土耳其某父亲在脸书上直播自杀，原因是其女儿在未经他准许下结婚 [美国媒体]

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Horrifying footage has emerged of a distraught father appearing to kill himself with a gun on Facebook live - because his daughter had chosen to marry without his approval.

一段令人惊骇的视频显示，一名悲痛欲绝的父亲在脸书上用枪直播自杀，原因是其女儿在未经他准许下结婚。

Ayhan Uzun from Kayseri central Turkey can be seen speaking to the camera and unleashing a tirade of abuse against his family before putting a handgun to his head.

可以看到来自土耳其中部开耳塞利的乌尊.艾埃汉（Ayhan Uzun）对着镜头说话，在他把手枪对准自己的头部之前，他对他的家人进行了一番激烈刺耳的辱骂。

The 54-year-old pulls the trigger on the count of three after saying his final words: 'Goodbye I am leaving take good care of yourselves.'

这位54岁的男人在说完遗言后倒数三秒后扣动扳机（结束了自己的生命），:“再见，我要离开了，好好照顾你们自己。”

Mr Uzun immediately collapsed to the floor in the footage which has not been independently verified. He had earlier revealed that the reason for his suicide was the impending marriage of his daughter without his permission.

在这段还未获得独立查证的视频中，乌尊先生（在扣动扳机后）立马倒在了地板上。早些时候他透露出自己自杀的原因是他的女儿在未经他允许的情况下即将结婚。

He said: 'I am livestreaming tonight and it is my will I do not want the ones who put me in this position to attend my funeral.' 

他说，:“今晚我要进行直播，做出这一选择完全出自我个人的意愿，我不想那些将我逼迫至此的人来参加我的葬礼。”

Mr Uzun who was alone at his home revealed that he only learned about his daughter's engagement in a telephone call. 

独自一人在家的乌尊先生透露，他仅通过一个电话得知自己女儿订婚的消息。

Mr Uzun said: 'On my daughter's happiest day (her engagement) they called me and said to me: "Father come have a treat".

乌尊先生说:“在我女儿最幸福的那天(她的订婚日)，他们给我打电话，对我说:“爸爸，来参加订婚宴吧。。”

'Nobody asked about me. Nobody treated me like a man. My father-in-law took my place and without having a right he approved my daughter's wedding. 

“没人过问我。没有人当我是个男人。我的岳父取代了我的位置，他根本没这个权利批准我女儿的婚礼。

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'Nobody said this girl's father is alive. Though I would have waited for my daughter and family to say to me: "Come father be with us".

没人说其实这个女孩的父亲还活着。尽管我还在傻傻等着我的女儿和家人对我说:“爸爸，跟我们（一同庆祝）吧。”



'My wife called me and she told me. I said to her why didn't you come to tell me and she said: "We cannot make a personal visit to you..."

“我的妻子给我打了个电话，她告诉我（喜宴的事）。我对她说，'你为什么不过来告诉我？'她说:“我们不能特地跑去你那啊……'”

'Maybe some of you will call this a show. I do not want anybody to go through this thing that I am going through. 

“也许你们中的一些人会把这叫做作秀。我不想让任何人经历我现在所遭受的这种事。”

'A little later I will put an end to my life with the gun I am holding in my hands.' 

“不久之后，我将用我手中持着的这把枪结束我自己的生命。”

During his live-streamed speech friends and relatives sent comments begging him not to take his own life.

在他直播的期间，朋友和亲戚们都在下面发表评论劝他不要自杀。

But Mr Uzun took no notice and apparently went through with his threat. His family rushed around to the house to find his dead body. 

但乌尊先生完全不予理会，将他的死亡威胁进行到底。

Police have launched an investigation and Mr Uzun's body has been taken to a morgue for an autopsy.

警方目前已展开调查，乌尊先生的尸体已被送往停尸房进行尸检。


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aliforniaSoul Paris France 18 hours ago
Better he kill himself instead of his daughter like some fathers do when they feel their daughter has shamed them!

