6种形式的父母关注可以影响孩子未来的成功 [英国媒体]

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The saying goes: 'It doesn't matter where you came from. All that matters is where you're going.'

常言道：”你出生卑微并不重要，重要的是你是否志存高远“。

But new research suggests that this might not be the case.

但是新的研究表明，可能并非如此

A study now suggests that children of supportive parents are richer and happier in later life.

现在一项新的研究表明，有父母支持的孩子在往后的生活中更加幸福和富有。

Researchers from Kobe University in Japan found that mothers and fathers who help their children in their early years ensure they have higher salaries when they grow up.

日本神户大学的研究员们发现，如果父母在孩子幼年时帮助他们，那么他们长大后工资水平会更高。

They are also more likely to get high grades at school and have less chance of dying early.

他们（孩子）也更有可能在学校获得高分，并且他们的早逝几率也变得更小了。（早逝，受教育不好会早逝？？？？？什么理论）

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The study involved an online survey of 5000 men and women who were asked about their relationship with their parents.

该项研究涉及了5000名男性和女性，在线调查了他们和父母的关系。

Participants were asked to agree or disagree with statements like: ‘My parents trusted me’ and ‘I felt like my family had no interest in me’.

诸如“我父母信任我”及“我感觉父母对我没兴趣”这样的陈述只能用同意或不同意来回答。

The researchers used this data to split parents into six groups: supportive strict indulgent easygoing harsh and average.

研究者根据数据把父母分成六个组：支持型，严厉型，放纵型，随和型，苛刻型和正常型。

Supportive parents gave their children high levels of trust showed a high level of interest in them and spent a lot of time with them.

支持型父母高度信任孩子，对孩子展现极强兴趣且会花大量时间陪伴孩子。

In later life these children were happier on average earned more and were better overall.

这些孩子平均上晚年更幸福，赚的更多，总体也过的更好。

Strict parents were defined as giving their children little independence not trusting them and imposing lots of rules.

严厉型父母几乎不给孩子自主选择权，不信任他们还会给其强加许多规则。

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These children grew up to be wealthier than average and did well at school - but were not happy and were more stressed.

这些孩子长大后会更富有，在学校表现也很好，但是他们并不快乐，压力也很大。

Indulgent parents were not strict at all and spent an average amount of time with their children.

放纵型父母则毫无严厉可言，花在孩子们身上的时间也只是平均水平。

Easygoing parents showed low levels of interest with their child whilst harsh parents did not trust their children and gave them little independence.

随和型父母放在孩子身上的注意力会比较少，而苛刻型父母并不信任自己的孩子，管束太多。

In all three of these categories what was missing was the positive mentality that only children of supportive parents had.

以上三种类型的孩子所缺失的是支持型父母的孩子所具有的积极心态。

They also earned less overall than children whose parents supported them.

这些类型的孩子以后的收入也比支持型父母的孩子来得少。

Parents in the average category were a control to compare to the rest. 
这里将正常型父母作为其他类型的参照标准。


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RheaK UK United Kingdom 10 minutes ago
Be strict when you need to be....but not fly off the handle over the slightest little thing like my Mother did - it was like walking on egg shells. Children absolutely need boundaries though.

该严格的时候就严格，但是不要像我妈那样碰到一点小事就勃然大怒——好比行走在蛋壳上。 孩子绝对是需要一个界限。
 
archon Witness Protection Program United Kingdom 18 minutes ago
To quote Homer Simpson "what with the TV and internet they basically bring themselves up".

 引用Homer Simpson的话说：“他们基本上用电视和网络给他们自己带来了所需要的东西。”
 
Henry Noel Dover_Kent United States 19 minutes ago
The ones listed here are the extreme types and none I think are typical.

 这里列出来的都是极端的类型，没有我认为的典型的类型。
 
tuds Crowthorne 21 minutes ago
Surely as a parent you move between the groups not being a particular type all the time.

作为父母，肯定是在不同的类型中转换，不可能永远都用一种类型来教育孩子。

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DIL Benefit Britain 28 minutes ago
Did someone actually pay for this Tosh ?

真有人花钱做这种研究？
 
Abel Magwitch Tunbridge Wells United Kingdom moments ago
You did.

 你会的。
 
Bert Dock Liverpool 42 minutes ago
The answer to this question is simple. I`m the on who trys to bring good order and routine into our lives. My wife who I love dearly is the one that destroys it all by being too soft. No more to be said.

 这个问题的回答很简单。作为父亲我是比较严格的，但是我深爱的妻子太过温和，所以抵消了我的努力。没有其他要说的了。
 
Mrs Boaty McBoatface Milton Keynes United Kingdom 1 hour ago
If my daughter is still alive by the end of the day I must be doing something right!!

如果我女儿还活着，我一定做一些正确的事！

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Firehorse66 Middlesbrough United Kingdom 1 hour ago
Belfast John... It was a humerous remark

 约翰贝尔法斯特这是个幽默的评论
 
JohnM Melbourne 1 hour ago
Surley someone has made a list of six types of scientists ...

 有些人列出了科学家的6个类型。
 
Reality_MIrror Fallbrook United States 1 hour ago
1) Annoying 2) obsessed with useless information 3) hired to distract 4) completely sold out 5) merely frivolous and 6) possibly insane.

 1）恼人的 2）对没用的信息着迷的 3)被雇佣去分散注意力的 4）为了售卖的 5）仅仅无聊的 6）可能疯了的。
 
Kimmy Kimz San Fernando Trinidad and Tobago 31 minutes ago
Haha true.

 哈哈 没错。
 
Pell Birmingham United Kingdom 1 hour ago
Surely the role of any parent is to educate by example.

父母应该做的是言传身教。

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Erica Dorset United Kingdom 49 minutes ago
that's what this study is about of course

 当然，这就是这项研究所讲的。

Myopioncounts London United Kingdom 1 hour ago
IT doesn't matter how you bring children up if they don't respect you when they get older you've lost.

如果孩子不尊重你，那么你怎么抚养孩子都不重要，当你老了，你就输了。
 
Nick Fife United Kingdom 1 hour ago
Surely how you bring them up affects their respect for you?

 当然，你养育他们的方法也影响到他们对你的尊敬。
 
jamie79 sydney 25 minutes ago
thats what he said nick.

楼上的，他说的就是那意思。
 
milkgirl Central Coast Australia 2 hours ago
no matter what type of parent you've been you'll still get nothing for mothers' day birthday or Christmas no love no gratitude no love - being a parent is overrated.

 不管你是什么类型的父母， 在母亲节，生日或者圣诞节那天，孩子不会给你送礼物，没有感恩，没有爱——为人父母这件事被高估了。
 
Renee New Zealand 1 hour ago
In fact I don't (and never have) care if I don't get a single thing on those days because if they're not caring on all the other days of the years then the gift or recognition means diddly sqwat!
 
 实际上，我不在乎有没有在这些节日里收到礼物，从来没在乎过。因为如果在其余的时间里不关心我， 那么这些礼物就是一堆废物。