每周性爱一次：外国网友怎么看？ [英国媒体]

The key to a successful relationship? Havesex just ONCE a week: Doing it more frequently makes no difference to happinesslevels

成功感情的关键？每周只要一次性爱：更多性爱并不能让你更幸福



There are countless articles and self-helpbooks that claim couples who have lots of sex are the happiest.

 
有无数文章和自助书籍都宣称拥有更多性爱的夫妻越快乐。
 
But a new study debunks these claims bysuggesting the key to a successful relationship may instead be simply havingsex once a week.
 
但是一项新的研究揭穿了这种说法，称感情成功的关键可能在于每周只拥有一次性爱。
 
Based on surveys of more than 30,000 peopleover 40 years, researchers found happiness levels increased among couples who hadsex once a week, but there was no rise in satisfaction levels beyond thisfrequency.
 
对3万多人进行40多年的研究后，研究人员发现伴侣每周性爱一次幸福感就会提升，而超过一次的话，那满足感就不会提升。



'Although more frequent sex is associated with greater happiness, this link wasno longer significant at a frequency of more than once a week,' lead researcherfrom the University Toronto-Mississauga Amy Muise said.
 
“虽然更多的性爱与更高的幸福感存在关联，但是如果每周性爱超过一次的话这样的关联将不再有效，”多伦多-米西索加大学的首席研究员AmyMuise如是说。
 
'Our findings suggest that it is importantto maintain an intimate connection with your partner, but you don't need tohave sex everyday as long as you're maintaining that connection.'
 
“我们的研究发现表明与伴侣保持一种亲密的连接是重要的，但是只要你维持了这种连接，你并没有必要每天都性爱。

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Markjcuk, Newcastle, United Kingdom, 1 dayago
Once a week....? Every week? Clearly no onewho is actually married was involved in this!
 
每周一次。。。？每周？显然已经结婚的人是不会这么干的！
 
A. Wright-Burke, London Bridge, UnitedKingdom, 1 day ago
If you're not doing it that often then it'stime to make the break...
 
如果你和伴侣没有经常性爱，那是时候分手了。。。
 
NickO, Rochester, United Kingdom, 1 day ago
Once a week would be amazing after 25 yearsof marriage. But sex isn't everything and my wife is irreplaceable so wouldn'tchange a thing.
 
结婚25年后，每周一次性爱是极好的。但是性不是全部，我妻子是无可替代的，所以一切照常。
 
PC, Liverpool, United Kingdom, 1 day ago
Surprise sex is the best thing to wake upto every morning............................................ unless you're inprison.
 
意外性爱是每天早上醒来的最好礼物。。。。。。。。。除非你在监狱里。
 
timetostopthis55, Dubai, UAE, 11 hours ago
Brilliant!!!!
 
楼上棒棒哒！！！
 
DaveTheVirgin, Southampton, United Kingdom,1 day ago
The article only covers sex between'couples'. What about by yourself, surely that counts too? (I must be thehappiest man on earth in that case).
 
这篇文章只涉及到“夫妻”之间的性爱。那自己和自己之间的性爱呢，那应该也算吧？（如此看来，我绝对是世界上最幸福的人）。
 
LikeItOrLumpIt, Wakefield, United Kingdom,1 day ago
You know you're over doing it when themuscles on one arm are way bigger than the other. Enjoy :D
 
当你一只手臂上的肌肉比另外一只大很多时，你就知道你过度了。好好享受。
 
Batmun, Worcester, United Kingdom, 1 dayago
Sex once a week in the bedroom Then once aweek in the kitchen, living room and dining room And then look to going outside
 
每周一次在卧室，然后每周一次在厨房，然后是客厅和餐厅，最后到室外。
 
BlueForLife, Here, United Kingdom, 1 dayago
Lol
 
哈哈
 
MidlandMan, Worcestershire, United Kingdom,1 day ago
At a marital relations seminar, the speakertried to demonstrate the link between frequency of sex and happiness. He asked"All those who have sex every day, put up your hands." Some peopleput their hands up and he pointed out that those people all had big smiles ontheir faces. "Put up your hands if you have sex once a week," heasked. Many hands went up and he pointed out the nonchalant looks on thepeople's faces. "Now, hands up if you only do it once a month," heasked and those who raised their hands had faces like thunder. Just then, henoticed a couple in their eighties, beaming, whooping and chuckling loudly, inthe front row, and he realised that they hadn't put their hands up at all yet.He asked them "How often do you have sex?" The old man said"Once every ten years." The expert was perplexed and asked, "Buthow can this possibly be?!" The old lady screamed "Tonight's thenight!!!!"
 
