在1000米附近有这个功能，并和任何人聊天。哦，对了，他们可以在你的朋友圈里第一眼就看到你的照片。

BlazeMiskulin
It could be through the "People Nearby" feature. They see a foreign face and want to either practice their English, scam a foreigner, or impress their friends by knowing a foreigner.

它可以通过“附近的人”功能来添加。他们看到一张外国面孔，想要练习英语，诈骗外国人，或者通过认识外国人来给他们的朋友留下深刻印象。

fojiaotu
This is the most likely reason.

这是最有可能的原因

Playapan
Scam artist

职业骗子