儿子考60分，印度妈妈发帖庆祝，印网友点赞

 This mom celebrates her son's 60% score in Class 10 board exams! Her post goes viral

这位印度妈妈庆祝儿子在10年级考试中考了60分! 帖子被疯传

 

The examination culture in India is so toxic that it bars anyone from celebrating anything less than a perfect 90 per cent. This unsaid, overwhelming pressure is quite visible in the way we give away all the glory and limelight to the toppers and 90 percentile-rs, while those who manage to pass these exams are hounded by their own marks.

印度的考试文化非常残酷，低于90的成绩都不准庆祝。尖子生以及取得90成绩的学生获得所有荣誉和关注，而分数及格的学生则被自己的成绩所困扰。不言而喻，这带来的巨大压力是显而易见的。

It is almost as if these students have committed a crime by scoring anything less than the desired magical number. In such times, a mother from Delhi, Vandana Katoch, is winning the internet with the way she is unapologetically proud of her son’s marks and is celebrating the same.

因为成绩低于理想的分数，这些学生就像犯了罪一样。然而，一位来自德里的母亲范达娜·卡托克赢得了网友的青睐，她为儿子的成绩自豪不已，并为此庆祝。

The proud mom posted the following message on her Facebook page:

“Super proud of my boy who scored a 60% in Class 10 board exams. Yes, it is not a 90, but that doesn't change how I feel. Simply because I have seen him struggle with certain subjects almost to the point of giving up, and then deciding to give his all in the last month-and-a-half to finally make it through! Here's to you, Aamer. And others like you - fishes asked to climb trees. Chart your own course in the big, wide ocean, my love. And keep your innate goodness, curiosity and wisdom alive. And of course, your wicked sense of humour!”

这位自豪的母亲在其Facebook主页上发布了以下信息:

“我为我儿子感到非常骄傲，他在10年级考试中考了60分。是的，不是90，但我仍为儿子感到骄傲。我看到他在某些科目上非常吃力，几乎就要放弃了，然而在最后一个半月里他努力通过了考试! Aamer，祝贺你以及和你一样的学生。你们完成了不可能的事，就好比让鱼去爬树。亲爱的，在广阔无垠的学海里，绘出你自己的航线，保持你与生俱来的善良、好奇心和才智，当然还有你那顽皮的幽默感!”

This mother’s undeniably sweet and optimistic message for her son clearly won over the internet in no time as the post has garnered more than 5 thousand likes and around 3.3K shares. Her viral post is a refreshingly different take on the way we usually look at and discuss the examination results of our children.

毫无疑问，这位母亲给儿子传递的甜蜜和乐观很快就在网上走红，这条帖子已经获得了5000多个赞，转发达到了约3.3万次。和我们通常看待孩子考试成绩的方式相比，这位母亲的帖子展示了一种全新的视角。

Her views serve as a brilliant reminder of the fact that a child's report card isn’t what defines him/her as a person and is not a way to measure their capabilities and potential either. Our children are much more than the marks they achieve or the ‘Alphabets’ they get in their mark sheets.

她的观点提醒了我们，孩子的成绩单并不能衡量他们的能力和潜力。孩子的能力和潜力远远超过他们所取得的分数或者成绩单上的“等级”。

In an era where the marks achieved in board examinations is deemed to be the judge of a child’s future, Vandana’s post reminds us of our duties as a parent, which is to support, celebrate and encourage our children.

在一个以考试成绩评判孩子未来的时代，范达娜的帖子提醒我们，作为父母，我们有责任支持、赞美和鼓励我们的孩子。

Parents all over Facebook are applauding her amazing message and thanking her for calling out the madness of the rat race of marks.

Facebook上所有的父母都为她惊人的言论鼓掌。

Kudos and huge respect to you Vandana! May parents like you continue to inspire us and help us take off the parental pressure from our children.

向你致敬，范达娜! 愿像您这样的父母继续激励我们，帮助孩子们减轻来自来自父母的压力。

 

印度时报读者的评论：

外文：https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com

This mom certainly deserves applause .

这位母亲的做法值得称赞掌。

 

Prameedula Sadanandam33 mins ago

Hats off to you madam ji this would definitely inspire him to achieve what he wants in future

向您致敬，女士，这一定会激励你的儿子实现他的理想。

 

Gautam Pandit2 hours ago

I being a teacher myself see this kind of ' 99% marks' thought of parents on routine basis . At times parents get depressed when child's mark goes DOWN FROM 98% TO 95% . where will this % culture end ?

Hats off to such parents who understand what their son faces and struggles. it is the need of hour to understand that not everyone can do everything.