在一次婚姻关系研讨会上，发言人极力想要表明性爱频率和幸福的关联。他问道“每天过性生活的人，举手。”某些人举起了他们的手，然后他指出这些人的脸上露出了巨大的笑容，“每周性爱一次的请举手，”很多人都举起了手，然后他指出这些人的脸上都是冷淡的表情。“现在，每个月一次性爱的请举手，”然后他说那些举手的人的脸上就像打雷一样。突然间，他发现前排坐着一对80岁的老夫妻，他们喜气洋洋，大声的发出笑声和呵呵声，然后他意识到他们根本就没有举手。于是他问“你们多经常性爱？”老爷子说“十年一次。”这名专家迷惑不解并问道，“那怎么可能呢？！”老妇人尖叫道“就是在今晚！！！！”
 
KiraGodOfNewWorld, Nopeydenopenope, BritishVirgin Islands, 1 day ago
Guys! I have figured out why your wifedoesn't want sex a lot, its because they are board of just the same sex again,and again. There was a study where women and men were shown a very.... Well"sexy" video, and watched it over and over again. The men got"excited" each and every time, while the women got board of it afterwatching it about 4 times. So, guys, try and spice it up in bed, maybe a littleroleplaying? ;) . And girls! You need to try too! Its your job as well!
 
伙计们！我知道你们的妻子为什么不想经常过性生活了，因为每次性爱都一成不变，所以他们厌烦了。在一次研究中，男人和女人共同观看“性感”视频，不断重复的观看，男人每次都“兴奋”，而女人看了4次后就厌烦了。所以男人们，在床上要有点情趣，来点角色扮演什么的。而女孩们！你们也要去尝试！那也是你们的工作啊！
 
Paleo_man, London, United Kingdom, 1 dayago
You make it sound like a chore. More thanonce a week doesn't improve happiness, so what, we shouldn't do it more? Ithink the people in this study group were doing it wrong. I get happy justseeing the wife take her bra off.
 
被你说得像家务难事似的。每周超过一次就无法提高幸福感，那又如何，就不能有更多性爱了吗？我觉得这个研究的参与者都做错了。我看到妻子解开文胸都觉得开心。
 
bxlady, Surprise, United States, 1 day ago
I don't have sex for happiness. I have sexfor the orgasm and closeness with my husband. Okay for the orgasm. I can cuddlefor closeness. Oh yeah and we have sex several times a week because he's acranky man if we don't. Lucky for him we both enjoy sex, so it's not a chore.Once a week is a joke. Once a day is my goal.
 
我做爱不是为了幸福感。是为了性高潮以及与丈夫保持亲密。性高潮没问题，而与丈夫拥抱在一起就可以获得亲密感。是的，我们一周性爱好几次，因为不做爱的话他就会变得非常暴躁。所以他是幸运的，因为我们两人都喜欢性爱，所以对我们来说并不是什么家务难事。每周一次真是个笑话。每天一次是我的目标。
 
NotNice, Northamptonshire, United Kingdom,1 day ago
Hey, if your husband is not up to it giveme a call to fill in every day ;-)
 
如果你丈夫不行，打电话找我啊。
 
Jules, Surrey, 1 day ago
Sex maniac.
 
性欲狂。
 
someathat DLS, huddersfield, UnitedKingdom, 1 day ago
The key to a successful marriage? Do whatworks for YOU
 
成功婚姻的关键？做适合你们的事情。
 
bog off, bog off, United Kingdom, 1 day ago
Sex? What the heck is that? Ohyes...something I did 30 years ago before being married.
 
性？那是什么鬼东西？哦，是啊，那是30年前我结婚之前做的事情。
 
Qazplm, London, United Kingdom, 1 day ago
LOL Remind me never to get married!
 
哈哈，你这是在提醒我不要结婚吗！
 
Ian, East Yorkshire, United Kingdom, 1 dayago
Once per week would be classed asdebauchery in our house
 
在我们家里，每周一次就会被认为是放荡的了。
 
I Am All Right Jack, Ribble Valley, 1 dayago
And if you want to be really happy have sexonce a week with a few people
 
如果你真想获得幸福感的话，那就每周与多人来一次性爱。