印网民: 我是一个印度人, 为了娶中国女人需要学中文吗

I'm an Indian guy. Do I need to learn Mandarin Chinese language to marry a Chinese lady?

作为一个印度人，为了娶中国女人我需要学中文吗?

 

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Murali Krishna U, knows Mandarin Chinese

I think there two points to be discussed to answer you

About learning Mandarin

In order to start with learning Chinese, some qualities are very important while learning Chinese

1stDon’t get panic watching their script , it’s not necessary to know script while learning Chinese

2ndSpend more time on listening and try to catch some daily usage words and understand it’s pinyin and understand as may related words with the base characters you learnt. Revise it thoroughly

3rdDon’t go with Chinese characters during initial stages which may demoralise you.

4thUse mobile applications and You tube videos for learning Chinese. There is a lots of stuff out there on web. I will share this in a separate article later.

5thMake your own had written flash cards while learning vocabulary and Practice Practice Practice

Complete article at How should I start learning Chinese ? - murali.today

If you need complete learning Chinese archives- Learn Chinese Archives - murali.today

Coming back to another topic about your interest to marry Chinese lady, I don’t know about your intentions of the marriage but if you are looking for permanent citizenship or Green card , then it is not the right choice as I see some friends who marry Chinese , would never be Chinese citizens. Despite their marriage, they still have to take work permit and work visa to work.

I hope I had answered you

我认为要分两点来回答你的问题。

其一，学习普通话：

要开始学中文，一些品质是非常重要的。

1.不要因为看到他们的书写体而惊慌失措，因为在学中文时不一定要掌握书写体。

2.多花时间听，试着掌握一些日常用语，理解它的拼音，并尽可能理解与你所学的基本字符相关的单词。

3.在最初的阶段不要和汉字打交道，这会让你意志消沉。

4.使用应用程序和youtube视频学习中文。网上有很多资料，稍后我将在另一篇文章中分享这一点。

5.在学习词汇时，制作识字卡，然后不断练习。

其二，关于你有意和中国女士结婚，我不知道你的婚姻意图，但是如果你正在寻求永久公民身份或绿卡,那么这不是正确的选择，因为我看到一些朋友和中国人结婚，但没有成为中国公民。尽管他们结婚了，但他们仍然要工作许可和工作签证才能在中国工作。

 

Mukund, Proprietor at U E Consultants (2013-present)

Is the language essential for marriage? Just because you know Mandarin, there is no guarantee that Chinese girl will marry you nor you will get Chinese citizenship by marriage and vice versa in India too unless you decide to settle in third country. Think seriously before you waste your time, money & efforts in learning new language without assessment of future benefits.

语言对于婚姻是必不可少的吗?仅仅因为你会普通话，也不能保证中国女孩会嫁给你，也不能保证你会通过婚姻获得中国公民身份，反之在印度也是如此，除非你决定在第三国定居。在你浪费时间、金钱和精力去学一门新的语言之前，要认真思考清楚。

 

Tianshi Feng, lives in China (1999-present)

That depends, most girls from big city can speak fluency English, however, I think some Indians’ oral pronounciation are confusing. If you want get marry with a chinese girl, you need to live in China, her parents wont let her go to India, thus you need to buy a house in China, considering Chinese housing price，it’s impossible. Assuming you’ve get every thing I said, you need to persuade her parents, nowadays most Chinese have prejudice to Indian. To show your sincerity，you should better learn mandarin and the localism in her hometown

要看情况了，大多数大城市的女孩都能说流利的英语。然而，我认为一些印度人的发音让人困惑。如果你想跟一个中国女孩结婚，你需要住在中国，因为她的父母不会让她去印度。因此你需要在中国买房，考虑中国住房价格，这是不可能的。如果你明白我说的这些，你需要说服她的父母，但现在大多数中国人对印度人有偏见。为了展示你的诚意，你最好学会普通话和她的家乡方言。

 

S.K. Mani, former Vice President. at Reliance Industries Limited (1986-2004)

It is strange to see an uniquely personal question in a public platform. These are matters that are left to entirely to the persons concerned. It is to be settled between the parties involved and his families and friends. I think all others have no business in these. matters.

