14%日本女性在第一次约会时想得到亲密关系 [日本媒体]

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TOKYO —Everyone has different expectations when they go out on a first date with someone. Maybe you expect to eat some great food and engage in some wonderfully pleasant but generally stilted first date conversation. Maybe you expect nothing more than a quick cup of coffee so you and your date can get to know each other without feeling locked into an hours-long affair in case your date reveals themselves to be, like, a serial killer or something.

日本-每个人跟别人第一次约会的时候都会有点不一样的期待.或许是想要吃一顿大餐,来点只有第一次约会才会有的奇妙而又愉快的对话.或许是除了一杯速溶咖啡什么也不期待,这样一个小时之内你就能知道有没有感觉,或者暴露出对方一些事,比如连环杀手或者什么的。

Or, like 14.3% of Japanese women, maybe you expect the first date to end with not just a goodnight kiss, but also mind-blowing coitus.

或者,像14.3%的日本女性那样,期待在第一次约会结束的时候不光能有个晚安吻,最好能有点令人兴奋的性行为.

Anyway, let’s take a look at some of the reasoning provided by individual survey respondents:

无论如何,让我们看看其他受访者给我们的建议

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Would not have sex on the first date

第一次约会不会啪啪啪

“If I go in with the expectation of sex, I feel like the guy wouldn’t respect me.”

如果我顺从了那种啪啪啪的期望，我觉得那个家伙不会尊重我

“I’m not that easy!”

我没那么贱

“I’m fine with a kiss on the first date, but I feel like sleeping over would lead to a speedy breakup.”

第一次约合接吻是可以的，但是我觉得啪啪啪会导致很快分手

“I don’t want to date the type of guy that tries to get a girl to put out that fast.”

我不会跟那种一心想着找个姑娘啪啪啪的人约会

“I think it’s important to get to know each other first. The sex can happen after we get close.”

在我看来，第一次约会的时候，重要的是相互了解，啪啪啪的事情，等我们关系更近的时候，可以有

“I promised myself I would wait until marriage.” (Cultural note: The abstinence approach is super rare in largely secular Japan, but the source article doesn’t indicate if this woman had some kind of religious affiliation or not.)

我对我自己发誓我会等到结婚的时候才啪啪啪（注释：禁欲在广泛世俗化的日本是非常罕见的，但是文章没有指出这个菇凉是不是有某种宗教隶属）

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The ApartmentSEP. 11, 2015 - 05:56PM JST
mmm....surprising....

 (⊙v⊙)嗯。。。感觉很意外。。。

David HowellSEP. 11, 2015 - 06:10PM JST
****I've always believed that good sex is the result of a loving relationship. Bed hopping is like scratching an itch.

我一直深信发生性关系应该是恋爱的终极结果。跟人上床就像挠痒痒一样。

Thunderbird2SEP. 11, 2015 - 09:07PM JST
Look at the answers to this:

让我们看看这些回答：

Would have sex on the first date

第一次约会会啪啪啪

“Sex is important. I want to make sure our ‘styles’ in the bedroom match up before getting more serious.”

“性很重要滴。在我们深交之前，我想确保我们在床上的‘格调’很匹配。”

“I only date guys I already like, so why not?”

“我只约我已经喜欢的男生，所以为什么不呢？”

“I come prepared, but I think if a guy actually tried to go that far on the first date, I’d freak out.”

“我会有准备的，但是我认为，如果一个男生居然真的在我们的第一次约会上就想啪啪啪，我会吓一跳的。”

“I don’t really want to do it on the first date, but, considering that it may happen, I only go on dates with guys I’m comfortable with.”

“我不是真的想在第一次约会时就做那种事情，但是，考虑到可能会发生，我只会跟让我感到舒服的男生去约会。”

“A woman always has to go in prepared.”

“女生必须时刻准备着。”

The last three do not intend to have sex... but they expect to - one says she's freak out, one says she doesn't want to and the last one seems rather resigned to the fact.