当觉得自己的女儿让他蒙羞后，他自杀的行为可比其他许多因此杀死自己女儿的父亲们强多了。

Karen Bedford United Kingdom 18 hours ago
That's what I thought. Obviously a very controlling man!

我也是这样想的。（他）明显是个控制欲极强的男人！

AGoodwash Elmbridge United Kingdom 15 hours ago
Women are not property! What a tool.

女人不是（某个人的）私产！真是个自尊心过强的混蛋！

Stormy Waters Some where out there United Kingdom 15 hours ago
He wont do that again

他再也不能那样做了。

steve westchester United States 11 hours ago
yeah but he traumatized her for life he wants to make her responsible of his death. I hope she realizes that this is not her fault.

没错，但是他用自己的死使得他的女儿受到了终身的（心灵）创伤，他想让她的女儿觉得自己的死是她一手造成的。我希望她能认识到这不是她的错。

Jules UK 18 hours ago
Narcissist. He didn't kill himself because his daughter was getting engaged but because he wasn't able to control the engagement. I suspect an estranged family and he's trying to teach them a lesson.

自恋狂。他并不是因为女儿订婚才自杀的，而是因为他不能决策女儿的婚姻大事而自杀的。我猜这一家子关系不亲密彼此很疏远吧，而他只是想给他们一个教训。

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liz in LA altadena United States 18 hours ago
bitter man

充满仇恨痛苦的男人。

Fruitbat Chatham United Kingdom 17 hours ago
ex bitter man.

充满仇恨痛苦的已故男人。

JanetLee Aus 17 hours ago
You nailed it. That's exactly it. His final act as a narcissist. He drew people in and traumatised them by saying "You made me do this" bs. No need to feel bad that he did this to himself. His family doesn't need someone like this. Believe me you're better off without him.

你说（形容）的很对！。就是这样。他的最后举措证实了他是个极度自恋的人。他把人们吸引过来，用“是你逼我这么做的”言论来伤害他们的心灵。没有必要感到难过，他这样做全都是为了自己。他的家人也不需要这样的人。相信我，没有他你会过得更好。

devine_sunshine switzerland Switzerland 17 hours ago
Seems she made the right choice. What had she endured leading up to this?

她似乎做出了正确的选择。这之前她遭受忍耐了什么才会造成这样的结局?

liz in LA altadena United States 18 hours ago
He thinks he will make them feel guilty for disrespecting his authority. He is the one who is losing out. No wedding and no grandchildren to love him. Was it really worth it.

他以为（自杀）会让那些不尊重他权威的人使感到内疚。他才是那个失去一切的人。不能参加婚礼、也没有孙子能来爱他。这真的值得吗?

mrlark Kamloops Canada 13 hours ago
I'm guessing he was estranged and his own family didn't see him or have anything to do with him. He likely spent years trying to control his daughter and ex(?)-wife and when that finally failed he decided to do this.

我猜他是被疏远了，连他的家人都没去看望他或是和他保持联系。他可能花了数年时间试图控制他的女儿和(前任？)妻子，当他最终失败时，他决定这样做（自杀）。

thelogicalvoice Houston United States 19 hours ago
Sad that he took his life over something silly as asking for permission to marry but no adult woman needs permission from a man to do anything.

可悲的是，他因诸如准许结婚这类蠢事而自我了断生命，但没有哪个成年女人需要获得男人的许可来做任何事。

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Generation-X Posh part of London United Kingdom 21 hours ago
Its a shame he felt he had to commit suicide over his daughters choices and happiness. RiP.

很遗憾他觉得自己是被女儿的选择和幸福（逼到不行）只能自杀。愿死者安息。

sabon London United Kingdom 19 hours ago
Depends his daughter may have been marrying someone with bad character and he simply couldn't accept it or live with it literally . Its not simply because he didn't like her choosing perhaps

这可能是因为他女儿的结婚对象并非良人或者他只是单纯不能接受和容忍这种事。不会只是因为他不喜欢她的选择（而自杀的）。

liz in LA altadena United States 18 hours ago
He did it to hurt his daughter and stop her marriage.