See coaching classes mushrooming everywhere and see the success percentage of students. Many students are forced to join Coaching ... Read More

我是一名教师。我也经常看到这种一定要求孩子要考“99分”的家长。当孩子的分数从98分下降到95分时，他们的父母会感到沮丧。辅导班如雨后春笋般涌现，许多学生被迫参加课外辅导。这种考试文化将在何时终结?向那些理解孩子困境的父母致敬，并不是每个人都是万能的。

 

Rudra Prasad

Refreshing news

令人耳目一新

 

M S Ansari4 hours ago

We want more mothers like her...this is called support...this is called love.

需要更多像她这样的母亲……这才叫做支持…这才是爱。

 

Ulhas Kulkarni4 hours ago

90 is NOTHING! Aim at 99.99% in XII.

90分都不算什么，要考99.99分.

 

Tvkon

appreciate the mom who is giving moral support to her kid

欣赏给予孩子精神支持的母亲

 

Jamphel Dorjee8 hours ago

What''s the point being the topper if person doesn''t learn other half real life education that normally we get from home

如果没有生活常识，就算是尖子生又有什么用？

 

WE9 hours ago

I live in US from last 24 years and i was so relieved to know that my kids don''t have to go through our country education system although it is the best and here education system is not ALLOWED to force kids to go to certain extreme level and i have never seen my boys going through and stress and they are graduate now . i am so glad that mothers are gathering up and bringing there words out like these to encourage some more mothers out there from our conservative society. god bless you all.

我在美国生活了24年。我的孩子们不必接受印度这样的教育，这让我感到非常欣慰。在美国，学校不得强迫孩子考高分，我从未见过我的孩子们承受压力，他们现在已经毕业了。

很高兴看到有妈妈能这样鼓励孩子！鼓励更多来自我们那保守社会的妈妈们也能这样做。愿神保佑你们。

 

rajesh pargi

jus support ur child when ever he tries to perform...

只要你的孩子在努力，你就一定要支持他。

 

Mowgli

I want to bite her red lips. Very beautiful.

我想吻他的红唇，真美。

Gautam Pandit2 hours ago

as your name suggests, you are an animal from jungle with no care or respect for human culture

你是一种来自丛林的动物，不关心也不尊重人类文化

 

Mowgli   13 hours ago

Sick minded pervert!

@Mowgli恶心的变态!

 

balaji mahesh Krishnan18 hours ago

deeply appreciate. remember don't pester your child to books till he realizes it is needed for progress

非常欣赏这位妈妈。记住，不要逼你的孩子读书，要让他自己意识到读书才能让自己进步。

 

Mowgli

Does she have any shame ? 60% makes her proud ? Will she be proud if her son rapes a girl tomorrow ? She should break his legs.

她有羞耻感吗?60分也觉得自豪?如果她儿子明天强奸一个女孩，她也会感到自豪吗?她应该打断他儿子的腿。

 

Mowgli   13 hours ago

Exams are to check suitability to do someone else's job.

考试是衡量是否能胜任工作的标准。

 

Mowgli

She looks so hot and beautiful. A Yummy mummy.

她性感又漂亮，是个漂亮妈咪。

 

Mowgli

I want to marry her and reproduce a better son who will score more than 90%.

我想娶她，生一个更优秀的儿子，分数会超过90分的。

 

indiankitty790019 hours ago

Best mom around. Proud of you madam.

最棒的妈妈。为你骄傲，女士。

 

A19 hours ago

those who's mum's don't object to their percentage know their dad's are billionaires. 、

那些不在乎分数的妈妈，她们孩子的父亲都是亿万富翁。

 

Xi Jong Hu   18 hours ago

life is more precious than good marksheet. Though, life is very hard for anyone to succeed in it but we have to accept realities. Mother response is really praiseworthy.

生命比分数更宝贵。在现实生活中，要想成功绝非易事，我们必须接受现实。这位母亲的反应真是难能可贵。

Sameer Koul

Well said...I think life is more than being sucessful. Its about living it and finding the purpose of ones life...

说得好…生活不仅仅是为了成功，而是要活下去，找到人生的目标……

 

Unni Krishnan22 hours ago

super mom... Cheers

超级妈妈……

 

Ginger Guru

Every one should have mother like this, salute !!

每个人的母亲都应该像这样，敬礼!!

 

Jayanta Deka23 hours ago

salute to the mother for her wonderful gesture

向这位妈妈致敬。

 

Sumita Kulkarni

A wise and wonderful mother !

一位聪明而出色的母亲!

 

Bullet

Super Mom..as parents we all have this thought but we are not able to accept due to the pressure from the society.. My son got this much blah blah etc....

超级妈妈. .作为父母，我们都应该有她这样的想法，但迫于社会的压力，我们无法接受儿子考这么点分。

 

Sam Mathew 1 day ago

Salute maam.

向这位女士致敬。