最后的三名女性虽然不想啪啪啪，但她们期望：一个说她会吓一跳，而另一个说她不想那样，最后一名似乎更愿意屈服于现实。

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MarkGSEP. 12, 2015 - 01:13AM JST
Sex on the first date is reckless. David Howell shares my view.
For the gaijins, first date sex is easier for you simply because your more 'exotic'. Curiosity and maybe hopes you want more play a part in that unscientific percentage.

第一次约会就上床是鲁莽的举动。David Howell跟我看法一样。
对于外国人，第一次约会很容易就能上床，只因为你有“异域风情”。好奇心或者对你想要更多的希望给那不科学的百分比中贡献了一部分。

HomotenashiSEP. 12, 2015 - 06:15AM JST
Wow, my wife is in the 14%. For some reason, I turned her down. I really liked her and just wanted to kiss her. Later I found out she was already on the pill.

呜哇，我妻子就在那14%里。但出于一些原因我拒绝了她。我真的很喜欢她，只是想亲亲而已。后来我发现她已经在吃避孕药了。

zones2surfSEP. 12, 2015 - 08:02AM JST
Note that the language of the survey doesn’t ask if the women “want” to have sex on a first date, only whether or not they “intend to”/”expect to” – so we’ll let readers determine the gender relations/societal implications of that on their own.
"Want" is very different from "expect to". I am not challenging the results of the survey, but it would be interesting to see a more precise survey question/questions. As in what percentage "expect to" but it is more of a "shoganai" thing versus those that "expect to" because they "want to".

留意问卷的使用的语言没有在问女人是否“想要”第一次约会就上床，只是说她们是否“有意”或者“期待”，所以我们让读者自己来判断在此事上两性之间的关系和社会影响。
“想要”跟“期待”完全不一样。我不是在质疑问卷的结果，不过在问卷中使用更确切的问题会很有趣。比方说有百分之多少的“期待”是因为“没有办法” vs “期待”是因为她们“想要”。

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MocheakeSEP. 12, 2015 - 11:42AM JST
One hundred percent of the non-Japanese guys I know expect to score on the first date.

我认识的非日本男人100%都想第一次约会就上床 。

TessaSEP. 12, 2015 - 06:20PM JST
I don't have any moral objection to it, but for me it would be like reading the end of a book before the beginning.
Personally, I love the thrill of the chase, just love it!
Getting there is half the fun.

我在道德上的不反对但是对我来说这感觉就像看书时先看结尾一样。
我个人更喜欢追求时的快感，爱死了
上床只是其中一半的乐趣

Maverick7SEP. 12, 2015 - 10:28PM JST
14% seems a little low . I think more should of been asked . Sex on a first date might sound fun but just be carful . Woman are just as bad as men when it comes to sex they are just better at lying than men . Snakes with tits !

14%感觉有点低了。我觉得他们应该调查更多的对象。第一次约会就上床听起来可能挺好但是要小心。女人在啪啪啪这点上和男人一样恶劣，只是她们更会撒谎。长着奶子的毒蛇！

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Wc626SEP. 12, 2015 - 11:00PM JST
One hundred percent of the non-Japanese guys I know expect to score on the first date.
@Mocheake. I once had a Black guy for a roomate here on base. This guy was playing all these J-gals way beyond 14%. He didn't even have to try. I swear, our room needed a revolving door. Not an ordinary door with hinges.

我认识的非日本男人100%都想第一次约会就上床 。
我以前在基地里有个黑人室友。他玩弄的日本女人的远不止14%。甚至都不用主动做什么。我发誓，我们房间的合页门需要换成旋转门。@Mocheake

MoonrakerSEP. 13, 2015 - 12:38PM JST
With good conversation at a premium what else is there to do?

能说会道就够了

Peter PayneSEP. 13, 2015 - 05:22PM JST
Where would these women be found? Ha, I jest.

哪里能找到这些女人？哈，开玩笑的。