中国网友: 我目前在英国，想娶一位印度女孩，该怎么做

If I want to marry an Indian girl, what should I do (I am a Chinese, now living in the UK)?

我想娶一位印度女孩，我该怎么做（我是中国人，目前居住在英国）

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Anusuya Nallathambi, whate

First try to know whether the girl's parents are not orthodox and are open to "love" marriage (yes we have such a term in our country).

If they are not orthodox all you have to do is just impress the girl.

首先搞清楚女方的父母是否是传统的，是否对自由恋爱并婚姻持开放态度。

如果女方父母不是传统的，那么你要做的就是给那个女孩留下深刻印象。

But if they are orthodox, then you have to find out the girl's level of persistence. Whether she will stand by you till the end of the struggle of getting the "parents permission". If she is the type to go by her parents' words then there would be not much hope, I will tell you to steer clear of her, to avoid later heart ache.

如果女方父母是传统的，那么得看女孩是否坚持。

她是否会为了得到父母的同意而抗争。

如果女孩是听从父母的那一类型，那么你希望就不大了。那就放手，免得以后痛苦。

I don't think language would be such a problem. Because we are also not that good in English. So don't fret.

Above all this, find out whether she loves you ; whether you guys are compatible. That's the most important thing.

我觉得语言不会是问题。你的英语也说得不好。没必要烦恼。

总之，先看看她是否爱你。你们是否相处得来。这是最重要的。

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Abhinav Kshitij, Spreading knowledge…

It will be unfair to give specific advice with the given set of details. However, I will outline a few points below.

就这么点信息，不大好给你提供具体的建议。

Both Indian and Chinese societies are rather similar on several counts. Most of my friends from China and I share that view. I don't think your religion will affect your chances of marriage. However, English is important for communication purpose.

印度社会和中国社会的某些方面类似。很多中国朋友和我都持这样的看法

宗教不会影响你们的婚姻的。然而，会说英语很重要，方便交流。

I feel both cultures are compatible and there shouldn't be much of a problem, given both have an open mind and a fair approach. Your career and the girl's career will be important.

我感觉两国文化是兼容的，只要思想开放，不会是个大问题。

你的职业是什么，女方的职业是什么，这点很重要。

The important thing here is acceptance on both sides. Good career, strong future prospects, and acceptable personal qualities should be sufficient. There is a rising trend of cross-cultural marriages in India. There are families in traditional parts, now happily accepting partners from different parts of the country and the world.

还有就是双方的接受度。不错的职业，未来前景看好、个人素质高等，满足这些就行。

印度现在越来越多跨国婚姻了。有传统家庭，接受了来自世界其他国家的伴侣。

 

Chaitanya Dhruv, Techie, Entrepreneur, Co-founder at Healthrite International Pvt. Ltd.

There are five points I would like to bring to your notice:

1) Make sure you confess your love to her parents first before her

2) Take her shopping everyday in order to be "Happily married"

3) Make sure her both side of relatives like you before you marry her.

4) Screw English, learn Hindi to impress your in-laws

5) Take her on vacation. Take your in-laws for vacation, take everybody related to her on vacation once in a while.

这里给你5点建议：

1、向女方表白之前，先把你们的事向她父母坦白

2、为了婚姻“幸福美满”，每天带她去购物

3、让女方亲戚喜欢上你

4、学习印地语，让未来的丈母娘留下好印象

5、带她去度假，带你未来的岳父岳母去度假，带女方的亲戚去度假一次

 

Kav Pra, studied Computer Science

Propose her..if she is interested too..then get married. If true love is there..nothing could come in your way..all that matters is the language of heart..Indian parents might be resistant at first but what afterall they want is someone who loves and care for their daughter. Get established in your career and then approach them.All the best!

向她求婚后，如果对方愿意，那就结婚。

只要有真爱，那就没有什么能挡住你们了。

印度父母也许最初会反对，不过父母也是想看到女儿幸福的。

职业生涯规划好，祝你一切顺利。

 

Anonymous

You can easily marry a woman from northern states. After all they have a chinese heritage.

你可以娶印度东北邦的女孩，毕竟她们有中国血统