在公共平台上看到一个涉及私人的问题是很奇怪的。这类事情应该由当事人自己处理，由当事人和他的家人和朋友来解决。我认为其他人都与此无关。

 

Vijay Sharma, former . Labour Welfare Commissioner Central MSW iss Agra at Ministry of Defence, India (1980-2014)

These are entirely personal decision or issues between the two.If you are a business magnet or top industrialist..she will learn all your system to adjust.

If you are a migrant Labour or professional,you have to learn language,food habits are other social and cultural system.

这完全由个人决定。如果你是一个商业大亨或顶级实业家，女方会反过来学习你所在国家的文化来迁就你。

如果你是一个农民工或上班族，那你必须学习对方语言，饮食习惯等等来迁就女方。

 

Siloo Kapadia, studied Education at India

I'm an Indian guy. Should I need to learn Mandarin Chinese language to marry a Chinese lady?

If you are living in China/Taiwan then yes. Otherwise, not really. Ask yourself, does she need to learn Hindi in order to marry you?

如果你要在中国大陆/台湾生活，那就要学。如果不是，那就不必了。不妨问问你自己，为了嫁给你，她需要学习印地语吗?

 

Kala Subramanian

Well if you both cannot converse in any common language then it’s kinda obvious that one of you has to make an attempt to learns the others language.

If it’s a pure hypothetical question then my man start your language lessons and then go bride hunting in China . If you have already met the lady of your dreams I wonder how did you both ‘talk’ .

Mandarin is the most commonly / widely spoken version . They do have few other regional dialects .

Good luck my man .

如果你们不能用彼此都会说的语言交谈，那么很明显你们中的一个必须尝试学习对方的语言。

如果这是一个纯粹的假设问题，那么哥们，你就得开始学习语言课程，然后去中国找新娘。如果你已经见过你的梦中情人了，我想知道你们是怎么“交谈”的。

普通话是最常用/最广泛使用的版本，他们也有其它地方方言。

祝你好运，伙计。

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Binati Sheth, Frustrated Engineer, Closet Writer, Shōnen Otaku

If your Chinese lady cannot speak in any other language but mandarin, you’ll have to learn the language otherwise the universal language of love will do (lol)…

如果女方除了普通话不会说其它语言，那你就必须学习普通话。

 

Kanchana Muralidhar, Online Journalist at Rainbow Organisation

Yes , she may not know English so you have to learn Mandarin

是的，她可能不懂英语，所以你得学普通话

 

 

Duvvuri Venkataramakrishna, Ex Civil Engineer With BSNL,, Consultant & Valuer

Yes unless she knows English. Whether you learn Mandarin or she learns Hindi depend upon where you settle after marriage.

是的，除非她懂英语。是你学普通话还是她学印地语，取决于你们婚后在哪里定居。

 

Suchindranath Aiyer

Recommended but not essential

建议学，但不是必不可少的。

 

Zhou Dawei

Yes. Otherwise you are restricted to choosing from a much smaller pool of women who can speak English or your language.

是的。否则，你只能从会说英语或印度语言的女性中选择。

 

Shivam Agarwal

Love doesn’t need to be expressed by language but knowing a bit of Mandarin will help you communicate with your wife in a better way and it won’t do any harm

爱不需要用语言来表达，但懂一点普通话会帮助你更好地与妻子沟通，再说学普通话也没什么坏处。

 

Rani Kuberan, lived in India

Why not…it will help in various way….

为什么不学？它将在方方面面都对你有帮助。

 

Ashish Shukla, works at HCL Technologies

With a reason like MARRAIGE!!! WHY DON”T YOU???!!!

[EDIT] AS SOON AS I POSTED IT, I REALISED MY MISTAKE, PLEASE FORGIVE ME FOR I AM NOT MARRIED. A BETTER ANSWER WOULD BE:

With are reason like WIFE!!! WHY DON”T YOU???!!!

出于结婚这种原因，为什么不学？为了娶媳妇，干嘛不学？

 

Thangiah Kannan, BSc ( Mathematics) from University of Madras (1967)

If you are going to live there it is the necessity otherwise if she is coming to live with you then when can learn your language . In due course both of you should learn other's language.

如果你要在那里生活，这是必须的。如果她要和你在印度生活，那要到什么时候她才能学会你的语言。在适当的时候，你们两个都应该学习对方的语言。

 

Josh Youlan, former Accountant at Goldman Sachs

Possibly but really Chinese girls go for white men

也许要吧，但实际上中国女孩更喜欢白人男性。

 

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