他这样做是为了伤害他的女儿和阻止她的婚姻。

humblepie Essex United Kingdom 18 hours ago
Rest in peace ? Selfish a-hole that's what he is. His family will have to live their lives with this. He deserves hell.

安息吧?他就是个自私的人。他的家人余生都活在创伤之中。他应该下地狱。

juliek fleet 16 hours ago
It's a shame that some men need total control over the women in their lives and throw a wobbly when they can't - although this wobbly was a touch extreme. Oh well on with the wedding plans

令人遗憾的是，有些男人需要完全控制住自己生活中的女人才行。当他们控住不了的时候，就会勃然大怒——尽管这种勃然大怒是一种极端。哦，好吧，对婚礼计划来说（是极端行为）。

ALIA Australia 11 hours ago
Her life her choice. Same for her father.

她的生活她选择。对她的父亲来说也是如此。

DJ68 Belfast United Kingdom 15 hours ago
At least he didn't kill his daughter. That's what these people usually do.

至少他没有杀死他的女儿。他们这些人通常都那么做。

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Ami bovered Singapore Singapore 17 hours ago
Scores an absolute zero on parenting skills.

在育儿技能上得分绝对是零。

coffeetogo Somewhere United States 17 hours ago
He obviously didn't care for his daughter by doing this. At least he didn't take anyone else with him.

他这样做明显没有为他的女儿考虑。幸好他没有拉别人和他一起死。

beezer kerry Ireland 15 hours ago
You can dress it up as tradition all you like But it's emotional blackmail and that's not a acceptable

你可以随你喜欢把这掩饰成传统观念，但这是情感敲诈，是不能被接受的。

Nat Mcr United Kingdom 17 hours ago
Of course we don't know the full story and it seems that he may have been estranged from his family somehow but either way- if you seriously cared about your daughter then you would not want to leave her without a father regardless of who she marries or anything!

当然，我们并不清楚有关这整件事的来龙去脉，好像是他被他的家人疏远了还是怎样，但不管怎么说——如果你真的关心你的女儿，无论她嫁给谁，你都不会想要离开她让她失去父亲!

manny1980 Glasgow United Kingdom 11 hours ago
He is far far better than many others who kill the one they have issues with before taking their own lives. RIP

比起那些在自杀前无辜杀死很多人的混蛋们，他的行为要好得多。愿死者安息。

Captain Shiner Mojave Desert United States 11 hours ago
He knew his daughter would spill the beans about what he did to her since she was little.

他知道他的女儿会泄露出去他在她小时候所做的事。（所以他自杀了）

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HumourMe Little Fun Vanuatu 15 hours ago
A heart broken father

一个心碎的父亲。

HumourMe Little Fun Vanuatu 15 hours ago
So much compassion and empathy from the West of a culture they don't understand

不了解当地文化却大叫怜悯和同情的西方人可真多啊！

mickdundee alice springs Australia 18 hours ago
I guess he made his point?!!

我猜他这是完美得证实了自己的观点？！

Teller22 Seattle United States 15 hours ago
Sadly pathetic and backward attitudes. But at least he didn't kill her as in oxymoronic honor killings.

可悲无意义又落后的态度。但至少他没有为了顾及尊严而杀了她。

Tim Coleman Nottingham United Kingdom 17 hours ago
Would he have done the same if it had been his son who wanted to marry.

如果他的儿子想娶某人，他也会这么做吗？

AtomicInjun Glendale 13 hours ago
When ego overtakes logic.

当以自我为中心到失去了理性。


Riley123 Portland-- United States 12 hours ago
In a few years he could of had grandchildren enjoyed watching them grow up. This whole approval thing would have been forgotten life goes on. A pointless act to try and hurt his daughter. He died killed himself for nothing.
几年后，他可能会有外孙或外孙女，开心地看着他们成长。关于（准不准许结婚）的事情将被遗忘，生活仍将继续。一个试图伤害他女儿的无意之举。他死的毫无意义。